I loved this film. I attended the Indiana University of South Bend Independent Video and Film Festival and was so impressed with this film that was created by a couple of great guys (had the chance to speak with them a bit - very genuine). The movie was so funny and entertaining. I already had it in my mind who I was going to vote for for the audience choice award but then I watched this film and changed my vote. Watch it if you can! There were some laugh out loud funny moments. Many actually. The acting was done in such a way that it didn't really seem like they were acting. Some of the dialogue and banter back and forth is just "spot on" with some relationship drama that I have experienced.
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Perfect antidote to cheesy Hollywood rom-coms
setimerenptah19 June 2007
Confusions of an Unmarried Couple is like the independent antidote to the sickening Hollywood rom-com. This is a funny and intelligent look at the dysfunctional relationship between two real people, no sugar coating, no bull and lots of laughs.
We open with a dishevelled Dan as he lies rotting on the couch, drinking beer, wallowing in bitterness and scratching the days since his break up with Lisa off his calendar. Dan and Lisa were in a relationship, in fact they had just gotten engaged when Dan came home from work one night and caught Lisa in bed with another woman. He left her and we pick up the story a while later when Dan decides to go back and confront her.
The film plays out in a series of recorded interviews, documentary style, with both characters and then the main thread of action which focuses on Dan's return to their home and the resulting conversation which quickly descends into an emotional argument. Dan and Lisa are the only two characters in the film but there is easily enough going on between them to hold your interest. The documentary style blurs into the action and is surprisingly effective mainly because the script is really sharp and witty.
The film was made by the Butler Brothers, Brett and Jason, and Brett stars as Dan. These guys are genuine independent film makers with very little in the way of budget and other than the music they seem to have done the whole thing themselves.
I'd highly recommend this, it made me laugh out loud more than once.
We open with a dishevelled Dan as he lies rotting on the couch, drinking beer, wallowing in bitterness and scratching the days since his break up with Lisa off his calendar. Dan and Lisa were in a relationship, in fact they had just gotten engaged when Dan came home from work one night and caught Lisa in bed with another woman. He left her and we pick up the story a while later when Dan decides to go back and confront her.
The film plays out in a series of recorded interviews, documentary style, with both characters and then the main thread of action which focuses on Dan's return to their home and the resulting conversation which quickly descends into an emotional argument. Dan and Lisa are the only two characters in the film but there is easily enough going on between them to hold your interest. The documentary style blurs into the action and is surprisingly effective mainly because the script is really sharp and witty.
The film was made by the Butler Brothers, Brett and Jason, and Brett stars as Dan. These guys are genuine independent film makers with very little in the way of budget and other than the music they seem to have done the whole thing themselves.
I'd highly recommend this, it made me laugh out loud more than once.
Confusions of an Unmarried Couple Review
pants-man5 May 2007
As a guy who has been in a committed relationship for about two years now, I find myself, like many people out there I am sure, seeking out films and articles or even songs that I can relate to with my own little struggles. The good times, the hard times, the lovey-dovey times. Confusions of An Unmarried Couple displays a pair of people about as far away from my personal relationship as possible - but it is one of those films where you don't have to be either character 100%; you just have to see enough of yourself in them, or in your partner, or in your friends to really understand and feel where the film is coming from. It is an abrupt, to the point, no-nonsense take on one couple and their dealing with an awkward situation where one member was caught cheating on the other. As you can imagine, intense drama is to follow and it most certainly does; but not without hints of comedy here and there. Actually, there are a bit more than just hints scattered throughout. Confusions is actually borderline hilarious. Two people who spend the entire film trying to figure the other person out, their motives and why they did what they did doesn't sound like a laugh riot - but the Butler brothers, the duo responsible for the film, balance it out and deliver one hell of an offbeat comedy. Delivering a film with flashes of Wes Anderson, Woody Allen and even Richard Linklater; showing once again that a film can be about the simple drama between two people and still carry as much life to it as any film with a vast cast of characters. The thing that surprises though is how the film doesn't take itself serious, and yet gives us characters who very much do - and throws them together to combat one another for basically the audience's amusement. I love you, I hate you and I'm going to yell at you until I love you.
I wouldn't go about calling Confusions a "quaint" film, but there's something very likable about it and even likable about these characters who ultimately have done horrible things to one another for reasons they aren't even very sure of. Who still, even after months apart, find themselves battling each other simply because they can't let one another go. I am a big fan of high drama split between a small cast of characters, and have always been interested in cinema that felt like it could be taking place right up on a stage in any theater in the world - and that drew me into Confusions of an Unmarried Couple from the start, even when just reading up on it. I have always loved films like The Odd Couple or The Apartment, where the characters were the main focus of the film and the performances were the most important feature. Confusions takes up this cause, and delivers a film that would probably make a spectacular stage play - but one would have to change out all the little intricacies that make this such a "movie". The actually story based segments of the film, where we watch our young couple battle back and forth, is juxtaposed between videotapes of themselves giving interview confusions of just why the relationship failed and why what happened did indeed happen. It isn't explained who is giving the interviews, who is behind the camera or for what reasons; but that isn't really the important part. This is the way the filmmakers truly let us into the world of these characters and our way of better understanding them. Being that the two of them are so confused about one another, and people plan things a lot better than they actually are able to say them aloud - we the audience are left to decipher just what is what in this complex and crazy world of relationships gone sour.
Overall, I found myself a big fan of the film and I think the Butler brothers have the opportunity to become either very large and respected figureheads in the independent community or important filmmakers who lay on the outskirts of independence and the Hollywood community. Much like Linklater, Anderson or the Coens. That seems all up to them, as with original ideas and presentation are in short supply in this day and age - and I see great things coming from these guys. I personally can't wait to see more from them.
I wouldn't go about calling Confusions a "quaint" film, but there's something very likable about it and even likable about these characters who ultimately have done horrible things to one another for reasons they aren't even very sure of. Who still, even after months apart, find themselves battling each other simply because they can't let one another go. I am a big fan of high drama split between a small cast of characters, and have always been interested in cinema that felt like it could be taking place right up on a stage in any theater in the world - and that drew me into Confusions of an Unmarried Couple from the start, even when just reading up on it. I have always loved films like The Odd Couple or The Apartment, where the characters were the main focus of the film and the performances were the most important feature. Confusions takes up this cause, and delivers a film that would probably make a spectacular stage play - but one would have to change out all the little intricacies that make this such a "movie". The actually story based segments of the film, where we watch our young couple battle back and forth, is juxtaposed between videotapes of themselves giving interview confusions of just why the relationship failed and why what happened did indeed happen. It isn't explained who is giving the interviews, who is behind the camera or for what reasons; but that isn't really the important part. This is the way the filmmakers truly let us into the world of these characters and our way of better understanding them. Being that the two of them are so confused about one another, and people plan things a lot better than they actually are able to say them aloud - we the audience are left to decipher just what is what in this complex and crazy world of relationships gone sour.
Overall, I found myself a big fan of the film and I think the Butler brothers have the opportunity to become either very large and respected figureheads in the independent community or important filmmakers who lay on the outskirts of independence and the Hollywood community. Much like Linklater, Anderson or the Coens. That seems all up to them, as with original ideas and presentation are in short supply in this day and age - and I see great things coming from these guys. I personally can't wait to see more from them.
'Confusions' Clearly a Winner
Larry_L_Peel2 May 2007
The latest Butler Bros. Brew, Confusions of an Unmarried Couple is a treat likened to finding the last brewsky in the ice chest, or enough roaches in the ashtray to make one last doob. A woman who doesn't know what she wants, a man who knows what he wants but can't have it, two ingenious brothers from Toronto who know exactly what they want, what we want, and how to pass it to us without a bogey. Brett and Jason lead us into a searing and hysterical foray through the functions of a dysfunctional couple who are on the precipice of either marriage or disaster (is there a difference?), blending a unique twist on breaking up into a mash of self-discovery and self-absorbency.
Lisa and Dan were a happy couple experiencing the life of love and laughter until Dan proposed. Lisa was so happy that she had to share the news with her old friend Jill who just happened to call. As often does, excitement of the heart led to excitement of the body and Jill happened to be available. Dan came home to what could have been a manly fantasy, but disturbed him beyond reason. Several months of video rehab with his brother, a few pranks and a lot of beer later, Dan confronts Lisa, and the match is on. The interaction of the couple is reflective of the post breakup meet ups of scores of people through the years, the dysfunction undeniably real. Dan's brother provides "documentary" evidence of the meeting along with flashbacks and running commentary by each party.
Working without a Hollywood budget means working because you love the work. That sensibility is evident in each Butler Brew, and 'Confusions of an Unmarried Couple' is no exception. Yes, there is profanity. Deal with it. The reality of relationships is that emotions get going and grammar is gone. The reality on steroids is what makes the film such a fun jaunt. Dan (Brett Butler), torn between his love for Lisa (Naomi Johnson) and his moral stance that cheating is cheating despite male fantasy, is portrayed believably and with true emotion; the keyword here being believably. Sure we could have had Vince Vaughn do the dialogue in a typical west coast format, but then we would lose the essence and have an entirely different movie.
I have heard the arguments that "this is a story about messed up relationships is old territory covered many, many times", and I have to ask myself the question, "Is there anything TRULY new coming out of Hollywood?" No. Formulas work and have for 90 years. Again, deal with it.
For anyone seeking a good laugh at a painful subject which nearly all of us have experienced at one time or another, 'Confusions' is a smart, witty ride that will leave you grateful that the indie isn't dead.
Pass me a cold one, and kill the lights.
Lisa and Dan were a happy couple experiencing the life of love and laughter until Dan proposed. Lisa was so happy that she had to share the news with her old friend Jill who just happened to call. As often does, excitement of the heart led to excitement of the body and Jill happened to be available. Dan came home to what could have been a manly fantasy, but disturbed him beyond reason. Several months of video rehab with his brother, a few pranks and a lot of beer later, Dan confronts Lisa, and the match is on. The interaction of the couple is reflective of the post breakup meet ups of scores of people through the years, the dysfunction undeniably real. Dan's brother provides "documentary" evidence of the meeting along with flashbacks and running commentary by each party.
Working without a Hollywood budget means working because you love the work. That sensibility is evident in each Butler Brew, and 'Confusions of an Unmarried Couple' is no exception. Yes, there is profanity. Deal with it. The reality of relationships is that emotions get going and grammar is gone. The reality on steroids is what makes the film such a fun jaunt. Dan (Brett Butler), torn between his love for Lisa (Naomi Johnson) and his moral stance that cheating is cheating despite male fantasy, is portrayed believably and with true emotion; the keyword here being believably. Sure we could have had Vince Vaughn do the dialogue in a typical west coast format, but then we would lose the essence and have an entirely different movie.
I have heard the arguments that "this is a story about messed up relationships is old territory covered many, many times", and I have to ask myself the question, "Is there anything TRULY new coming out of Hollywood?" No. Formulas work and have for 90 years. Again, deal with it.
For anyone seeking a good laugh at a painful subject which nearly all of us have experienced at one time or another, 'Confusions' is a smart, witty ride that will leave you grateful that the indie isn't dead.
Pass me a cold one, and kill the lights.
An all around great flick
gflute0011 May 2007
The writing in every one of the Butler Bros. movies is something that you would hear in real life conversations. Saw this movie at the Indie Can film festival here and loved it. Pulling no punches with the language and the situations put onto the screen are things that make this movie a genuine winner. Tons of comedy peppered with great acting and directing, make this something to be watched and talked about. Even though everyone has had a relationship that had gone south for sometimes no apparent reason at all, this one was obvious and funny as hell, and the way that Dan and Lisa deal with it all is great. Another great flick from the Butler Brothers.
the Butlers' best yet!
groovy_is_hip1 May 2007
I'm no film critic, but having seen all three of the Butler brothers' eclectic flicks, I can confidently say that 'Confusions' blows the others out of the water. Brett Butler's hilariously twisted take on relationships finally finds its voice as this film dives into the many contradictions, insecurities, expectations, and indeed, confusions experienced by this couple when they confront each other for the first time since breaking up. Sexuality, ego, loyalty, and love are all thrown into question as Dan (Brett Butler) and Lisa (Naomi Johnson) meander through their mess of dashed expectations and clouded judgments. The dialogue is dense and rapid fire, sometimes straying beyond what is believable for the characters, but continuously delivering both sardonic humor and ruthless scrutiny of these surprisingly similar personalities. And even though it was shot on a shoestring, the photography and sound come together to bring the audience almost uncomfortably close to the story - right where the Butlers want them to be. All in all, a brilliant and profane triumph - definitely one for the grandkids.
Confusions
wrixd41 May 2007
This is great film! I had rented two movies on the weekend and Confusions was the better of the two because it's different. Dan and his intelligent humour. Lisa with her witty comebacks. I didn't know who's side to take! LOL. It's filmed in such a way that it works. I can't imagine it being filmed differently. It all goes together and made it so I felt I was a fly on the wall of Lisa's apartment. The last time I experience this was Last Tango In Paris. It's raw. It's realistic and it's definitely a movie I recommend.
Check it out!
Check it out!
Relationship Film Or Soft-Porn Without The Sex?
fwomp25 April 2007
Never having seen a Butler Brothers Production before, I came into this film fresh and with no bias one way or the other. I'd read both pro and con reviews of their previous movies (ALIVE AND LUBRICATED, BUMS, etc.) and thought these zany brothers might be worth checking out. Having received and watched CONFUSIONS OF AN UNMARRIED COUPLE, I must say that there are both pro and cons in this one little film and, unfortunately, the cons tip the scale a bit too much for a positive rating.
The most appealing aspect of the film is undoubtedly the snappy dialogue and the comedy it contains. Watching Dan (Brett Butler) try to sneak his old mattress out his ex-girlfriend's apartment was pretty damn funny (note: this is attempted while his ex is still in the apartment). His comment "We need to talk" while peaking out from behind the would-be stolen mattress is quite hysterical. The downside to the dialogue is its delivery. Brett may be a fine film maker, but he's not an actor. His lines are delivered in queue-card fashion with poor (or little) emotion. Naomi Johnson as Lisa (his ex) does a more admirable job, using both good facial contortions and voice modulation to get her side of the story across.
The fact that this is a story about messed up relationships is old territory covered many, many times, too. This accompanied by the continual panning back and forth of the camera during conversations/arguments makes for an old and stilted feel. I'm sure the intention was to give the audience the sense that they were the camera, watching this story unfold, but the effect gets tiring and irritating after a very short time.
The other sense (for me, at least) was that I was watching a soft-porn film without the sex. The verbiage was there the f-word being used liberally, as well as other profanities and felt abused/overused rather than natural flowing dialogue or shocking. I'm no prude and enjoy the occasional merry chorus of "F-yous", too, but Confusions of an Unmarried Couple went overboard.
I understand the budgetary constraints of such a small production and seriously appreciated what Brett and Jason Butler were doing here. They just needed to avail themselves of better filming techniques (i.e., not the continual panning) and find an actor who could play the Dan character with an edgy style, and I feel almost certain that the film would've received much more praise from me ...and perhaps others.
The most appealing aspect of the film is undoubtedly the snappy dialogue and the comedy it contains. Watching Dan (Brett Butler) try to sneak his old mattress out his ex-girlfriend's apartment was pretty damn funny (note: this is attempted while his ex is still in the apartment). His comment "We need to talk" while peaking out from behind the would-be stolen mattress is quite hysterical. The downside to the dialogue is its delivery. Brett may be a fine film maker, but he's not an actor. His lines are delivered in queue-card fashion with poor (or little) emotion. Naomi Johnson as Lisa (his ex) does a more admirable job, using both good facial contortions and voice modulation to get her side of the story across.
The fact that this is a story about messed up relationships is old territory covered many, many times, too. This accompanied by the continual panning back and forth of the camera during conversations/arguments makes for an old and stilted feel. I'm sure the intention was to give the audience the sense that they were the camera, watching this story unfold, but the effect gets tiring and irritating after a very short time.
The other sense (for me, at least) was that I was watching a soft-porn film without the sex. The verbiage was there the f-word being used liberally, as well as other profanities and felt abused/overused rather than natural flowing dialogue or shocking. I'm no prude and enjoy the occasional merry chorus of "F-yous", too, but Confusions of an Unmarried Couple went overboard.
I understand the budgetary constraints of such a small production and seriously appreciated what Brett and Jason Butler were doing here. They just needed to avail themselves of better filming techniques (i.e., not the continual panning) and find an actor who could play the Dan character with an edgy style, and I feel almost certain that the film would've received much more praise from me ...and perhaps others.
Bloody Brilliant Butlers
johannadillman1 May 2007
The Butler Brothers have once again produced a very well-made and highly enjoyable film. Having seen their first two films (Alive and Lubricated, and Bums) I was eager to get my hands on Confusions of an Unmarried Couple, and it certainly met the high expectations I've set for these talented filmmakers. Confusions is a very entertaining, very smart and undoubtedly very funny film. The dialogue between Dan (Brett Butler) and Lisa (Naomi Johnson) is incredibly well written and executed. The process of learning both sides of their story contributes to the development of an engaging, and amusing story, which oftentimes switches from very poignant moments to downright hilarious moments. I purchased this film in Toronto, and have since brought it out West to Vancouver, where I know I'm doing a great service to my friends by introducing them to the genius works of the Butler Brothers. Unsurprisingly, everyone has loved this film so far! One of my favourites!
'A fresh brew'
Paul Stathakis1 May 2007
Warning: Spoilers
"Confusions of an Unmarried Couple" is the third feature film by Brett Butler and Jason Butler, two Canadian-born brothers who love movies as much as they enjoy making them. Their two first efforts, "Alive and Lubricated" (2005) and "Bums" (2005), proved that they could be filmmakers. This time around, they are filmmakers and not only is "Confusions of an Unmarried Couple" their most mature film but also their most genuine. "Confusions of an Unmarried Couple" is film that is not difficult to follow or comprehend. It examines the ups and downs of a relationship without dramatizing the painful process of "getting over" an ex-girlfriend or boyfriend. The Butler brothers deserve their share of praise for creating a film that is true to life, funny, touching, and equally abstract. They have found a formula that works and with this third film no one can deny that they are on their way to stardom.
a great mix of funny, profound and risqué moments
tampafilmfan4 May 2007
Warning: Spoilers
Canadian filmmakers Brett and Jason Butler are obsessed with sex. In their film Bums, they chronicled the single guy's Saturday night search for a hook-up. In Confusions of an Unmarried Couple, they take a look at the sexual issues of Dan and Lisa's relationship: the excitement in the beginning, the boredom as time goes by, adultery, lesbianism, breaking up, making up, loneliness and the pre-planning needed to successfully participate in a threesome.
Dan and Lisa have broken up because of Lisa's adultery with another woman. After weeks of depression spent sleeping on a friend's sofa consuming too many beers (and not bathing or shaving nearly enough), Dan decides to go back to Lisa's place to reclaim some of his possessions and hopefully a bit of his dignity. This leads to a sometimes-hilarious, sometimes-profound afternoon of their yelling at each other, revisiting old wounds and creating new ones. Interspersed throughout this present-day afternoon fight is confessional video footage of Dan and Lisa shot over the past few weeks since the breakup, where they've each revealed far more to the camera than they ever did to each other.
The Butlers' creative use of "chapter breaks" that show past photos of the happy couple and highlight the issues that the couple struggle with (tact, fidelity, maturity) is a unique way to break up the film. These breaks, coupled with the videotaped confessional flashbacks, give the film a whimsical non-linear quality that avoids the potential overkill of watching a couple fight for an hour. Actors Brett Butler (Dan) (who also wrote and co-directed the film) and Naomi Johnson (Lisa) portray this couple realistically and passionately without going over the top.
This is not your run-of-the-mill indie comedy-drama, by any means. Confusions of an Unmarried Couple is a unique mix: an engaging relationship drama combined with a risqué sexual comedy, sprinkled with deeply profound observations about sex and dating. In addition to the obsession with sex, this film contains all of the other items I consider to be standard in any Butlers brothers' film: solid writing, creative directing and a great soundtrack. Plus, there's a small homage to John Hughes and an unusual ending.
This film is like my favorite candy: a little sweet, a little tart, just the right size, leaves no bad aftertaste, and I want to share it with my friends.
Dan and Lisa have broken up because of Lisa's adultery with another woman. After weeks of depression spent sleeping on a friend's sofa consuming too many beers (and not bathing or shaving nearly enough), Dan decides to go back to Lisa's place to reclaim some of his possessions and hopefully a bit of his dignity. This leads to a sometimes-hilarious, sometimes-profound afternoon of their yelling at each other, revisiting old wounds and creating new ones. Interspersed throughout this present-day afternoon fight is confessional video footage of Dan and Lisa shot over the past few weeks since the breakup, where they've each revealed far more to the camera than they ever did to each other.
The Butlers' creative use of "chapter breaks" that show past photos of the happy couple and highlight the issues that the couple struggle with (tact, fidelity, maturity) is a unique way to break up the film. These breaks, coupled with the videotaped confessional flashbacks, give the film a whimsical non-linear quality that avoids the potential overkill of watching a couple fight for an hour. Actors Brett Butler (Dan) (who also wrote and co-directed the film) and Naomi Johnson (Lisa) portray this couple realistically and passionately without going over the top.
This is not your run-of-the-mill indie comedy-drama, by any means. Confusions of an Unmarried Couple is a unique mix: an engaging relationship drama combined with a risqué sexual comedy, sprinkled with deeply profound observations about sex and dating. In addition to the obsession with sex, this film contains all of the other items I consider to be standard in any Butlers brothers' film: solid writing, creative directing and a great soundtrack. Plus, there's a small homage to John Hughes and an unusual ending.
This film is like my favorite candy: a little sweet, a little tart, just the right size, leaves no bad aftertaste, and I want to share it with my friends.
Well Worth Watching
josh-10477 August 2007
The characters are believable. The situation is believable. The acting wasn't Brad Pitt in Legends of the Fall but what the acting lacked in skill, it more than made up for in raw presence. There were long exchanges between the two and in the final cut both actors did a fantastic job of delivering their often pornographic jibes and counterpoints with an expertise that seemed to come more from hunger than experience and I often find this sacrifice refreshing in an Indie film.
There were several points when I laughed out loud for minutes at some of Dan's statements. Lisa seemed to be playing catch up throughout most of the movie, either on the defensive from Dan's scornful and lewd attacks or trying to gain a little ground on him in their war of love. This couple is totally effed up but you leave the movie rooting for them and their bid to keep a little independence as they die to their selfish individual natures. Great job, Butler brothersI'd recommend this movie to anyone who isn't shy of cuss words and sex talk.
There were several points when I laughed out loud for minutes at some of Dan's statements. Lisa seemed to be playing catch up throughout most of the movie, either on the defensive from Dan's scornful and lewd attacks or trying to gain a little ground on him in their war of love. This couple is totally effed up but you leave the movie rooting for them and their bid to keep a little independence as they die to their selfish individual natures. Great job, Butler brothersI'd recommend this movie to anyone who isn't shy of cuss words and sex talk.
One Step Closer to an Indie Masterpiece
TheFilmChair1 May 2007
The Butler Bros. continue to amaze me. As filmmakers, they have a mental library of great directors they draw upon to make their own works. More importantly, I never feel that they are unworthy of the significant comparisons.
Take the Bros. newest film Confusions of an Unmarried Couple, for example. The influences of John Cassavetes are unmistakable. It's easily the strongest film to date from two of the strongest voices in indie film. But that also means it's time for them to step it up to the next level of film-making.
Confusions follows Dan, who months after finding his girlfriend Lisa in bed with another girl decides to collect his belongings from the apartment they shared. Apparently looking for a confrontation, Dan makes sure that Lisa is home before he barges in. An argument, months in the making, it lives up to everything a knock-down, drag out relationship fight should be, right down the sex part.
Confusions is the Butler Bros. most inspired and most flawed achievement. It's inspired because the Brothers take their usual topic (a break-up) and turn it into a fresh cinéma vérité relationship film. The life and intimacy in the production that differentiates the Brothers' work from the films that inspire them.
But the Brothers have outgrown the style that made them famous. In an interview with co-director Brett Butler, Brett said that he and his brother Jason have matured, but their characters haven't. It's apparent on screen. The story doesn't need the Butlers' signature humor, which is rooted in debates groups of friends, not two lovers, would have. Some of the lines just fall flat. In spite of that, the film holds together.
Maybe it's the aggressive intimacy that makes the film work. The Brothers are able to dig up conscious and subconscious insecurities in their characters. The devastating honesty in the interviews with Lisa and Dan (made into a documentary by Dan's fictional brother) goes beyond the pop culture references to Sixteen Candles or Angelina Jolie.
I would hate to pull another Kevin Smith comparison out for the Butler Bros., but I will only as a warning. Confusions of an Unmarried Couple, through all of its inspiration and artistry, could end up being the Butlers' Chasing Amy if they don't proceed cautiously from here. Sure, they don't have Ben Affleck, but Confusions is the type of soul-searching project that can make or break a filmmaker.
Before he made Clerks 2, Smith's films had an empty quality to them based in his inability to leave something behind. When he made Clerks 2, he wasn't just revisiting; he was growing. The Butler Bros. are on the verge. They've already proved they are ready to grow beyond their first two productions with the refreshing addition of Ryan Noel as sound and music guy. All I'm asking now is for the Brothers to move past what they are doing and finally make that indie masterpiece that I know they have in them.
Take the Bros. newest film Confusions of an Unmarried Couple, for example. The influences of John Cassavetes are unmistakable. It's easily the strongest film to date from two of the strongest voices in indie film. But that also means it's time for them to step it up to the next level of film-making.
Confusions follows Dan, who months after finding his girlfriend Lisa in bed with another girl decides to collect his belongings from the apartment they shared. Apparently looking for a confrontation, Dan makes sure that Lisa is home before he barges in. An argument, months in the making, it lives up to everything a knock-down, drag out relationship fight should be, right down the sex part.
Confusions is the Butler Bros. most inspired and most flawed achievement. It's inspired because the Brothers take their usual topic (a break-up) and turn it into a fresh cinéma vérité relationship film. The life and intimacy in the production that differentiates the Brothers' work from the films that inspire them.
But the Brothers have outgrown the style that made them famous. In an interview with co-director Brett Butler, Brett said that he and his brother Jason have matured, but their characters haven't. It's apparent on screen. The story doesn't need the Butlers' signature humor, which is rooted in debates groups of friends, not two lovers, would have. Some of the lines just fall flat. In spite of that, the film holds together.
Maybe it's the aggressive intimacy that makes the film work. The Brothers are able to dig up conscious and subconscious insecurities in their characters. The devastating honesty in the interviews with Lisa and Dan (made into a documentary by Dan's fictional brother) goes beyond the pop culture references to Sixteen Candles or Angelina Jolie.
I would hate to pull another Kevin Smith comparison out for the Butler Bros., but I will only as a warning. Confusions of an Unmarried Couple, through all of its inspiration and artistry, could end up being the Butlers' Chasing Amy if they don't proceed cautiously from here. Sure, they don't have Ben Affleck, but Confusions is the type of soul-searching project that can make or break a filmmaker.
Before he made Clerks 2, Smith's films had an empty quality to them based in his inability to leave something behind. When he made Clerks 2, he wasn't just revisiting; he was growing. The Butler Bros. are on the verge. They've already proved they are ready to grow beyond their first two productions with the refreshing addition of Ryan Noel as sound and music guy. All I'm asking now is for the Brothers to move past what they are doing and finally make that indie masterpiece that I know they have in them.
Poignant and disarming relationship comedy
paulc-81 May 2007
Confusions of an Unmarried Couple is a poignant relationship comedy that sees the Butler Brothers further developing their own unique voice. Self-deprecating slob Dan (Brett Butler) leaves his girlfriend Lisa (Naomi Johnson) after he catches her in bed with another womanjust days after she accepts his marriage proposal. His clumsy attempts at reconciliation-interspersed with the couple's revealing video diaries-are more subtle than the sometimes sophomoric Kevin Smith-styled antics of their earlier film, ultimately revealing Confusions as a more emotionally sophisticated film. But Confusions still manages to maintain a raw edge through the Brothers' use of clever, sexually frank dialogue. Technically, it's an improvement over their earlier efforts as well, with tighter editing, considered cinematography, and more believable acting. Equal parts Woody Allen and the Hanson Brothers, Dan's private thoughts and self-delusions provide most of the film's spot-on humour, and though the results aren't laugh-out-loud funny, Confusions is still a cut above most indie relationship comedies, and deserves to be seen by a wide audience.
Getting to the heart of the matter.
lastliberal21 February 2008
I am reminded of the time that Homer Simpson decides that he will stay home from church and indulge himself in some of life's simple pleasures: drinking beer, walking around in his underwear, smoking cigars and reading Playdude magazine.
In this case our intrepid hero is Dan, who sits on the couch drinking beer and playing with his nipple while sniffing his armpit hair as he bemoans the fact that he is on the outs with his girlfriend Lisa.
The film is an exchange of dialog between the two and soliloquies that explore just what is wrong with the relationship - a lot! Dan is basically a slacker and self-absorbed. Like all slacker relationships, it is the girlfriend that displays more maturity. The exchange between the two provides an interesting look at people, and relationships from a perspective that is foreign to this viewer.
I just wonder if Brett has more USA redneck in him than Canadian. And, lose the hat, dude, it's so last century.
In this case our intrepid hero is Dan, who sits on the couch drinking beer and playing with his nipple while sniffing his armpit hair as he bemoans the fact that he is on the outs with his girlfriend Lisa.
The film is an exchange of dialog between the two and soliloquies that explore just what is wrong with the relationship - a lot! Dan is basically a slacker and self-absorbed. Like all slacker relationships, it is the girlfriend that displays more maturity. The exchange between the two provides an interesting look at people, and relationships from a perspective that is foreign to this viewer.
I just wonder if Brett has more USA redneck in him than Canadian. And, lose the hat, dude, it's so last century.
A snappy indie comedy.
patrickmm13 June 2007
Confusions of an Unmarried Couple is a snappy indie film made by the Butler brothers, who split writing, directing, editing, cinematographing and starring duties between them. The film is structured around a lengthy conversation between Dan and Lisa, a couple that were engaged until he walked in on her with another woman. It's full of crackling, funny dialogue and fairly insightful observations about people and relationships.
I'm sure the filmmakers have heard this from countless viewers, but the film fits in the same stylistic and thematic universe as early 90s indies like Richard Linklater's work and, in particular, Kevin Smith. From Linklater we've got the dialogue based film, echoing something like Before Sunset. The Butlers clearly love the way people talk and take great pleasure in crafting literate, but profane banter for the two lead characters. In that respect, there's a lot of Kevin Smith in here. He's become the target of a lot of haters, and certainly his recent films have their flaws, but I still really like Clerks and love Chasing Amy. Confusions exists in the same universe as these films, and is perhaps even more professional looking and certainly better acted than Clerks.
The film centers almost exclusively on a real time conversation between Dan and Lisa, which is occasionally interrupted by talking head video of Dan and Lisa reflecting on the relationship. The talking head segments keep things from getting tedious, it's not easy to keep an audience interested when your film has only one setting and two characters, but the fairly consistent hit ratio on jokes made it work. The film uses slightly stylized dialogue, the characters speaking the way we'd all want to speak, in witty, literate sentences, rather than the halting, um interrupted way that most of us actually speak. I like this kind of dialogue, it helps to keep things a bit lighter.
The film works best when it remains in an emotionally real universe, and allows the characters to go to a darker place. Dan vacillates between likability and douchebaggery in a way that makes us understand why she could like him, but also sympathize when she rejects him. In the way that a lot of male filmmakers do, our point of view character is the male, we understand what he's doing, but Lisa remains more enigmatic. She seems like an artsy person with larger concerns, why was she attracted to Dan in the first place? The film does a good job of showing how he can be charming at moments, and that the two of them can work well together. Because we're coming in after the relationship is over, the two of them focus on the bad times, but there's still that rapport and connection that draws them together.
Not to dwell on Smith, but the emotional arc of their relationship is reminiscent of Chasing Amy, with a less experienced male letting his insecurity destroy the relationship. It's a relatable arc, and I think it works here by giving Dan a motivation for some of his hurtful moments. Not that Lisa is devoid of negative characteristics, there's a balance in the relationship, but I feel like we're given less access to her internal motivations, or perhaps they're just less relatable to me. Either way, the characters work fairly well.
While I liked the dialogue, I had an issue with the way it was filmed. A lot of the scenes were shot in lengthy singles, with the camera panning from character to character as they spoke. The problem is, the characters would always pause as the camera panned, then start when it was on them. This made things feel a bit unnatural. It would have been better to keep the conversation flowing naturally and just catch up as they panned. There's not that much to do with this film visually, but there are some interesting shots, the final scene is really well staged, definitely the visual highlight of the film.
In terms of acting, the film's got its on and off moments. Naomi Johnson, who plays Lisa, is great in the talking head scenes, but not as believable in the real world scenes. Brett Butler as Dan is really funny, but not always believable on an emotional level.
But, ultimately, the film has enough to entertain. I love snappy banter, and this film provides that in spades. There's a lot of really funny stuff here, and also a believable emotional story. That's more than you'll get out of virtually all Hollywood comedies. It's a bit reductive to say, if you enjoy Kevin Smith movies, you'll enjoy this, but really, that's the best thing I can say. It's that same style and the same satisfaction.
I'm sure the filmmakers have heard this from countless viewers, but the film fits in the same stylistic and thematic universe as early 90s indies like Richard Linklater's work and, in particular, Kevin Smith. From Linklater we've got the dialogue based film, echoing something like Before Sunset. The Butlers clearly love the way people talk and take great pleasure in crafting literate, but profane banter for the two lead characters. In that respect, there's a lot of Kevin Smith in here. He's become the target of a lot of haters, and certainly his recent films have their flaws, but I still really like Clerks and love Chasing Amy. Confusions exists in the same universe as these films, and is perhaps even more professional looking and certainly better acted than Clerks.
The film centers almost exclusively on a real time conversation between Dan and Lisa, which is occasionally interrupted by talking head video of Dan and Lisa reflecting on the relationship. The talking head segments keep things from getting tedious, it's not easy to keep an audience interested when your film has only one setting and two characters, but the fairly consistent hit ratio on jokes made it work. The film uses slightly stylized dialogue, the characters speaking the way we'd all want to speak, in witty, literate sentences, rather than the halting, um interrupted way that most of us actually speak. I like this kind of dialogue, it helps to keep things a bit lighter.
The film works best when it remains in an emotionally real universe, and allows the characters to go to a darker place. Dan vacillates between likability and douchebaggery in a way that makes us understand why she could like him, but also sympathize when she rejects him. In the way that a lot of male filmmakers do, our point of view character is the male, we understand what he's doing, but Lisa remains more enigmatic. She seems like an artsy person with larger concerns, why was she attracted to Dan in the first place? The film does a good job of showing how he can be charming at moments, and that the two of them can work well together. Because we're coming in after the relationship is over, the two of them focus on the bad times, but there's still that rapport and connection that draws them together.
Not to dwell on Smith, but the emotional arc of their relationship is reminiscent of Chasing Amy, with a less experienced male letting his insecurity destroy the relationship. It's a relatable arc, and I think it works here by giving Dan a motivation for some of his hurtful moments. Not that Lisa is devoid of negative characteristics, there's a balance in the relationship, but I feel like we're given less access to her internal motivations, or perhaps they're just less relatable to me. Either way, the characters work fairly well.
While I liked the dialogue, I had an issue with the way it was filmed. A lot of the scenes were shot in lengthy singles, with the camera panning from character to character as they spoke. The problem is, the characters would always pause as the camera panned, then start when it was on them. This made things feel a bit unnatural. It would have been better to keep the conversation flowing naturally and just catch up as they panned. There's not that much to do with this film visually, but there are some interesting shots, the final scene is really well staged, definitely the visual highlight of the film.
In terms of acting, the film's got its on and off moments. Naomi Johnson, who plays Lisa, is great in the talking head scenes, but not as believable in the real world scenes. Brett Butler as Dan is really funny, but not always believable on an emotional level.
But, ultimately, the film has enough to entertain. I love snappy banter, and this film provides that in spades. There's a lot of really funny stuff here, and also a believable emotional story. That's more than you'll get out of virtually all Hollywood comedies. It's a bit reductive to say, if you enjoy Kevin Smith movies, you'll enjoy this, but really, that's the best thing I can say. It's that same style and the same satisfaction.
the butler brothers just get better with every film!
kaylaajive1 May 2007
Confusions of an unmarried couple is an honest, at times brutally so, look at relationships and the complexities that naturally evolve over time.
The opening shot of Dan shows vulnerability and raw pain and it really sets the pace for the entire movie. Through the comedic sequences and at times, angry dialogue you still see it as the underlying theme for everything Dan does. I also found the balance between video clips, montages and dialogue to be pitch perfect. While viewing the film I never felt that anything was lacking. The acting was very true and on target, if not perfect, always genuine.
I highly recommend this film for anyone who has ever been a boyfriend or a girlfriend, because surely it has something everyone can relate to.
The opening shot of Dan shows vulnerability and raw pain and it really sets the pace for the entire movie. Through the comedic sequences and at times, angry dialogue you still see it as the underlying theme for everything Dan does. I also found the balance between video clips, montages and dialogue to be pitch perfect. While viewing the film I never felt that anything was lacking. The acting was very true and on target, if not perfect, always genuine.
I highly recommend this film for anyone who has ever been a boyfriend or a girlfriend, because surely it has something everyone can relate to.
Best yet from the Butler Brothers
neoncrossing1 May 2007
Confusions of an Unmarried Couple is, quite simply, a hilarious movie. There are plenty of reasons to watch - intriguing characters, solid acting, huge plot twists - but even if those elements were absent the film is still a must-see for it's sheer comic brilliance. From Dan (Brett Butler) and his rants on what type of girl he would cheat on his girlfriend with, to Lisa (Naomi Johnson) and her soulful, improvised break-up tunes, and the dialogue that the two share, there is no shortage of laughs.
Confusions has all the witty scriptwriting and hilarious characters that made the Butler Brother's previous films ("Bums" and "Alive and Lubricated") indie hits. Instead of just putting out another good movie, however, they raised the stakes. Technically speaking it is a much better-made film, the situations that characters work themselves into are more outrageous, the plot twists are more extreme, and the improv work is simply phenomenal. Top it off with explicit sexual discussion, a whole lot of beer (plus the drunken philosophy and logic that often follows) and an unusual sex scene, and you get an idea of just how entertaining this movie really is.
But, most importantly, it will make you laugh. A lot. So if you're a fan of Substance Production's other films, or if you enjoy laughing your ass off, this really, truly is a must-see film.
Confusions has all the witty scriptwriting and hilarious characters that made the Butler Brother's previous films ("Bums" and "Alive and Lubricated") indie hits. Instead of just putting out another good movie, however, they raised the stakes. Technically speaking it is a much better-made film, the situations that characters work themselves into are more outrageous, the plot twists are more extreme, and the improv work is simply phenomenal. Top it off with explicit sexual discussion, a whole lot of beer (plus the drunken philosophy and logic that often follows) and an unusual sex scene, and you get an idea of just how entertaining this movie really is.
But, most importantly, it will make you laugh. A lot. So if you're a fan of Substance Production's other films, or if you enjoy laughing your ass off, this really, truly is a must-see film.
Confessions of another Independent Filmmaker...
arwrevenge31 May 2007
Okay. My best friend and I were able to be at the South Bend Film Festival this year, and we were really excited to see what everyone else was doing... and how everything works. We learned a lot from the festival, and met a lot of great people. But I have to say that it was Jason and Brett that really made an impression on us. We talked to them for at least a few hours through the festival, and bought "Confusions" before we had seen it. Out of all the films there, this is the one that stood out the most. The one that made the most sense to us. Confusions shows how things are in the real world. The real world is dirty, gritty... and you hear a lot of the language on a daily basis. To try and accomplish that story without the dialog it had would be tasteless... and untrue to reality. I personally cannot understand how anyone could be offended by a film, regardless of its contents. Its all personal, its nothing against anyone. And I found nothing 'offensive' in Confusions. The only reason, that this film did not get a 10 hands down, would be that the reaction time between the characters seemed to slow down with the camera movement, which kept them paused in action until they were in frame. This did not take away from the effect at all, and I am still very impressed with what I saw. I have watched the DVD 4 times... Guys, keep up the good work... and we cant wait to see you next year!
Awesome.
boxer_joe692 May 2007
I love this movie. I scored one of the 10 autographed copies when this was first released. When ever there's guests over at my place, one of the first things I mention is "Confusions" and that we need to watch it. I love Dans keen insight into love and women. The mans a genius. All the shots are great and the soundtrack is amazing. This is a must see and the guys who made this movie are definitely going places. My favorite part is Dan's speech on fidelity and how Angelina is "safe". The banter is great. Its like they're real people fighting and don't know the camera is rolling. Definitely check this movie out, you'll love it.
My view on "Confusions of an Unmarried Couple"
medarkkid1 May 2007
Despite what some people say, "Confusions of an Unmarried Couple", was my favorite films that I viewed at the IUSB IVFF. I walked away from the film and was speechless. I loved the humor that was presented as well. Someone commented that it was "Offensive", and "Rude". The fact of the matter is, is that this film depicted life, and real situations that someone has gone through in one way shape or form. My overall review of this independent film is none less than amazing. The Butler Bros. are amazing filmmakers and are extremely talented. I think that these brothers from Toronto, have what it takes in independent film. Keep it going guys. Your doing great.
lol
svallee865 May 2007
I've seen this film 3 times and each time I find myself laughing more and more. The character concept and developments is genius. For example Dan's dilapidated sense of reality is beautifully executed by Brett Butler's acting. His nonchalant delivery of some ridiculous linage would be enough of a film. Throw in his counterpart Lisa played by Naomi, brilliant. Initially one thinks; here we go, another story of opposites in a tough relationship. But to go against the grain the Butler Bros develop a counter character equally as dilapidated as Dan- the two just don't get it. It would have been great to see a little more dynamic with the settings but the production values for an Indie film more than make up for it. The use of music in the back was also tasteful. I'd recommend hitting the L.C.B.O picking up some peach schnapps a century Sam and a copy of this film. 9-10. Great film.
A totally decent flick.
azuber86243 May 2007
I met Dan. I met Lisa. I really enjoyed meeting them. I really enjoyed the film.
From the first moving image, each detail. The movie is intelligent. Anyone who has had a relationship longer than skinny pants have been in style should be able to relate to elements of this fantastic story and appreciate it for as much.
Like any relationship, the film did have its up and down moments. Moments, I think, that were needed for full effect; a 'surround sound' of experience, if I may... I actually laughed so hard that I slapped my knee (embarrassed) - it is true - and really - I even had to wipe away a giggle tear or three. Honest. I even yawned a bit, (see I am honest), but mostly I enjoyed each moment of opportunity I was allowed to witness a convincingly honest dialogue between two freaks that are 'in like' with each other and even may be in love.
The music (or score to sound like I know what I am talking about) was wicked and perfectly in tune to the story. I noticed enough to notice that it worked for me and made a difference.
And should the need arise to judge a book by it's cover, the poster which included the portraits of Dan & Lisa emotes a similar mood and energy as the film if I do say
"Confusions of an Unmarried Couple" is a different kind of film and very much worth seeing.
From the first moving image, each detail. The movie is intelligent. Anyone who has had a relationship longer than skinny pants have been in style should be able to relate to elements of this fantastic story and appreciate it for as much.
Like any relationship, the film did have its up and down moments. Moments, I think, that were needed for full effect; a 'surround sound' of experience, if I may... I actually laughed so hard that I slapped my knee (embarrassed) - it is true - and really - I even had to wipe away a giggle tear or three. Honest. I even yawned a bit, (see I am honest), but mostly I enjoyed each moment of opportunity I was allowed to witness a convincingly honest dialogue between two freaks that are 'in like' with each other and even may be in love.
The music (or score to sound like I know what I am talking about) was wicked and perfectly in tune to the story. I noticed enough to notice that it worked for me and made a difference.
And should the need arise to judge a book by it's cover, the poster which included the portraits of Dan & Lisa emotes a similar mood and energy as the film if I do say
"Confusions of an Unmarried Couple" is a different kind of film and very much worth seeing.
A film definitely worth checking out.
athurber24 December 2007
Confusions of an Unmarried Couple is a comedy about a couple who are having relationship problems about two people who don't know, if they love each other. They have a troubled past that includes an ugly break up and a very odd attempt at repairing the relationship. Soon Dan and Lisa try to find out where the relationship went wrong and try savage what's left of their friendship.
Confessionals of an Unmarried Couple is very good entertaining film, as it focused on the troubles of a relationship. The directing by Brett and Jason Butter was excellent. They intertwine the confessionals aspect within the argument the couple is having in the film. It is done well, as it gave good detail about the couple's relationship problems while focusing on the development of each character. Also, the acting in this film was great. I thought Bret Butler and Naomi Johnson were into their roles. Their on screen chemistry was great and sold the fact that their characters were a dysfunctional couple. Confusions of an Unmarried Couple is a funny and interesting look at the ups and downs of a relationship. To purchase this film, you can go www.subprod.com and you can also visit the film's myspace page at www.myspace.com/confusionsunmarriedcouple.
Confessionals of an Unmarried Couple is very good entertaining film, as it focused on the troubles of a relationship. The directing by Brett and Jason Butter was excellent. They intertwine the confessionals aspect within the argument the couple is having in the film. It is done well, as it gave good detail about the couple's relationship problems while focusing on the development of each character. Also, the acting in this film was great. I thought Bret Butler and Naomi Johnson were into their roles. Their on screen chemistry was great and sold the fact that their characters were a dysfunctional couple. Confusions of an Unmarried Couple is a funny and interesting look at the ups and downs of a relationship. To purchase this film, you can go www.subprod.com and you can also visit the film's myspace page at www.myspace.com/confusionsunmarriedcouple.
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