Not a bad film at all, and definitely made some points that are important to me, and had some nice humor. But it's a bit slow and predictable, and overly sweet. Some very good performances were a big plus. I'm starting to think we've seen enough "plea for understanding" movies (straights don't go to them anyway), and more where gayness is just interwoven into the story. ("The Hanging Garden" is a very good recent example of that).