You, Me & Them (2013–2015) User Reviews

Predictable...but funny

[dyer_tina · 8/10 · 13 April 2014]

The setup--the family complications engendered after a veterinary nurse and a middle class garage owner embark on a May-December relationship-- could be painful, stupid, or funny. This is so over the top it is hysterical. Eve Myles (Torchwood) throttles back on her usual Welshness from Torchwood to do constantly confused girlfriend, Anthony Stewart Head (Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Manchild) underplays the older lover. Lindsay Duncan chews the scenery as the ex-wife who lives next door and steals Head's shirts. Eps 1 & 2 alone feature a fracas over the 1971 Stones concert, a post-it note bikini, a bomb threat, the stalker ex-wife in the bushes with binoculars...and most particularly the badgers. What's not to love?!

Clichéd, comfortable, unconvincing.... and very funny

[stephen-lambe · 8/10 · 14 November 2013]

OK, so this isn't the most radical of sitcoms. It's full of middle class clichés not to mention many situations and characters we've seen up teen times before. But I really like it. As long as you can suspend your disbelief long enough to believe that a man can be (pretty much) stalked by his ex wife yet tolerated, then the wit and one liners, not to mention the charm of many of the show's cast should win you over easily enough. The acting is (in the main) pretty broad. Lindsay Duncan is OTT but very funny as the ex wife, and Antony Head is probably the only cast member that seems to be underplaying as Ed. Everyone else just stays on the right side of outright mugging. But hey, leave your radicalism in another room and take this programme for what it is - an enjoyable, funny sitcom in the traditional style.

It's Amusing

[zombiemockingbird · 6/10 · 27 July 2021]

It's not horrible, the characters are just a little too over done. Ed and Lauren aren't bad; Lauren gets a little silly occasionally, but overall she's okay, and Ed is my favorite of the bunch. They could do without the brother, Alan, who leans more toward repulsive than funny. The ex-wife Lydia is horrible. She's obnoxious and no one in real life would put up with her crap; she really adds nothing to the show and is painful to watch. Lauren's parents are annoying but typical, and not overly offensive. Lauren's sister and brother-in-law and kids are also annoying but tolerable. Overall it's entertaining.

Many laughs

[vvvas-11021 · 8/10 · 22 February 2021]

I belly laughed throughout the legend of old McCready episode! The comedic timing between Anthony heard and Jeff Rawle Was priceless. Yes it was old-school physical comedy- trying to suppress a sneeze during a championship silent billiards game and lots of other comic jabs. Nice to see Eve Myles In an Ensemble cast as a hippie chick, such a contrast to her latest role in Keeping Faith.

Absolute Gem

[itsdickiepena · 8/10 · 9 April 2023]

First, this show deserved more episodes. Every episode was full of laughs, and the cast is superb.

The chemistry among the cast makes them feel like a real family, and they're all relatable and over the top at the same time.

I found myself laughing out loud... a lot. The dead pan jokes are hysterical. The slapstick jokes are hysterical.

Each episode finds new zany situations for the characters to navigate, and the ensemble writing leaves the viewer wanting more.

I literally watched all 12 episodes in a couple days.

Each episode leaves the viewer in a lighthearted mood. It really is worth watching.

Painful to watch

[cmwheelershop · 1/10 · 18 August 2021]

I couldn't even make it through the first episode. Not one original joke, unless you count the completely unbelievable ex-wife dropping in and being delusional bit, which was really dumb. It was just horrible.

Not worth the effort

[stuart-p1960 · 1/10 · 5 November 2013]

This is based on an unlikely premise that anyone would tolerate their ex living next door and just waltzing in to their home unannounced at regular intervals. The actors involved are some of the best in their field but they are let down by obvious jokes and weak plots. Why do people never get angry or annoyed in British sitcoms? The character played by Anthony Head, in real life, would be angry that his ex was interfering in his new life. The new partner would likewise be angry, annoyed and upset rather than accept an unlikely scenario. Add to this the usual strong mother and weak father and you have a typical middle class suburban sitcom. One to avoid. When it is aired that is the time to do the jobs you have been putting off.

About as much fun as drowning.

[spank-me-senseless · 1/10 · 28 November 2013]

After seeing the trailers for this show on Gold I initially had high hopes. But after the first episode those hopes were well and truly dashed, but in fairness that is common, as the first episode of any new series is really just establishing characters and their relationships within the storyline. So I dismissed my scepticism as unjust in the hope that once it got into its stride that it would somehow perk up and improve. WRONG. This is possibly the most painfully dire, forced and unfunny British sitcom I have seen in literally decades. It's predictable like watching a fatal car crash in slow motion and about as humorous as aforementioned too. If you really find yourself with 40 minutes to kill on an evening I'd suggest a couple of pints of beer instead as that will leave a far less bitter after taste and a greater feeling of satisfaction.

Need a definition of bad . . . .

[pensman · 3/10 · 23 February 2014]

Actors I like--Anthony Head and Jeff Rawle--but it's the show I don't. Head is a wealthy older man living with a younger lover, Lauren Grey, and they are being victimized by their respective families. Head's brother is an older lazy lump; Grey's mother a complete buttinsky, her sister is married to a jerk, their kids--well, the less said the better. Oh, and Head's crazy ex-wife rents the house next door so she can stalk him. And Lindsay Duncan, the ex, has been around forever of the BBC and looks it. Thank god they only made six episodes of this series. If you have any acquaintances you don't like, recommend this series to them and you will be assured they will never contact you again.