Everyone is entitled to begin life with the wrong ideology as we are a product of our upbringing and environment and influenced by those around us. The error occurs when we blindly cling to these patterns and beliefs without seeking the truth and forming opinions based on our own life experience and our ability to reason.
When you want something in life, don't waste time waiting for someone to give it to you, go and take it. More often than not you will find that whatever it is, it will be given to the person who proves they want it most.