A little understanding of the mistress's situation, many people say that she loves vanity and is clever and intelligent. But her spirit always has a sense of hunger and poverty, and she needs to constantly pursue material to fill her desires and get rid of unrest.She can only live on the surface of life, when it comes to deep self-esteem, love and family, she can not always get a sense of security and belonging, which is really related to the growth experience.But after all, she is not considered to have wisdom, because she loves herself too much and decides to stop growing and let herself go; Losing the true love of a lifetime, hurting the family and children, and regretting it for life.