A music video for the 1988 single "Him or Me" by R&B recording group Today. In the music video, the group performs the song while wanting a female to make a choice, Him or Me.A music video for the 1988 single "Him or Me" by R&B recording group Today. In the music video, the group performs the song while wanting a female to make a choice, Him or Me.A music video for the 1988 single "Him or Me" by R&B recording group Today. In the music video, the group performs the song while wanting a female to make a choice, Him or Me.