The outfit she wore to the Oscars in 2010, the year she won for Best Supporting Actress, was inspired by what Hattie McDaniel, the first African-American Oscar winner, wore to the Oscar ceremony in 1940, the year in which she also won for Best Supporting Actress.
I don't think that anyone should be in control of a relationship. I
think that if you have a woman that controls her man, he is a puppet
and he is weak.