I am a survivor of father-daughter sexual abuse, and this documentary perpetuates the lie that victims become perpetrators.
The vast majority of CSA victims do NOT go on to become abusers. Also, we don't all "love" our abusers as one fool in this documentary stated. One of the happiest days in my life was when my father dropped dead of a cocaine induced heart attack.
Victims pretend to love their abusers because we desperately seek acceptance and approval from others. We tell people what they want to hear. In reality, we usually do NOT become abusers and we usually HATE our abusers. But "nice girls" don't hate, so we pretend otherwise.
The vast majority of CSA victims do NOT go on to become abusers. Also, we don't all "love" our abusers as one fool in this documentary stated. One of the happiest days in my life was when my father dropped dead of a cocaine induced heart attack.
Victims pretend to love their abusers because we desperately seek acceptance and approval from others. We tell people what they want to hear. In reality, we usually do NOT become abusers and we usually HATE our abusers. But "nice girls" don't hate, so we pretend otherwise.