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7/10
the Not so modern face of India
manasishroff249 September 2019
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The story tries to in a way change perception showcasing that arranged marriages are not forced as perceived by people outside India. Although, there is a lot of manipulation involved and pressure build for these women to eventually give in and walk into a strange home with a new set of rules and little to no consideration about what these girl really want.

With 3 parallel stories, Dipti is a simple teacher who's always smiling and accommodating, we see times when she's depressed that she's almost 30 and yet hasn't found a partner. Her parents also put a point forward that she has no friends while trying to convince a prospective groom to consider his daughter making it sound like it's a positive. Eventually, Dipti takes matters in her own hands signing up on a matrimonial website finding a perfect boy for her who likes her the way she is!

While dipti's story still brought smiles, Ritu's story simply made me as a viewer frustrated. Girls parents looking for money, boys parents looking for beauty and it's a perfect match! It's pretty unsettling to even try to understand that people form well to do families in India with an education, feel the need to fall for society pressures and getting their perfectly financially and emotionally independent daughter married because of a few nosey relatives. As expected the boy had money, the girl agreed to dump her career to join his business. At one part of the interview the boy actually says that he'd love to get married at 40 but he's doing it because he has to, while Ritu just quietly sat there listening to her fiancé say he probably didn't want to marry her and would have married someone else if not her later in life. Well, so much for being romantic right before your wedding.

Amruta's story was a true reality check. A Delhi girl who loved to party, chill with her friends, work and enjoy life, left everything behind for a man who stayed in a small town with his entire family. From cooking a tall stack of rotis everyday to making sure her sick father-in-law was taken care of, the story of this girl simply broke my heart. It sadly shows her big dreams come crushing down with household responsibilities and a loss of identity towards the end.
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7/10
Male Dominance
westsideschl11 August 2018
Great story showing how families go about arranging marriages (finding a suitable male) for their daughters. Would have liked to have seen commentary on the ridiculously high costs to procure a husband and stage a marriage which as a percentage of income is much higher than in the Western world. Also would have liked to have seen what happens to the girls/women and their families when they don't get married. Would have liked to have been given some information on the high levels of abuse, divorce and subsequently being cast out with shame and no education into society. And, commentary on young girl arranged marriages.
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7/10
Very real and narrative of the great Indian marriage
santoshambekar1928 July 2020
This documentory is very realistic and evident of indian marriage tradition, it depicts how suitable brides are searched in indian traditions. The documentory is based on 3 different girls from different n parts of the country each with their own narrative on pre and post marriage lives!
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9/10
Paints a pretty good picture
bilburry21 April 2020
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The documentary is truly a reality check. Shows just how discriminatory our society is towards women. You turn 25 and lo, dump all your dreams and aspirations and get married. Even the privileged also cave in to the pressure of the society and get hurried into marrying off their daughter. The documentary fairly showcases how the arranged marriage culture is not much forceful towards the women in having to necessarily accept the proposal. The women can reject or accept the proposal but in certain areas they still don't have this choice also.

It broke my heart to see Amrita's story. I felt like she got cheated. She was told that she'll be able to work alongside her husband in the family business and later at the end of the documentary it's revealed that her husband has been avoiding telling her the truth because she'll get upset. My mind just blows off thinking that such an independent and bright woman has to lead that life. It just scares me to know that in India we feel the prime goal for a woman is to get married. Being married should be an individual decision and shouldn't be decided by what is the age of the woman.
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9/10
Fascinating!
lynettemdcosta26 October 2021
I loved Dipti's story the best. It was hard to watch her get rejected repeatedly. So glad she found a man who was worthy of her. Wish them every happiness.
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1/10
Why do they always show India as 'gareeb, traditional culture'?
madhujabhagali3 August 2020
India has so much of diversity with different strata of people. However, the shows that i have come across show camels walking on the streets?? How frequently does that happen?? This show highlights the Seema aunty mentality once again!! I am myself in the process of matchmaking as the directors put it, but never came across this 'kundali', 'allowed to work', 'stop the job and be a housewife' kind of hype that these shows show. Which mother has asked her daughter to stop working and focus on saying yes to a guy? Please guys, india is beyond the 'gareeb hindustani' vibe now, please show our IT hubs, educated women, working people, wonderful architecture and expensive cars rather than camels, poor people with flowing noses and old shattered buildings, thats not the ONLY presentation of India!!!!!
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9/10
Very Interesting
bushrafazili13 September 2020
Interesting to watch especially if uve seen indian matchmaking recently, loved dipti's story best.
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1/10
Regressive peopel
gangulymoulli14 October 2020
Documentary about regressive mindset and people..who choose to remain so in the name of tradition...whre as histoy of india is so modern ...these peopl should not make india more regressive and say like balaji telefilm mentality...seema taparia thoughts too repulsive regressive judgemental again
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10/10
Real Indian Middle Class Matchmaking
piyushgandhi-5404112 August 2022
The objectification and materialism is there but this is way more realistic than Indian matchmaking anyday. Shows how Seema aunty has evolved from this stage to what we see her today.
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9/10
Superb movie
vs-5054422 January 2021
A very realistic, feel good movie in a documentary format. Good music. Follows the lives of 3 girls from very different backgrounds. Worth watching for sure!
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4/10
Boring
rahulgirdhar-659257 September 2020
Good thing about this show was that is was realistic and showed the actual customs and traditions of Indian Marriages. It also showed what a girl and her family has to go through during and after the process of marriage. But it missed a lot of important aspects of the marraige and I feel there was a lot of scope for making this show in a better way.
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