Judy Blume Forever (2023) User Reviews

A timely look back on a ground-breaking life

[MEMangan · 9/10 · 15 April 2023]

"I sell banned books" is the sign in her Florida bookstore today.

This story of the arc of the life of a woman who broke the barriers to the topics in children's literature couldn't be more relevant today. Her trajectory from suburban mom, through her success in connecting with kids around the world, is a lovely and genuine story of a butterfly emerging from her cocoon.

Her run-ins with book banning moral panic in the 1980s has crucial parallels with today's same exact drama. And we can learn a lot from her response--nevertheless, she persisted.

Besides her life story, we get to see the impact she had on her readers and her touching responses to them.

Blume is a gem, and has been a quiet force for good for decades. Her timeless books will also be relevant for decades to come.

A great documentary

[readeastofeden · 9/10 · 22 April 2023]

Oh man, a little time capsule of greatness. Watch this! The birth of Young Adult fiction, the importance of writing the way things are rather than the way someone tells you they should be - kids loved her so much. A truth teller. So relevant to today also! Now I need to go on a Judy Blume binge!

This documentary tells the arc of Judy Blume's life and writing. Very good.

Reminded me of the first time I read Are You There God, It's Me, Margaret, and I had to go on a deep house dive to find my old copy. I never knew she dabbled in adult fiction, and now I have "Wifey" on my "to read" list because of that.

I also loved the correspondence with her fans through letters. Fun stories.

If you ever read Judy Blume, this is a must watch. If you never read Judy Blume, you also should watch it so you can grasp the historical greatness of this author.

It's me, Judy

[ferguson-6 · 8/10 · 20 April 2023]

Greetings again from the darkness. It's not unusual for readers to feel a connection to their favorite author, but very few can match the bond shared by writer Judy Blume and her followers. Co-directors Davino Pardo and Leah Wolchok set out to profile the writer whose staggering sales figures (more than 80 million books sold) pale in comparison to the impact she had on so many young girls.

A film adaption (directed by Kelly Fremon Craig) of Ms. Blume's most well-known book, "Are you there, God? It's me, Margaret", is set for a release that corresponds to this documentary, so it's likely her work is about to experience a revival of sorts. You might wonder how a 1970 book for adolescent girls could still have relevance today, and the answer is that the author is one of the few who addressed what mattered (and matters) to this group: masturbation, menstruation, relationships, body development. Blume's work addressed these topics in such a way that girls could not only easily relate, but they felt comfort in knowing that they weren't facing these changes alone. Blume became a best-selling author and a trusted advisor.

The filmmakers opt to include interviews with celebrities such as Molly Ringwald, Lena Dunham, and Samantha Bee, yet it's the words from "normal" girls and women who recount the impact of the books that strikes an emotional chord. Watching Judy go through the mounds of letters she received from readers brings emphasis to what matters here. Yale University houses Blume's archies, letters, and papers, and we sense the sentimentality as she re-reads some of these. Regular correspondence with writers Mary H. K. Choi and Lorrie Kim is remarkable, but it's the consistent letters back and forth with Karen Chilstrom over so many years that pack an emotional wallop. Segments with Judy's own children, daughter Randy and son Larry, are also included.

We learn Judy was a traditional 1950's housewife who pursued a career of her own, a not-so-traditional move of the times. She persevered despite many closed doors, and went on to have incredible success doing exactly what she wanted in a style that bucked the trends. That she sold so many books is remarkable when you consider that the target audience for many of her books were too young to even buy books. We see numerous clips of Blume on TV Talk Shows telling her story ... her confrontation with ultra-conservative James Buchannan is particularly entertaining. Although the film goes mostly in chronological order, only the most ardent fans will know what year a book being discussed was released. Now in her 80's, Blume and her husband run a bookstore in Key West with a posted sign that reads ... "We sell banned books." What a fitting exclamation point to a remarkable woman and her career.

Streaming on Prime Video beginning April 21, 2023.

I loved this documentary

[kfox-16749 · 10/10 · 21 April 2023]

I loved getting to know the woman who wrote all those incredible books. She literally helped me through puberty and all of high school.

Every book has a wonderful story then at the end you feel better and confident that whatever your going through you will be ok. That's a comfort to someone who as a kid or teenager you didn't see past what was going on in my life. I really appreciate the tribute to this wonderful woman.

Brian Grazer and Ron Howard are the best at whatever they put out whether it's movies or documentaries.

I absolutely recommend this documentary to all ages. You will enjoy it.

Absolutely wonderful!

[spk12371 · 10/10 · 22 April 2023]

I came upon this documentary purely by accident, and I'm so glad I did. Judy Blume and her books are inextricably linked to my childhood and for that I'm so grateful. The first book I read on my own, for pleasure, was Tales of a Fourth Grade Nothing, in 1978 at 7 years old. For the next couple years I discovered and devoured the rest of her catalog at that time. It didn't matter to me that most of her books centered on girls. I also became a voracious reader because of Judy, and sought out similar books only a few authors were writing, like Norma Klein and Paula Danziger.

Apart from the documentary's particular meaning to me, it's really well done and incredibly informative and entertaining. Judy is so humble, sweet, open, and thoughtful. A genuinely caring soul. There's a treasure trove of photos and clips from past interviews, and commentary from some well-known Judy Blume fans. I got choked up numerous times learning about all the letters she's received over the last 5 decades and the special correspondence she has with some of her (very lucky) fans.

The ridiculous controversy about some of her books (which caused libraries and bookstores to "ban" anything she wrote) that's waxed and waned over the years is also explored, and it's inspiring to learn how Judy has dealt with that blowback and still manages to stay true to herself.

Watching this wonderful doc also sparked some great memories, and I learned so much about the genesis of many of her works. An absolute must for any Judy Blume fan and really for anyone who grew up appreciating young adult books that spoke to them about certain things we all do but receive mixed messages about. Highest recommendation!

Outstanding (and very timely) documentary

[paul-allaer · 8/10 · 24 April 2023]

As "Judy Blume Forever" )2023 release; 98 min) opens, today's Judy Blume is reading an excerpt from her 1973 children's book "Deenie", and we see Judy, now 85, running her "Books & Bools" store in Key West. We then go back in time to Judy's upbringing and youth as a Jewish girl, and her keen interest in imagining fictional characters. At this point we are less than 10 minutes into the movie.

Couple of comments: this documentary is co-directed (and co-produced) by Davina Pardo and Leah Wolchok. Here they assess the life and times of Judy Blume. It's mostly Blume herself talking into the camera and recalling events (such as when she got her first book published and how it changed her life). There are also various talking heads, of which by far the most interesting ones are the women who wrote to Judy Blume to pour out their hearts and their insecurities all these decades ago, and how it affected them (one of them confesses "it literally saved my life". (We learn that Blume was receiving thousands of letter each month.) But this documentary is unintentionally also a very timely reminder that what we are currently witnessing in this country, where MAGA extremists are calling for book bans (among many other things) and defunding of public libraries, is not new. In fact in the early 80s we saw the same thing (and several of Blume's books were banned). What a sad state of affairs that it seems we didn't learn a thing from those events now 40 years later.

"Judy Blume Forever" premiered at this year's Sundance film festival to immediate critical acclaim. There is good reason why this documentary is currently rated 94% Certified Fresh on Rotten Tomatoes. The movie started streaming on Amazon Prime this past weekend. I had read a positive review in a recent New York Times, and couldn't wait to see it. If you have any interest in Judy Blume or in freedom of speech, I'd readily suggest you check this out, and draw your own conclusion.

Necessary

[rnelton · 10/10 · 24 April 2023]

As someone who grew up with Judy Blume books, this documentary was very important and very powerful. To hear Judy Blume speak so poignantly about her own life in terms of the messages she wanted to share was amazing.

Granted, as a former avid reader of her books, this documentary was very moving. To the uninitiated, it might come off as abrasive. She is honest and upfront with the challenges her life and family held for her.

At one point she discusses the value of the word fuck. Most parents would argue the word doesn't belong in a book meant for children. She provides not only explanation but honest justification for using the word.

Judy Blume changed the world for many young people when books were all we had.

Found by accident and so happy I did.

[derek-60648 · 10/10 · 11 May 2023]

I have to say what a breath of fresh air. You covered so many things from my childhood and my life that you had me one minute crying like a baby then laughing out loud I woke my wife who had fallen asleep next to me a few times. I find myself a parent again in later years and was wondering how to breach all the seen taboo subjects that as a child I had no help in dealing with. I will be investing some time into your books to hopefully not leave my little person blindly fumbling in life at difficult times. I have to say how brave all your guests were on the film to share their experiences and to do it themselves without a mask or fake name. I apologize for the review if it does not read correctly as I am dyslexic and find it hard sometimes to write. Also, my spelling is not the best but Google spelling helps a little. Thank you Judy for being uncensored and you. If you are reading this and think shall I give this a look then the answer is YES 100% ATB Kind regards Derek.

P. S Just a note for Judy "You can please some of the people some of the time but not all of the people all of the time" and this is OK.

Don't let Judy (or any other author) parent for you

[trash-28385 · 1/10 · 8 May 2023]

Judy's books were no doubt timely, but I wouldn't go so far as to glorify them as a noble cause. She would have been better off helping parents understand how to communicate better with their own children. Your kids belong to you. Judy wants to parent them for you through her books. She saw a hole in the market where parents were falling short in communication and so she provided information and emotional support for them through her books. Her books are about exploring your feelings, bodies, sexuality but lack depth and knowledge on much more important philosophical issues. For instance, how can one make a decision about which religion to choose when given zero information about either one (Are You There God, It's Me, Margaret?). It pained me to watch this over glorification of teen girls exploring their feelings. It did however enlighten me as to why so many people are struggling to thrive these days...it is a lack of parenting. If you don't teach your kids a worldview...how to reason, think and work, they will inevitably fall into just following their desires and feelings. If you don't have difficult conversations on a regular basis, other people will teach things to your kids. Don't let Judy (or any other author) parent for you.

A boys' perspective...

[seven-johnson · 9/10 · 11 May 2023]

We all read her around that age and I'm pleased that I did. That was way more years than I care to think about right now, but thankyou Judy - you helped a pubescent boy understand some things.

Anyway - what we have is an unsurprisingly frank documentary on one of the great authors, maybe not great in the sense of Nabokov, Dostoevsky or any of the "heavyweights", but someone that made information accessible and digestible to a whole bunch of kids that deserved that information in a way they could relate to.

We get quite a lot of insight into Judy, her life, family, self and some of her readers - this is the most interesting aspect of the documentary, how Judy engaged with her readers and their incredibly varied experiences in life. It may seem grandiose, but we need more Judy's in the world, people that engage honestly, frankly and with kindness.

Aside from actual people that I've known who effected me, there's maybe two cultural "phenomona" that have shaped my "adult-man". One, Buffy and two Judy, both taught me more about women than I'd have ever known otherwise and they're both treasures.

Judy's courage and honesty as an author are inspiring and this documents it well and shows (sadly) that the more things change, the more they stay the same, this doesn't flinch from some of the more challenging aspects of Judy's life, her continuing relevance and the terrifying aspect of "book banning".

America - you've given the world a treasure.

This film documents it very deservedly well and Judy's presence throughout exudes warmth kindness and an ability not to talk down to kids. If I do have a criticism, I'd have liked more talking heads, views from other writers, pyschologists and academics - I could easily have watched another 30 minutes or so of this if it was there. Not quite "essential" viewing, definitely essential reading.

Enjoyable with a few irks.

[phynesse72 · 8/10 · 27 April 2023]

Thoroughly watchable documentary of a beloved author. Never met Judy before but I connected to her through her books. Tiger Eyes being my favorite. The documentary was interesting especially when focused on the backlash her books faced in the Regan era. Also interesting to see was the amount of fan mail she received and that she kept the letters! As usual the "gatekeepers" at Prime same as at Netflix, Hulu, etc made sure to insert their plight into the documentary about a 83 year old woman who writes books. A huge turn off for me, but thankfully I was able to fast forward through certain sections. A must watch if you are a Judy Blume fan.

Judy Blume Forever is a fine doc about the author who risks writing about adolescent life

[tonyvmonte-54973 · 10/10 · 6 October 2023]

As a teen, I read books like "Are You There God, It's Me, Margaret" and "Then Again, Maybe I Won't" and marveled at how matter-of-fact certain subjects not previously discussed in other fictional books I read were explored. I later read the more mature book "Forever..." and thought how author Judy Blume had grown as a writer. I also read another book about her that told how many of those of her novels were banned because of those certain subjects. So I was very interested in this documentary when I discovered it on a recent flight. As her fame grew, Ms. Blume gets interviewed by many of the famous talk show hosts of the time and also appeared in "Crossfire" where she debated with conservative figure Pat Buchanan who she didn't even know about previously. But the most touching parts is when she reads letters from many teen girls including a couple of those young women who wrote to her for years to the point that they both agreed to appear in this film talking of how much of an influence she had on them. Had she not decided to write for a living, Ms. Blume would be just another of those housewives just raising her kids and tending to her hubby when he gets home from work but that wasn't what she was comfortable with, that's for sure! She'd eventually leave her first spouse and after failing with her second, she'd eventually find true happiness with a third one who had a daughter who knew of his new wife's work. Ms. Blume herself had two offspring who eventually grew proud of her work. At 83, she seems happy now living in Key West, FL, running a book store where she proudly has on display inside the sign "We sell banned books" which I'm guessing includes her own! As a astute observer of adolescent life, Judy Blume Forever is aptly named.