In 1993 she started dating fitness coach Kelly Blair (b. 1970), now Texas gym owner. Smith and Blair got engaged in May 1995. They got married on December 28, 1996 after 3 years together. Smith and Blair divorced on September 11, 2001 after nearly 5 years of marriage and 8 years together. Ironically, their divorce was finalized on the September 11 attacks' day.