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7/10
I have no reason to like this movie but I love it
CatfishOpinions1 May 2020
This movie is like a good piece of toast. Buttery sourdough toast. There's not very much substance or nutrition to it, but sometimes you just sit down and get all cozy and enjoy a buttery piece of sourdough toast.

It's Complicated is an average dumb comedy movie that's so much fun to watch for literally no reason. maybe it's the fantasy. maybe it's the upbeat Hanz Zimmer bossa nova music. maybe it's the idea of working at a cute bakery, living in a multi-million dollar home, having three girly friends to spill drama with, and having a sTeAmY lOvE tRiAnGlE as a 50 something year old. But I watch this movie all the time when I'm feeling down or just want to be happy and cozy and giggle a little. This movie brings me so much joy and I don't even know why.

I don't know whether to recommend this movie or not. But I can say, it makes me very happy and I smile every time I watch it. Like eating a good piece of toast.
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8/10
Meyers Best...Streep sexy at 60
ClaytonDavis10 December 2009
In the best work of her career Nancy Meyers presents the funny comedy, It's Complicated starring Meryl Streep, Alec Baldwin, and Steve Martin.

This fast-paced, smart comedy is everything in a mature work that didn't succeed with films such as Something's Gotta Give. Meyers creates three authentic characters with sympathy and everyday qualities that make them identifiable and first-class writing genius.

The film tells the story of Jane (Streep), who's ten year post-divorce from Jake (Baldwin), who left her for a much younger woman, hasn't necessarily become water under the bridge. Trying to find some type of happiness in her later years, she meets Adam (Martin), a sensitive architect, who is designing her new kitchen and has had his fair share of divorce stories in the past. But when attending their son's college graduation, Jane and Jake find that everything is as simple as it once seemed.

The cast here is one of the best ensemble works of the year. Meryl Streep is naturalistic and in top form showing her sexier side at 60. Streep shows that she can still create a character from scratch and make the woman as real as anyone walking down the streets of New York City. It's one of her funnier turns in years.

Alec Baldwin, in one of his best performances to date, shows immaturity and careless can get you far in a film. Showing top comedic work, Baldwin seems in the hunt for Oscar recognition. His charm and magnetism is quite surprising as we haven't seen him give a performance this funny ever, not even in his hit sitcom "30 Rock." Steve Martin, who I have found overdoes his comedy in some of his later years in film is in control and utterly enjoyable. Martin shows a sensitive side reminiscent of his works in Roxanne and Parenthood, and finds an audience cheer with empathetic tendencies can get you right back to what you do best. It's a return to form for Martin.

John Krasinski, who plays Harley, one of Jane's daughter's fiancée, is totally hilarious and drives away from the comedy we once found funny in his "Jim" on NBC's hit sitcom "The Office." Krasinski, in many ways upstages some of the veterans on film as he steals a lot of the spotlight. Krasinski is an outstanding talent to watch out for in the near future as he branches out into more demanding roles.

It's Complicated couldn't have succeeded without Nancy Meyers finally showing what good writing can do with the right people, time, and effort put into place. It's the work of her career and she remains a dark horse for an Oscar nomination for Best Original Screenplay. Though the film will definitely appeal to an older generation, the younger can appreciate the zeal and comical dialogue shared between the players. The film does run a bit long and loses some of it's spark in the finale act, but it's pure entertainment and a must-see of the holiday season.
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6/10
Its simple, really
Philby-325 February 2010
"It's Complicated" is pretty simple, actually. Successful Californian food store owner Meryl Streep has been happily divorced from her former husband Alex Baldwin for the last ten years, but on a trip to New York to attend their son's graduation, she starts an affair with him. He happens to have re-married, to a younger woman, while she becomes involved with her architect Steve Martin. Will Meryl and Alec get back together again, or will she set off into the sunset with Steve. ​What will the children think? Do we care?

Well, not a lot. The lifestyle depicted is one in which everything is perfect, especially the cast's complexions. There are no human imperfections depicted, unless you count lust. All the characters, with the partial exception of Meryl, are stereotypes – people from Advertising land. In real life things are much more complicated.

That said, this is a superior piece of its type and it passes the watch test (I didn't look at my watch while viewing it). True, I could watch Meryl reading the phone book, and yes the dialogue was witty and the set pieces funny, and I had some guilty enjoyment from all the affluence. But really it was all too sweet, like Meryl's chocolate cake. Alex Baldwin does a passable LA lawyer while Steve Martin seems to be in the wrong movie.
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6/10
Conflicted about "Complicated"
cliffgold-125 December 2009
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I am conflicted about "It's Complicated." As you would expect, the acting is impeccable. Three exceptional actors (Queen Meryl, 30 Rock's Emmy winner Alec Baldwin, and Steve Martin) ply their craft perfectly. She is Jane, a late-50s divorcée, luxury bakery owner, and mother of three grown kids. Jake (Baldwin) is the cad of an ex-husband who remarried a much younger woman, Agness (played by Lake Bell) but who remains close to the kids and even to Jane. Martin plays Adam, the architect who has designed Jane's dream home addition, which includes the kitchen she always wanted (a nod to her turn as Julia Child in Julie & Julia). When the whole family goes to New York for the youngest child's graduation, the chick flick begins. The kids go off to a party, leaving Jane to dine by herself in the hotel restaurant/bar. Jake is there alone, too, since his wife and her precocious son conveniently stayed home when the kid got sick. Surprise! Jane and Jake end up drinking and eating at the bar, having a good old time and landing in the sack. The PG bedroom scenes are the best in the movie.

As the trailer depicts, the two start an unusual affair, she feeling guilt, he having second thoughts about his new marriage. Jane confides in her best friends (played by all-star veterans Rita Wilson, Mary Kay Place and Alexandra Wentworth), who are totally superfluous to the film, and her shrink, all of whom encourage her to pursue her indiscretion. Enter Adam, a wild and sensitive guy, as the nice guy Jane needs. He and Baldwin are polar opposites. By now, we all know where the film is headed.

So what's not to like? Plenty. Writer/director Nancy Meyers hates philandering men. Fine. So why is Jane's character painted so sympathetically? She's doing the same thing to Agness that broke up her marriage and sent her into a 10-year skid. Meyers, who also directed chick flicks "What Women Want," "Something's Gotta Give," and "The Holiday," lets the movie lag for almost 20 minutes in the middle. I wanted to scream: Move it along! The film doesn't hit its stride until 75 minutes in, propelled by an unlikely scene where Jane and Adam share a joint and make fools of themselves at a party. Lastly, just when you think the movie is going to give you an unconventional ending, it doesn't. I adore the actors, like the genre, bought the premise, and ultimately was disappointed.
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7/10
Familiar story with a simple flow
buddhikamh10 February 2010
Well for a start this a familiar story to most movie lovers I guess. Divorced couple going through hard times in their new lives, coming together because of some family get together, refreshing their relationship and so on….. But should say its not anything boring, it has some real moments and good laughs.

Well after years of separation of separation much have changed. Maybe after all they have changed into the people they always wanted each other to be ? (This too seem to be the point most similar story movies trying to capture as well) So its all about decisions, there are also other factors such as their children, new partners, careers etc.

About the story of the movie I'm not going much into detail as it might ruin the movie for you. Well talking about the acting senior actors/actress do OK. Alec Baldwin & Steve Martin do a good job. But sometimes younger group seems to go over the top with over acting. Well maybe its not that bad, maybe its just me. Also when watching the movie all characters seems to be given with strict orders of what kind of stereotype he/she is. Especially the minor characters; for example take Harley - funny man in charge of comical department of the movie, Gabby – innocent/childish daughter, Adam - geeky architect , Agnes – evil woman (which is bit of a twist really, because after all she is the legal wife of the main character, who's having the affair with the 'good' woman).

One reason I watched the movie was its said to be a good comedy, and happy to say it really is. Even with serious events, there are few laughs around. Sometimes its obvious that comical part is bit detached and added artificially to the story. But it really tickles, so Harley has done a good job.

All in all as I said it's a familiar but interestingly done story, hilarious moments, good acting from the main lot. Even though the title says 'Its Complicated' movie it self is just an ordinary. ;) So in conclusion it's a good movie to watch.
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Review: 2 thumbs up
Lwind5424 October 2009
Congratulations on a film that is truly funny and well done.

Divorce is tough; relationships after divorce are sometimes even tougher; laughing about it is key to getting on with life. Saw this movie at a post-production screening in Thousand Oaks CA on Wednesday, October 21. The welcoming crew said we were the first audience to see this movie.

Alec Baldwin (Jake) was perfectly scripted and his physique makes the movie funnier. His scenes in the fertility clinic, on Jane's (Streep) bed with a laptop; and as a 'sexpot' were rolling on the floor hilarious. Steve Martin as a serious and considerate architect was also well-casted. Even as serious as he was most of the time, we laughed at his lines and situations. Meryl Streep: what can I say? Always classy, always professional. Even in funny situations. Jake and Jane's kids were great (especially the future son-in-law as he tried not to "spill the beans" and choice of pajamas).

I'm over 50 and would be interested to hear what people under 30 think of this film. Two thumbs up!
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6/10
Watch it just for its cast
barrys8226 February 2010
The name of the movie is It's Complicated but the film is everything but complicated, in fact this is the simplest and lightest movie I've seen in a very long time. It's Complicated follows the story of Jane (Streep) that during her son's graduation hooks up with her ex-husband Jake (Baldwin)and at the same time she is dating Adam, her architect. The movie has some good moments of humor but the situations tends to repeat over and over making the movie a little boring. The story is kinda predictable and the plot is a bit lame and corny but the movie is worthy because of its cast. Actors like Alec Baldwin and Steve Maritn and an actress like Meryl Streep make it a real joy. Their performances are excellent and so funny. In conclusion, It's complicated is a movie mostly intended for people over 30's and 40's. Women will love it and men will enjoy it also
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6/10
Has its moments
moviesleuth22 January 2010
Nancy Meyers is famous for tapping into a largely ignored market: middle-aged women. She acknowledges that women don't cease to exist after they grow older than Jessica Alba (anyone older than that loses their sex appeal in the eyes of movie studios, and that's the only thing that keeps audiences interested in these sorts of movies).

I am not a member of this market. However, I am open to movies to which I am not a targeted member. That, and I love Meryl Streep. I have seen Nancy Meyers' previous effort, "Something's Gotta Give," a movie that started out okay, but ended up being an overlong disaster that I hated. Still, this movie sounded promising, especially with Streep, who has never made a bad movie, so I checked it out. While it is certainly better than "Something's Gotta Give," it is nowhere near a complete success.

Jane (Meryl Streep) is a divorced mother of three, and an empty nester. Years after her divorce, she's finally gotten her life back together (or at least she thinks she does). However, her life is going to get a little...complicated. Her ex, Jake (Alec Baldwin) has just realized that he is still in love with Jane, and they ensue in an affair (which, ironically, was one of the reasons why they divorced in the first place). At the same time, she's also attracted the attention of her architect, Adam (Steve Martin). Now Jane has to balance these two romances out, and complications ensue.

Meryl Streep is widely recognized as one of the greatest actresses alive (and in my opinion, one of the best who ever lived). Yet with 13 Oscar nods, she hasn't done much in the way of comedy. She got a taste of it in last year's "Mamma Mia," but with this film, she gets to do some scenes that are openly funny. And she shows everyone that she can be just as successful in a comedy as a drama. Many of the film's comic scenes wouldn't be as funny without her. Her co-stars, Alec Baldwin and Steve Martin, are no stranger to being funny, and Streep manages to keep up with them. Speaking of, Baldwin and Martin are on the same level as Streep. Baldwin is equally good in the comic scenes as well the dramatic scenes, and so is Martin (surprisingly...he hasn't gotten much chance to do drama. Hopefully, this performance will signal a change, because he's got some good dramatic chops as well as comic aptitude). Had this film been better directed, they could have been looking at some Oscar nods. Special mention has to go to John Krasinski, because even though he became famous for the ultra-understated humor of "The Office," he is also great at more energetic humor too. Lake Bell has little to do than be a post-trophy wife that is often referenced, but not seen.

Nancy Meyers may have tapped into the market for middle aged women, but she's only at the top because she's the only one in it. Meyers is not an especially great screenwriter or director. The dialogue is nothing special, and her direction is flat, which renders the drama more inert than it should be. The comedy only works because of the actors, not Meyers; this should be construed as a compliment to Streep, Baldwin and Martin, since the comedy is not adequately set up. Many of the plot points exist because Meyers is trying to follow the formula of "romantic comedy," even if what happens doesn't make sense.

If you like Meyers' films, it's a film to check out. If not, I don't think its worth your time.
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10/10
Fun romantic comedy whats not to like
zendatrim30 September 2017
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Loved it maybe i am easily pleased, but what a combination of talent, Steve Martin, Meryl Streep, and Alec Baldwin.

Great acting good story, and i laughed a lot through out the story, especially with the laptop omg so funny a classic moment i will never forget.

Meryl Streep is so beautiful and looks great for her age.

Yes i enjoyed it, it kept my interest right the way through, and i am still chuckling over the laptop scene.

They don't make romantic comedies like this enough as far as I am concerned, its just not complicated, it is what is on the box easy to watch cant believe i had missed it for so long but glad i have watched it now.
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7/10
It's very OK with some GREAT moments
preppy-328 December 2009
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Jane (Meryl Streep) has been divorced from Jake (Alec Baldwin) for 10 years. He also married the woman he cheated with. At their youngest son's graduation they get drunk and end up in bed. Jake LOVES it and wonders why he left Jane. Jane feels guilty for committing adultery. But Jake presses her to continue having sex which she enjoys. Then she meets nice divorced Adam (Steve Martin) and falls for him!

Somewhat predictable (I saw the ending coming a mile away) and not really that good but I must admit this movie has some great moments. First of all the cast is great--Streep, Baldwin and Martin all play their roles beautifully in dramatic AND comedic scenes. Also John Krasinski has lots of good moments as Harley. The real problem is the script. It's just a little TOO predictable and frankly not funny enough. Some of the lines were lame and I didn't buy the happy ending for one second (although I admit it made me cry--a little). It 's just there were a few wonderful moments that really worked. The reaction of the kids when they found out their mom and dad were sleeping together was beautifully done and nobody was totally evil or totally good. You saw the good and bad in all the characters and understood their motivations. Also the movie looks beautiful with incredibly gorgeous locations and settings. And the final sequence where everything goes spinning totally out of control WAS very funny! Also it was touching more than once--me and quite a few of the women in the audience got misty-eyed over some sequences. So a very GOOD movie but not a great one. I give it a 7.

A word about the R rating. Ignore it--this is PG-13 all the way. It got an R rating because two people smoke a joint and are NOT punished. Seriously--that's it! That's no reason! In "9 to 5" made back in 1980 the three main characters share a joint, they're not punished and it got a PG!!!! There are some VERY brief flashes of back male nudity but no more than u can see on TV. So--ignore the R rating.
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1/10
Nauseating
ferdinand19328 October 2010
The scene where Jane (Streep) confesses all to her adult children who are all tucked under a bed sheet, beside each other, wide eyed, and shocked, summarizes everything that is awful with this movie. It is both immature and weird. Adults behaving like children - or adolescents - is what happens throughout this predictable and mind numbing experience, and is why it is so banal.

The terrain of divorce and romantic/sexual love could be engaging and witty, with real adult dialog and intelligence, but Streep's Jane giggles like a little girl; she reacts to the men rather than be the agent of her life, and the male characters are like archetypes from a supermarket self help guide.

There is nothing original or intelligent happening here. Instead it is replete with Baby Boomer sentimentality, incomplete emotional development, and worst of all, lacks any dramatic sparkle.
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10/10
Let's Have More of This!
papacorn25 December 2009
I would give It's Complicated an 11 if it were possible! There isn't anything I would change about this movie. Meryl Streep and Alec Baldwin have a chemistry that I'm willing to beg and plead will go on. I want to see more of this duo. My direct request to Nancy Meyers is "keep these intelligent scripts coming." This story is an antidote to all the stupid stuff that's being shoveled out of Hollywood. Give us more of this! It's Complicated has both humor and pathos. Steve Martin plays a great foil to Baldwin's character. He's attractive and vulnerable. Streep has a genuine dilemma of riches with these two. If she would have to choose, how could she? In different ways, equally appealing, these guys wear their hearts on their sleeves. And before all the male moviegoers say, "ugh" and cross it off as a "chick flick," note that men in the audience laughed as hard and loud as women. "Hilarious" honestly applies to this film. The script is tight. The supporting cast is very natural. Jim Krasinski, is especially good in his role as son-in-law. An important note, it's rated R, so leave the kids with a sitter. Treat yourself to a movie that won't bring you down nor insult your intelligence. You'll delight in what fine actors can do when all the ingredients are there.
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7/10
It's Complicated for them, but a good time for us
PheebsBueller28 December 2009
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At 19, I'm a little younger than the targeted audience of "It's Complicated," but my friends and I have been dying to see this movie since we caught the trailer online a few months ago. All the parts of the equation looked great to me: Meryl Streep, effortless and fabulous and now a box office queen and wrangler of light-hearted, comedic roles; Alec Baldwin, the gem of the brilliant "30 Rock"; Steve Martin, always lovable and in need of a good move part; Nancy Meyers, a pioneer of older and sometimes divorce-centric romance ("Something's Gotta Give", "The Parent Trap"); and a unique story line, featuring an older woman in between her married ex and a new man.

The movie was different than I expected, but I was certainly far from disappointed. I had heard the film was not laugh-out-loud funny; this is completely false. The entire theater laughed for a good eight minutes straight in a scene about three quarters of the way through featuring the three main characters and a joint (c'mon, who doesn't want to see the woman behind "Doubt" and "Sophie's Choice" completely stoned? She was great at it). John Krasinkski stole the movie, delivering his lines with the pace and talent of a very worthy contender for America's new favorite handsome goofball actor. His easy, hilarious banter with such Hollywood royalty was a blast to watch.

I really liked that I felt sympathy for all of the characters involved in the love triangle, even the adulterous cad, Baldwin. The acting is flawless throughout, from Streep's post-coital hangover to her chemistry with both leading men.

A few warnings: if you don't like Meryl Streep, don't see this. She's in almost every scene. This role was pretty much her role in "Mamma Mia" minus the singing and the Greek island. Also - and this might sound silly - but if adultery makes you uncomfortable, I wouldn't suggest it, because everyone in Streep's lonely but stable, post-divorced life encourages the affair, even her shrink. And the ending, while not easily predicted, was a little flat, the outcome not disappointing but poorly executed. I will gladly report, however, that there is a merciful shortage of the sex that was so prominent in "Something's Gotta Give" because the actual act is less important to the story line here. The bedroom scenes are sensitive, funny, and PG.

Bottom line: It was funny, it was relevant to modern families and divorce-bred dilemmas, and, in the words of my friend as the credits began to roll, it pulled all the right heartstrings.
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1/10
Garbage
lukalele15 June 2010
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Saturday night... movie night with the girlfriend. She wants to get a film I've never really heard of called It's Complicated, from the description all I see is that it's a romcom. I suggest some other films saying that I'm not really in the mood for another romcom, as there seems to be one released every week lately, they're all so formulaic and we seem to see them all.

Needless to say 5 minutes later we were sitting on the couch, settling in to watch It's Complicated.

Giving in once again does have certain advantages, as I warned her that my objections to seeing yet another romcom gave me license to pay it out, if it came to that. Unfortunately for this film, it did.

As much as I respect her as an actress, all that Meryl Streep touches doth not turn to gold, and as much as I like Alec Baldwin as a comedic actor from the likes of 30 Rock, he cannot save this film. There is nothing to like about the characters, no development at all, they're all unconvincing, unrealistic, ultra-successful, perfect people with perfect lives. Even the situations they get themselves into are perfectly 'complicated' (damn that title), and you know it's all gonna come out perfectly in the end anyway. Don't expect any surprises here. I respect the filmmaker trying to present the romcom from a different angle (middle-age), but it quickly becomes as typical and predictable as the rest, especially with Streep's character behaving the way she does you're quickly forced to forget the different angle presented here that the film had going for it.

Baldwin's character is a terrible misogynist, but that's OK when you present his new trophy wife as a b*tch (played by Lake Bell, totally overshadowed by the better acting talent on offer here just as she was in Boston Legal) with a horrible movie-child, clashing terribly with the too-perfect grown up children Streep and Baldwin's characters had when they were first married.

Streep's character is the most insipid, self-indulgent, shallow character since Carrie Bradshaw. She's impossible to like. For 5 minutes at the start of the film we're presented with a few scenes making it blatantly obvious how alone she's become, 2 minutes after that problem solved, she's in bed with her punch-in-the-face persistent ex-husband Baldwin (leave aside any indication of why they got divorced in the first place, save for a few gratuitous hints that are meant to be quickly forgotten) after giggling like a schoolgirl at the nauseating crap he spouts to get her into bed, which of course leads to the 'complications' the film's title suggests when she meets Steve Martin, the 'perfect guy' you know she's going to end up with. Hard to feel any sympathy for her. I was waiting for her to ask one other character how they were, how their life was going, anything. None of that. She basically plays a 60 year old totally self-absorbed teenager, again giggling like a schoolgirl with her fleeting friends about the sex she's having with her ex in one painful scene.

Steve 'not funny any more' Martin might have been a guy who by the looks of him 15 or 20 years ago was going to age gracefully, but unfortunately he has not let that happen. His face looks like it could melt at any moment, not one wrinkle to be seen, for me taking away any credibility his character might have had. Don't let him near that baking oven, Meryl! We could have a scene akin to the classic facemelting one at the end of Raiders of the Lost Ark. Actually, it might have been entertaining to see what would've happened to Steve's face had he gone too near a heat source.

Add to this a forced performance by John 'Jim' Kraszinski, I love him in The Office but here he ironically seems to be presented as a comic relief to all the 'serious' stuff that's going on, and also add to this a terribly contrived scene at a party where the oldies get 'soooo wasted' off one or two puffs of a joint, a scene which ends up falling totally flat and just gets annoying, and you have a film I really had trouble sitting through.

I hate films that give the viewer no credit whatsoever. We're just supposed to accept a lot of things when we watch certain comedies for the sake of a few laughs. This is certainly one of those. No laughs (for me anyway), bad dialogue, unrealistic characters that are impossible to like or relate to in any way, predictable plot, annoying children... doesn't get much worse than this.

Avoid at all costs.
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A refreshing romantic comedy
Gordon-1116 January 2010
This film is about the complicated relationship status of a divorced woman having an affair with her married ex husband while dating another guy.

"It's Complicated" has a nice mix of comedy and drama. It's refreshing to see a romantic comedy to have a different formula compared to the usual. It's even got unconventional leads as they are not the unrealistically perfect individuals who have got everything but romance. The plot is funny and entertaining. Meryl Streep is excellent in portraying a spectrum of emotions required in her role, and she is such a joy to watch. Though "It's Complicated" is an entertaining and refreshing romantic comedy, it still is not very memorable or ground breaking.
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6/10
Meryl laughs her way thru this one
lu-5052724 December 2022
This movie was ok, but my review is based entirely on the way Meryl Streep laughs her way out of every line of dialogue. Who am I to disparage the good name of MS? Please. I know. But if you do a rewatch, how can you not notice? She laughs at the end of 90% of her dialogue, I'm wondering what acting technique this is from The Great? The only time she doesn't laugh is when she is in a scene when she is sombre or contrite with Adam, the architect, or sitting on the bed with her children, even then she may have snuck in a flippant petit rire, I can't keep count. This is coming from a huge Meryl Streep Fan. I found it oddly distracting, then I was bemused, then I was in denial, then I was perplexed, then I was distracted again. Oh well - a mystery of life. It's complicated, I suppose!
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7/10
1st Half Great, 2nd Half Incoherent
J_Trex3 January 2010
This was a good comedy for the 1st half but the 2nd half was largely laugh free and thus seemed incoherent overall. The viewer wasn't sure if this was a comedy or a drama. Some of these dramadies work (see "500 Days of Summer") but this didn't work because the ending didn't close well and the viewer wasn't sure what to make of it.

Part of the problem was Alec Baldwin was such a likable character but was written up to be a cad who we aren't supposed to feel the least bit sorry for. Steve Martin wasn't all that likable, but the way it was written he came out on top. But why? I can't see how the Producers, who focus group these things eight ways to Sunday, thought this ending was a winner.

The children were also incoherent. We are lead to believe they loved their Dad (Baldwin) but when he discloses he wants to get back with their Mom (Meryl Streep), they seem to go catatonic with grief, curling under the covers with tears in their eyes. One minute they love him and want him around all of the time and the next minute they are numb with confused feelings of disbelief. It was all a bit confusing.

In any event, it's worth seeing just to see the performances of Alec Baldwin and Meryl Streep. They were both great and Baldwin's was particularly noteworthy. It might be the highpoint of his movie career.
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6/10
It really IS complicated
ncoviell19 February 2010
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Never has a title spoken such truths about a movie. I, like many viewers, was on the fence throughout the entire movie. For one, the characters aren't sure how they feel about anything and the audience, going off the characters actions and decisions, has a hard time deciding whether they like the characters or now. The best example is Alec Baldwin's character, Jack. Over ten years ago, he destroyed his marriage with his wife Jane (Meryl Streep) by cheating on her. Strike number one. Not only does he cheat, but he ends up marrying the woman he had the affair with, who is much younger than him and has a five year old son. Strike number two. Then, over ten years later, Jake hooks back up with Jane while they're up in New York for her son's graduation and wants to rekindle the relationship. Strike number three. Yes, judging off that one can assume that Jake is a real asshole; however, it is made apparent that he truly does still love Jane and the connection he has with his kids (at times) makes it hard to dislike the guy. Then there's Jane who is just being dragged alone on this roller coaster as she isn't sure whether she still has feelings for her ex-husband or if she wants to give her architect (Steve Martin) a shot. What the viewer gets out of all this is basically a teen comedy of today, only lacking the teens and involving middle-age adults. Unfortunately for It's Complicated, it can't decide whether it's going to be a shallow film, or a film ending in good taste. While some scene definitely produce laughs (Such as any scene with John Krasinski), others fall face first (such as the nude Alec Baldwin scene). Overall, It's Complicated is simply a Rom-com with a twist of characters, who, aside from the three leads and Krasinski, are almost artificial and several of their lines are obviously scripted. Steve Martin is underutilized and the final fourth of the film is just sappy.
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6/10
Love Triangle (old divorced edition)
SnoopyStyle14 October 2013
Jane Adler (Meryl Streep) is an unattached divorced successful businesswoman who's facing an empty nest situation. Her youngest Gabby (Zoe Kazan) is headed off to college. Her ex Jack (Alec Baldwin) has a trophy wife Agness (Lake Bell). Jane reconnects with her ex Jack, and then Adam Schaffer (Steve Martin) the architect working on her shop.

I can admit that I'm not the target audience. I don't want to see Baldwin's bare butts. I don't find older women making sexual jokes that funny. It's cute, but not my cup of tea. I'm not a divorced older woman. Having said that, I still find some of it funny. The biggest appeal is the relationship with the kids and how the older couple's love affair affects them.

I found Alec Baldwin annoyingly needy. Meryl Streep gives a sweet performance. But Steve Martin lack any spark. He tries so hard to be cool that he becomes cold. I just don't feel the heat between Streep and Martin.
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10/10
SUCH A GREAT MOVIE!!!
dockerykelli23 June 2019
THE ENTIRE CAST WAS FANTASTIC!!!! They DEFINITELY made the movie even better in my opinion. Such twists and turns throughout the movie that all end up in a good place. HILARIOUS, light, and filled with love!!! Definitely WOULD RECOMMEND THIS MOVIE!!!!
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4/10
Nancy Meyers and the moral bankruptcy of her vision of feminism
Irie21223 February 2010
Warning: Spoilers
Okay, this is going to be a long review. More than any movie I've seen in recent memory, It's Complicated struck me as a disturbing commentary on American society. It is all the more revealing because the filmmaker seems unaware that her movie celebrates women who live lives of material wealth and moral poverty.

I saw It's Complicated because I had just watched Summertime, David Lean's 1955 movie about adultery. So this was a chance to compare two venerable actresses in similar roles: Katharine Hepburn as a 50-ish spinster, Streep as a 60-ish divorcée-- coincidentally or not, both named Jane. There's a world of difference between being divorced and being a spinster, but both Janes are lonely women who enter brief affairs. The trouble is, there's a full universe of differences between the directors-- the supremely accomplished David Lean (who, incidentally, directed one of the finest films ever about love affairs, Brief Encounter), and one-trick-pony Nancy Meyers (chick flick). Summertime has a far better script, Hepburn's Jane is vulnerable but honorable, and the movie was entirely filmed in glorious Venice. It's Complicated, on the other hand, is an dishonorable and unfunny comedy set in Santa Barbara, which in this movie looks like it was built last year as a tribute to what money can buy.

Money is practically a character in the movie. It saturates every frame. "You've Feng-shui'd your life," a friend says admiringly to Jane, whose house is unmitigated Martha Stewart. Not one item in it suggests idiosyncratic or personal taste. The focus is on kitchens and bathrooms, the latter being a peculiar obsession with Americans. Bathrooms are used for dressing scenes, a private phone call scene, a marijuana scene, a puking scene, a bathtub scene. Jane even uses a bathroom to describe her feelings: she has his and hers sinks, and the his sink makes her sad. But Jane is a professional cook, so her extravagance really shows up in lavish kitchens. She already has two, in her bakery and in her home, yet she hires architect Adam (a superb Steve Martin) to build her "dream kitchen" as part of a whole new wing for her freshly empty nest.

Jane's materialism is a symptom of her moral poverty. She claims that she's a slave to her conscience, but her conscience has the tensile strength of wet toilet paper. She sleeps with her ex, Jake (Alec Baldwin) even though he's remarried and his philandering was a major reason she divorced him. Being an adulteress bothers Jane a bit-- though not enough to actually end it. Quite the opposite, in fact. She giggles about the adultery at her kaffee klatsches. She coyly encourages Jake, who at one point even says to her, "Is it really necessary for you to always say no before you say yes?" She laughs at his every quip. In fact, Streep laughs incessantly. I kept hoping it was meant to be nervous laughter, hiding some emotional depth. But there's no indication of that. I finally concluded that Meyers directed Streep to giggle her way through the movie so as remind the audience that it's a comedy.

Jane's only attempt to address the situation is to throw money at it: She runs to her shrink-- not for a full session, mind you, adultery isn't that big a problem. Dr. Shrink is a busy man but he squeezes her in for 15 minutes, which is plenty because all she wants is for him to tell her what to do so she doesn't have to decide for herself. And what does he advise?? Keep up the adultery, so she can fully explore what it's like to ignore her conscience. No wonder he's got a full schedule.

And so the adultery continues. On screen. The sex scenes are unnecessary but they do provide more revelatory parallels with Summertime. It's Complicated exists to prove to American women that we can still be attractive individuals even if we look more like Calamity Jane than Jane Russell. The third time that Jane beds Jake, she hides behind her robe for fear of not appearing sexy enough for him, never mind he's a tub of lard. Jane is victimized by vanity. And director Meyers exacerbates the problem by attempting to make the sex scenes comic, without even the hint of eroticism--what message does that send about the midlife libido? In stark contrast, Hepburn's Jane shows no physical self-consciousness with Rossano Brazzi; she's 48, he's 40, they both look 50, and the sex is off-camera where it belongs because their affair is based on attraction, not lust. It's a refreshingly adult situation handled with due restraint. Clearly, we've regressed considerably since Summertime in 1955.

Streep's Jane's vanity can, perhaps, be forgiven because it reflects the zeitgeist: in just six years, between 2000 and 2006, cosmetic surgery increased in the U.S. by 50 percent. What can't be forgiven is the film's endorsement of such superficiality, and its despicable attitude toward Jake's new wife, Agness (Lake Bell). She's set up to be hateful. Her body enters the movie before her face, because she's introduced in a bathing suit with a close-up of her bare torso. Nancy Meyers thus establishes Agness as a trophy wife, diminishing her (nice attitude toward women there, Nancy) and helping the audience nod and wink as Jane continues the illicit affair.

Does anybody remember Alan Alda's The Four Seasons (1981)? It's also bittersweet story of divorce, but in it a 42-year-old man (Len Cariou) divorces his middle-aged wife (Sandy Dennis) and remarries a 28-year-old (Bess Armstrong) who is charming, sensitive, good- natured, good-humored, and genuine. The fact that the young wife is likable creates a far more interesting situation. It is not only more respectful of women as individuals, no matter what their age, but also more emotionally intricate for both the characters and the audience. Compared to Alda's modest but realistic comedy, Meyers' is a cynical insult, especially to women.
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9/10
Wonderful Romantic Comedy, Best in Years
pickleb2 January 2010
Almost a ten for me. 53 year old male who prefers romantic comedy to action-adventure. This film had a wit and a appreciate of today's woman that made the film very slice of life for me. Beautiful scenes, hilarious wit and almost slapstick. This film is not for the prudish but is by no means obscene. Just great adult fare and Meryl Streep can now do anything. This year she has been Julia Child, Mamma Mia and now the Other Woman. I'd want her back too. Bravo, Nancy, Bravo.

I have never enjoyed Alec Baldwin, but he was light and funny in this film and the pairing really worked. Steve Martin's role was purposely a little flat but he did underplay things well.

John Krasinski is a true scene-stealer. Like Streep, with just a knowing glance or a facial expression, he causes laughs and audiences will just enjoy him.

Best romantic comedy since Something's Gotta Give. Baldwin is no Nicholson, but this was a better script and Streep has no match.
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6/10
Great cast and beautifully filmed, but I couldn't help thinking it could have been better
TheLittleSongbird16 May 2011
It's Complicated is a good movie in my opinion, but it isn't a great one. There are some undeniably good things though. The film looks absolutely beautiful with the scenery and location shooting striking and the photography capturing it wonderfully. The soundtrack is beguiling without being too overbearing or too low-key, and the direction is excellent. While I wasn't as taken with the script and story as much as I would've liked, both have their moments. When it comes to the story, the reaction of the kids when they found about their parents was especially surprisingly well-done, and there are several parts mostly in the final third where the writing is funny, quirky and touching. What really lifts It's Complicated is the cast. All three leads-Meryl Streep, Alec Baldwin and Steve Martin-do some of their better work in recent years here. Martin is probably the weakest of the three despite his character being the most likable, not because he is bad in fact he is very good, but because I would've loved to have seen more of him as it's the third act really where he and his character shines through. Streep is wonderfully infectious and bubbly, and Baldwin's persona here is less cynical and more sleazeball which works. John Krasinski also has some comedy gold moments without feeling too out of place. The characters on the surface in general are clichéd, but in general they are also likable. On the other hand, I didn't completely buy the "happy" ending and in all honesty I could see it coming from miles away. The story is unevenly paced too with some of the middle dragging and like the ending it is rather predictable. The script while funny, touching and quirky often does also have too many moments of clichés, corniness and dumbness, and the title I did find rather obvious but in regards to the latter it's probably me being picky. Overall, good but not great, it's lucky that the cast is as good as it is. 6/10 Bethany Cox
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1/10
Not Even Close To Complicated
DKosty12323 June 2013
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This script was mailed in from a writer having a mental block.

The plot is about as simple as any romantic comedy ever written.

Middle aged husband with kids dumps old wife for younger model. Starts having more kids and then realizes maybe he had made a mistake as the young one is making him unhappy.

Then he meets his ex-wife for a weekend of fun like they have not had in years.

Of course there is a third wheel who is romancing the Ex. The kids are wondering who is craziest.

I vote for the script writers.

They must have been nuts to write this trash.

Maybe they should watch something complicated to find out how simple and awful this one is.
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Incongruous and innocuous
Dr_Coulardeau30 July 2011
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A small film, all in all, but even good actors and actresses have to buy bread every day. It is well acted but it is insignificant.

A divorced woman and her ex-husband who asked for the divorce to marry a younger one and have a child with her are confronted one day with the dissatisfaction of the ex-husband who is being marched around by his new wife. This ex-husband tries to get back on solid earth and ground by having an affair with his ex-wife.

She accepts out of vanity at the same time as she starts an affair with her architect. That builds a silly story, but life is silly.

Add to that three children on the ex-married couple's side and one on the side of the new wife married to the ex-husband and you have it all in a nutshell. In other words it is nuts.

Enjoy cracking those nuts.

Dr Jacques COULARDEAU
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