Formally, I couldn't be farther from the events depicted in this movie. I don't live in the US; I grew up in a world without smartphones; and in Eighth Grade I was a bully. Yes, I was the kind of bully you hate when he is depicted in a movie. I saw "weaker kids"'s insecurities and took advantage of them to prove my "superiority". Then in high-school I totally changed. To this day I am ashamed of some of the things I did at 14. I'll always be.
"Eighth Grade" is about a very complex 14 years old girl in contemporary America. The first scene, perfectly written and acted, shows her recording a video about "complex life problems". OK, so this is the "she is too much mature for her age" trope... But, no, the video is catastrophic. The quality is abmisal. You can see the struggle to say something "important", some fragments of concepts are there... the whole is sheer cringe. You immediately understand both her and her world.
Nothing is simple, and the movie portrays this by subverting expectations and being contradictory over and over. The School Band performs the National Anthem in the most painful way ever... but she actually performs well with the dishes. Yet, she doesn't seem to realise that, yes, she is good at some things. She records another painful video about the importance of going out - and then she decides to follow her own advice with predictable dire results. And yet in that video she grasps a most insightful idea: "By going out other people will know the movie you, the party you, the week-end you... all the yous that make up your real you". I mean... wow.
She wants to be liked, she struggles with boys... but when a boy shows interest in her she panics. The same boy, who is quite understanding, gives her some wise advice - with the sensibility of an elephant entering a glassware shop. After faking (badly) her sexual awareness, she assures another kid that she is quite good at performing a certain sexual act. She isn't (and, sorry but those who find these scenes "creepy" never reached 14 years old).
In one of the funniest and most subtle sequences of the movie she searches this sexual act on Youtube. The result is an amazing number of videos by young girls and porn stars. Smartly, she refines the search by adding "good" (as in "a good way to") and gets a video by a professional pedagogist. We become even more painfully aware that she isn't ready for it. Undaunted, she tries to exercise with a banana - a fruit she hates - only to be caught by her father, who knows that she hates bananas. She tries to explain that, no, she loves bananas, tries to eat it and almost throws up. End of the story? No. Still undaunted, she forges on by googling for "objects shaped like bananas". We understand how, by then, she is actually totally adrift.
Subtlety is one of the things I loved in this movie. It rewards paying attention. Consider the scene I described: does the father realises the meaning of the banana? Apparently not, but later he checks on her before going to bed and, for apparently no reason at all, she reassures him that he doesn't need to worry, she is doing great. Why?
There is a key scene, later in the movie, between her and her father, an opening up of sort of great importance. In that scene we understand that the mother "went away" leaving the father alone to raise their daughter. Again, pay attention. Through the movie the father mocks her. This sound cruel, until you realise that she is never offended. Maybe dismissive, but of the message contained in that mock, not how it is conveyed. There is a deep understanding between the two, to the point that they developed their own language. Which brings me to what I feel being the key point of the movie.
True, this is a movie about growing up in the age of smartphones and social media. The age gap between kids and adults has never been wider. The teachers are clueless. Even her own father admits this. However, the father does seem to realise that some things never change, that some problems will always be there. He hovers at the margins of his daughter and in the only scene where he intrudes he openly says that it was a mistake and how sorry he is. He doesn't try to understand the era of social media, only to be there for timeless problems.
Today's kids seek answers to their sexual curiosities on Google or Youtube, I, of all things, tracked down a book that my parents bought when they married. Girls interested me but when a girl showed interest in me I panicked and treated her badly. When I went to my first party alone, I almost ran away. When my father, very gently, told me that he was always there "for any questions about my age" I was shocked and offended by his intrusion in my (confused) life. Generally speaking, I saw a lot of my Eighth Grade in this movie (the only chilling scene being the total normality of an exercise "should a shooter come to this school"). At the end, she is happy. She grew up. How? Again, there is no explanation. Maybe the answer is simple: she just tried to live in the real world.
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