The main premise of Anywhere but Here is a parent's love for his child is a potent antidote against his own faults. In raising our children the key to success is that we have a genuine love for them. The best schools, discipline program, and diet will be to no avail without love. The corollary to this truism is just as beneficial. "And if I should have prophecy and should know all mysteries, and all knowledge, and if I should have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not love, I am nothing" (1Cor 13:2.)
When it comes to flawed parents, Adele August (Susan Sarandon) is the "poster mom." The film opens with Adele dragging her daughter Ann (Natalie Portman) across the country in her new Mercedes. They are traveling from Bay City, Wisconsin to Beverly Hills California with Adele's dream of beginning a more fulfilling life by upping the ante of her bourgeois lifestyle. Edele's personality is so endemic of the baby boomers of a previous generation. She is completely absorbed in her own fantasy world, self centered and seeking her own fulfillment, while almost completely clueless regarding the suffering of those she leaves in her wake. To her credit, she still loves her daughter as much as she is capable in her injured moral condition.
Her relationship to her daughter is not unlike our relationship to God. The daughter being God and Adele representing mankind. An interesting game to play, while watching this film, would be to pretend you are God and imagine that this may be the way God sees us. We all do love God and yet we can't stop pursuing our own will. True, if we love Him we will do His will but we are never completely successful at doing His will. Yet, it is my contention that we still love Him. If a person has no control of his passions he is still capable of loving God. It is an orientation we have towards our beloved even while in great sin. I'll not tread the theological implication of this concept since this is only a film review. I'll phrase it this way, the image of God can still be seen even in a narcissistic baby boomer like Adele.
Ann is really the one in which we place our hopes. We do this because she represents the lost generation after the excesses of the boomers. The generation X, if you will. This is where the art of film has the ability to open your eyes to see things from another's vantage point. One can truly empathize with Ann. Being totally dependent on her mother she is trapped and forced to endure all kinds of agonies. She is the Christ figure in this film because she is the one to bare the cross of her mother's ignorance and self-love. Still Ann loves her mother through thick and thin.
I doubt the director intended to be so insightful but one of the most moving parts of the film is when Ann attempts to contact her father by phone. He is yet another boomer who is seeking self-actualization while at the same time destroying the hope in his own daughter. He cruelly puts off his daughter in a disdainful way so characteristic of man at the close of the twentieth century. You want to scream out at him "she is your daughter!" Soon afterwards Ann begins having a sexual relationship with her admiring boyfriend. The talented Natalie Portman convincingly shows you that sex is not what she is truly interested in. It is so obvious she is looking for her father's love. She has mistakenly projected her desire for the love of a caring masculine father onto her boyfriend. When she embraces her boyfriend it is truly a heart-wrenching scene. That embrace was really meant for her father.
It was originally intended for Ms. Portman to undress in the scene that presents Ann's first sexual encounter. To her credit, Ms. Portman felt uncomfortable doing a nude scene and it had to be re-scripted at her insistence. Because of Ms. Portman's stance this is now a film I can recommend.
I believe that Ms. Portman was the only one who truly understood her character. Like so many post boomers the Ann character has rejected her mother's lack of values but hasn't rejected her mother. She understands that something went dreadfully wrong in her life but because of her lack of proper formation, she has no idea what values she wants to adopt. All she needs is Christ and this films shows the great evangelical opportunity that awaits all Christians. Her life is almost completely devoid of religion. Granted, her sad formation has most likely produced the fruits of skepticism and distrust of authority. She, representing the majority of generation X-ers, will not be an easy egg to crack.
I highly recommend this film especially for teenagers because it teaches not by telling us the right way but by showing the consequences of the wide or wrong path. The film also scores a point for the baby boomers by restating their mantra "all you need is love." As parents, we will make many mistakes, but if our children know that we love them very much this could be the ointment that will heal many wounds. Just as Mary Magdalene poured ointment over the feet that would be pierced by a spike. Though her sins were great and many it was her love for her savior that healed her.
When it comes to flawed parents, Adele August (Susan Sarandon) is the "poster mom." The film opens with Adele dragging her daughter Ann (Natalie Portman) across the country in her new Mercedes. They are traveling from Bay City, Wisconsin to Beverly Hills California with Adele's dream of beginning a more fulfilling life by upping the ante of her bourgeois lifestyle. Edele's personality is so endemic of the baby boomers of a previous generation. She is completely absorbed in her own fantasy world, self centered and seeking her own fulfillment, while almost completely clueless regarding the suffering of those she leaves in her wake. To her credit, she still loves her daughter as much as she is capable in her injured moral condition.
Her relationship to her daughter is not unlike our relationship to God. The daughter being God and Adele representing mankind. An interesting game to play, while watching this film, would be to pretend you are God and imagine that this may be the way God sees us. We all do love God and yet we can't stop pursuing our own will. True, if we love Him we will do His will but we are never completely successful at doing His will. Yet, it is my contention that we still love Him. If a person has no control of his passions he is still capable of loving God. It is an orientation we have towards our beloved even while in great sin. I'll not tread the theological implication of this concept since this is only a film review. I'll phrase it this way, the image of God can still be seen even in a narcissistic baby boomer like Adele.
Ann is really the one in which we place our hopes. We do this because she represents the lost generation after the excesses of the boomers. The generation X, if you will. This is where the art of film has the ability to open your eyes to see things from another's vantage point. One can truly empathize with Ann. Being totally dependent on her mother she is trapped and forced to endure all kinds of agonies. She is the Christ figure in this film because she is the one to bare the cross of her mother's ignorance and self-love. Still Ann loves her mother through thick and thin.
I doubt the director intended to be so insightful but one of the most moving parts of the film is when Ann attempts to contact her father by phone. He is yet another boomer who is seeking self-actualization while at the same time destroying the hope in his own daughter. He cruelly puts off his daughter in a disdainful way so characteristic of man at the close of the twentieth century. You want to scream out at him "she is your daughter!" Soon afterwards Ann begins having a sexual relationship with her admiring boyfriend. The talented Natalie Portman convincingly shows you that sex is not what she is truly interested in. It is so obvious she is looking for her father's love. She has mistakenly projected her desire for the love of a caring masculine father onto her boyfriend. When she embraces her boyfriend it is truly a heart-wrenching scene. That embrace was really meant for her father.
It was originally intended for Ms. Portman to undress in the scene that presents Ann's first sexual encounter. To her credit, Ms. Portman felt uncomfortable doing a nude scene and it had to be re-scripted at her insistence. Because of Ms. Portman's stance this is now a film I can recommend.
I believe that Ms. Portman was the only one who truly understood her character. Like so many post boomers the Ann character has rejected her mother's lack of values but hasn't rejected her mother. She understands that something went dreadfully wrong in her life but because of her lack of proper formation, she has no idea what values she wants to adopt. All she needs is Christ and this films shows the great evangelical opportunity that awaits all Christians. Her life is almost completely devoid of religion. Granted, her sad formation has most likely produced the fruits of skepticism and distrust of authority. She, representing the majority of generation X-ers, will not be an easy egg to crack.
I highly recommend this film especially for teenagers because it teaches not by telling us the right way but by showing the consequences of the wide or wrong path. The film also scores a point for the baby boomers by restating their mantra "all you need is love." As parents, we will make many mistakes, but if our children know that we love them very much this could be the ointment that will heal many wounds. Just as Mary Magdalene poured ointment over the feet that would be pierced by a spike. Though her sins were great and many it was her love for her savior that healed her.
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