Preparations to Be Together for an Unknown Period of Time (2020) Poster

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7/10
Good film, but failed ending
gphgrm0110 May 2021
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This film could have been much more than it turns out to be in the end, somehow. I was very intrigued to see it, and I did not regret it, because the dark hyperrealistic and hyper-dreamlike atmosphere of melancholic and little bit deserted Budapest definitely doesn't disappoint. The idea is very interesting: a successful career woman, a neuro-surgeon, comes back to Budapest after twenty years, because of a man whom she believe to be a man of her life. However, he pretends they have never met before. So she stays in Budapest and moves her life back there in order to explore the whole thing, keeping seeing the guy who seems to be interested, though . The film is successfully keeping the attention of a viewer who is eager to see whether she made up the whole thing, or the guy seems to be disturbed in his mind. But in the end it turns out it is neither of these possibilities, but just the pure lie of the guy who got scared and chickened out from a woman who seemed to like him, so in the end he admits it.

The film cleverly makes two protagonists both neuro-surgeons, people who mess with human brains, and who know very well that the brain is not something firm and unquestionable, and it was very promissing plot in the movie. But the ending kind of erases this clever constellations and make them two ordinary people: the guy who tried to sell a typical insecure men's lie, and a woman patient enough to wait for him to admit it. It is just too banal, in the context of the whole atmosphere of unstable human mind situation. The whole situation of "pretending not to know somebody" is just too banal to be believable, and the second it was revealed, all the mystery about Janos, "the mysterious man" was totally killed, but in a bad way. This film promised much more than resolution in the style of "rom-com", but in the end, it delivers a disappointing ending. Pity. I believe the author simply wasn't brave enough to elevate the point to a higher level. Not that there are no interesting points and places to discuss in this movie, far from that, but it missed a great chance to be a true revelation.
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6/10
Kept waiting for the plot to grow and . . .
dcm76711 December 2021
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This is one of those movies that had a lot of potential to develop, but for me it didn't delivery.

Yes they're scrumptious scenes in Budapest. ( just added to my bucket list.) that ads to the movies theme, but in truth, there was nothing about. Marta or Janos the I could identify with.

And then there's the son of a patient Marta saves his life. The kid falls in love and stalk Marta down in adolescence innocence, yet this sideshow ads nothing to the movie.

We don't learn of Janos two daughters he has til the end of the film which does explain part of his behaviors.

Director/writer Lili Hovart does an admirable job at her first film debut. The film is engaging and I did keep watching it.

One thing that did annoy me, were the many close-ups of Marta - profiles and full face of her looking whimsical , thoughtful or just lost. It got old,

I was expecting more and just didn't get it.

The ending was disappointing too, The huge, hanging speaker outside of her window , trying to fit in her. Apartment was the end. I wanted a much more solid ending. Not happening.
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9/10
The highlight of Glasgow Film Festival
Kittyb19814 March 2021
Having never seen a Hungarian movie before, I didn't know what to expect. From its setting in beautiful Budapest to its haunting theme and the instant connection we feel with its main character, this film gripped me from its opening moments to the end of the credits.

Is it a mystery? Yes. Is it a romance? Yes. Will you be surprised by the ending? Perhaps. I liked that it kept me guessing and on my toes. We never really knew what was real and what was in her head.

A beautiful and touching film that I'll recommend to others.
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5/10
the mood is great, the story is not
mbrcf30 December 2020
This film does a fairly good job at drawing a moody, atmospheric european cinema not unlike Krzysztof Kieslowsk's works. The streets and bridges of Budapest as the story's setting, the score, the camera work and direction all become together to enchant us as viewers in a somewhat magical mystery-romance piece.

The storyline and the narrative though, is when the film fails to keep up with those virtues. The main character falls in love with a man who does not appear to recognise the face of the former and thus the mystery commences with a series of stalkings, conversations and events which lead to the upfilting of the mystery. But when that uplifting happens, it's just not merely interesting or impactful to leave its mark. The film could have definitely been much stronger had it had a deeper, more detailed and structured script.
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10/10
Stunning Psychological Drama
pgeary600125 March 2021
Thus is a superbly executed and beautifully acted psychological mystery involving a lonely Hungarian doctor and her relocation from the USA back to Hungary to follow through on a new romance. There are immediate complications and one quickly wonders if she has imagined the whole affair due to mental illness. The two leads deliver wonderfully understated performances and there are some erotic set pieces that are clever in conception and playful in their choreography. I was spellbound throughout the film and felt great empathy for the lead character and her anguished search for a resolution to the mystery at the heart of events.
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2/10
What did I just watch??
MikeyB179328 August 2021
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For 1.5 hours we are led to believe that there is some kind of attraction between our two main protagonists. Is it real or is it schizoid?

We don't know and the ending resolves nothing.

The only thing that kept me watching was the moody atmosphere The film-makers simply ran out of ideas.
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9/10
(I think I made you up inside my head.)
Blue-Grotto22 February 2022
I should have loved a thunderbird instead; At least when spring comes they roar back again. I shut my eyes and all the world drops dead. (I think I made you up inside my head.)
  • Sylvia Plath, Mad Girl's Love Song


Márta, an American neurosurgeon, is on a bridge in Budapest waiting for the love of her life to appear at the appointed time. She has given up her job, patients, kids, and husband to be with this man. He doesn't show.

"I've never seen you before," he says when Márta tracks him down at a local hospital (he is also a brain surgeon). Still, she doesn't let it go. Márta is Carrie Fisher in Blues Brothers level obsessed. She gets a job at his hospital and starts to woo him again. She is certain he will remember. Or perhaps it is all in her head. "A brain is like a city. There are abandoned buildings that can be sacrificed if need be, to save the whole."

Cerebral in more ways than one, this female driven film is an intriguing brain tickler. There are many possibilities as to what drove Márta to Hungary and where she is going from here. Her love interest is seen with another woman of course, so there's that, but thankfully the film goes much deeper than this tired old trope. It delves into Márta's mental state. She has done something like this before in a previous romance. "I wanted something so bad I lost myself" Márta tells her psychiatrist, and yet you don't get to be a brain surgeon without having a healthy intuition. She struggles to trust herself.

There are some amazing scenes including of Márta and the other doctor following each other across Budapest on different sides of the street. There are fascinating twists and turns.
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5/10
Daft plot, mellow mood.
Kaijikun8 May 2021
Nothing about the events portrayed in this movie was believable and the ending was just plain silly, but it had a steady, chill vibe and the lead actress had a very captivating screen presence.

Recommended if you just want to relax for 90 mins, but don't expect anything deep.
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10/10
Enjoy the flow
kayassine-2186831 August 2021
This movie flows like a big river. If you can just enjoy the slow flow, the soft cinematography, the imperfect buildings, the very minimalistic acting, you will have a good time.

The story is meant to be very simple, this is all about the mood it tries to convey.
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2/10
Flat
KoenBro13 June 2023
The movie fails early, at story telling, as the script is just plain terrible. The basic premise is that the female lead character has spent 20 years in the US training and then launching her career as a neurosurgeon only to abandon everything because she met a Hungarian fellow neurosurgeon at a conference. I understand poetic license and creative liberties, but this is just plain silly in its implausibility and is just not a great story. Then some weird obsession unfolds, with a meaningless end. So the movie is neither a psychological thriller or a subtle psychological narrative of any kind, nor is it romantic in any meaningful way. The soundtrack is entry level, as well. The director should stop writing her own scripts and shop for quality material written by others.

Some of the moody shots of Budapest are beautiful but they are merely an esthetic addition, unable to carry over this sad product. Camera work is also somewhat beginner-ish with the many pointless close-up takes.
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9/10
Fascinating film.
marsupialmedieval7 February 2021
Ever since I heard the name of this film I'd been intrigue. Although I'm not a huge fan of films with long titles this somehow seems to fit perfectly. This is one of those films where is better to enter the film without knowing too much about it. One of the few good things about the pandemic is you get to discover this types of films.
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9/10
I was amazed that this sort of romantic movie was created by a woman
svozil-706-64277012 May 2021
My greatest respect for this very sensible story, for the dramaturgy, and for reminding me of the silent perseverence of love! The lead actress, Natasa Stork, is just brilliant and lovely; excellent choice!
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