Early in Poor Things, the main character Bella discovers that she can give herself sexual pleasure. Delighted, offers to show a maid and her tutor. 'No, Bella, you musn't do that!' objects the tutor. But why not, when it feels good?
Jean Paul Sartre wrote that ''Man is condemned to be free''. We might now add woman too. Ultimately no one is forced to do anything. There are no excuses. Even if someone holds a gun to my head and tells me to hand over my money, I can choose whether to pass my wallet or to die.
Choices are constrained, of course. I cannot choose to float up into the sky and touch a cloud. Here in Denmark, I cannot talk to strangers on a bus without making everyone on the bus uncomfortable. It takes years of education, upbringing, punishment, and praise to drill such social mores into children.
Bella of Poor Things has not had time to internalize social customs, in particular what is expected of a woman. At some point, a character means to insult Bella by calling her a whore. But to Bella, it is no insult at all. She does not understand that it is considered shameful for a woman to sell sex.
Because Bella has no concept of what is shameful for a woman, she is free to follow her desires. She lives from whim to whim, and has not time for boredom. If food tastes bad, she spits it back onto her plate. If her conversation partner is dull, she brings up something more rude. If it is interesting or feels good, she does it.
Bella's absolute freedom threatens many of the male leads in the film. They each want to own her, to prevent her from talking to someone she finds more attractive or more interesting. Several of them literally lock her away. But she will not be a prisoner, and she finds her way out of each predicament to the chagrin of her would be captors.
The reactions of these men are compelling. Bella's freedom reflects how constrained real women are by the standards for their behavior ingrained in us through the culture we have inherited. Most of the time, this culture is as invisible as the air surrounding us. Poor Things is wonderful feminist art, in that it briefly makes those bonds visible.
Jean Paul Sartre wrote that ''Man is condemned to be free''. We might now add woman too. Ultimately no one is forced to do anything. There are no excuses. Even if someone holds a gun to my head and tells me to hand over my money, I can choose whether to pass my wallet or to die.
Choices are constrained, of course. I cannot choose to float up into the sky and touch a cloud. Here in Denmark, I cannot talk to strangers on a bus without making everyone on the bus uncomfortable. It takes years of education, upbringing, punishment, and praise to drill such social mores into children.
Bella of Poor Things has not had time to internalize social customs, in particular what is expected of a woman. At some point, a character means to insult Bella by calling her a whore. But to Bella, it is no insult at all. She does not understand that it is considered shameful for a woman to sell sex.
Because Bella has no concept of what is shameful for a woman, she is free to follow her desires. She lives from whim to whim, and has not time for boredom. If food tastes bad, she spits it back onto her plate. If her conversation partner is dull, she brings up something more rude. If it is interesting or feels good, she does it.
Bella's absolute freedom threatens many of the male leads in the film. They each want to own her, to prevent her from talking to someone she finds more attractive or more interesting. Several of them literally lock her away. But she will not be a prisoner, and she finds her way out of each predicament to the chagrin of her would be captors.
The reactions of these men are compelling. Bella's freedom reflects how constrained real women are by the standards for their behavior ingrained in us through the culture we have inherited. Most of the time, this culture is as invisible as the air surrounding us. Poor Things is wonderful feminist art, in that it briefly makes those bonds visible.
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