I was really young when I first saw this movie, and what takes me back all those years was the one scene at the end - Vada receiving the mood ring and seeing its changed colour. I don't want to delve too deeply into symbolic meanings, because at the age of 4, I never really dwelt on such things. But the sense of finality, as she moves on in her growth, is so true, and so bitter-sweet and tangible.
'My Girl' gives life to any girl who has found themselves in-between, whether it be in terms of schoolyard 'fitting in' or just emotional maturity and understanding the depth of things that fall in place around you. For Vada, she was in a limbo between life and death, and by feeling death hit so close; she herself could grow and live more freely.
Its so hard to explain the full impact of this film simply because the protagonist is a pre-teen who does not rely on words alone to explain her actions and personality quirks. Her best friend is a boy that makes my heart melt with a happy warmth, making the cold stab of loss so much harder to accept when the time comes for him to go.
I used to dream as a little girl, fantasize how things would have been if Thomas had never died. I never got far, as Vada never seemed to be a complete character, and Thomas was far too quiet to hold her attention.
She loved, lost and grew. I can say that its an ending that puts the rest of 'happily ever after' movies to shame; where a kiss and a spoken promise is enough to tide over the pain of some previous problem. To me, 'My Girl' is a skinned knee, a goofy smile and the shedding of tears. Its realising you are part of something bigger, and that your happy ending is overshadowed by a future more bright and amazing than you could ever imagine.
'My Girl' gives life to any girl who has found themselves in-between, whether it be in terms of schoolyard 'fitting in' or just emotional maturity and understanding the depth of things that fall in place around you. For Vada, she was in a limbo between life and death, and by feeling death hit so close; she herself could grow and live more freely.
Its so hard to explain the full impact of this film simply because the protagonist is a pre-teen who does not rely on words alone to explain her actions and personality quirks. Her best friend is a boy that makes my heart melt with a happy warmth, making the cold stab of loss so much harder to accept when the time comes for him to go.
I used to dream as a little girl, fantasize how things would have been if Thomas had never died. I never got far, as Vada never seemed to be a complete character, and Thomas was far too quiet to hold her attention.
She loved, lost and grew. I can say that its an ending that puts the rest of 'happily ever after' movies to shame; where a kiss and a spoken promise is enough to tide over the pain of some previous problem. To me, 'My Girl' is a skinned knee, a goofy smile and the shedding of tears. Its realising you are part of something bigger, and that your happy ending is overshadowed by a future more bright and amazing than you could ever imagine.
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