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The Dark Matter of Love (2012)

Not Rated | | Documentary | 1 November 2012 (UK)
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Documentary on the psychological aspects of growing up with and without parental love. It centers around the Diaz family, who chooses to adopt three orphans from Russia, and how their new and old kids handle family together.


Sarah McCarthy


Sarah McCarthy
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Credited cast:
Caitlyn Maria Diaz Caitlyn Maria Diaz ... Self
Camilena Anna Diaz Camilena Anna Diaz ... Self
Cayden Marcel Diaz Cayden Marcel Diaz ... Self
Cheryl Diaz Cheryl Diaz ... Self
Claudio Diaz Claudio Diaz ... Self
Cole Vadim Diaz Cole Vadim Diaz ... Self
Maddie Fischer Maddie Fischer ... Self
Robert Marvin Robert Marvin ... Self (as Dr. Robert Marvin)
Nicole Milliren Nicole Milliren ... Self
Michael Rounds Michael Rounds ... Self


ABOUT THE FILM Eleven year old Masha Kulabokhova is about to be adopted into fourteen year old Cami Diaz's family. Masha grew up in a Russian orphanage; Cami was born and raised in Wisconsin and has been the exclusive focus of her parents' love her whole life. The process of Masha becoming part of the Diaz family is going to change both girls forever. THE DARK MATTER OF LOVE follows Masha as she leaves Russia to spend her first year as part of the Diaz family, who have also adopted five year old twin boys Marcel and Vadim. When the reality of bonding with children who have grown up in institutions turns out to be more difficult than they ever imagined, the Diaz's hire two of the world's best developmental psychologists to help them build their new family - through science. Professor Emeritus at the University of Virginia School of Medicine, Dr Robert Marvin, has spent a lifetime developing a world-renowned therapy program that draws upon the past 100 years of scientific discoveries in... Written by Sarah McCarthy

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Testament to a Child's Adaptibility
4 October 2015 | by ezwirnSee all my reviews

The relatively peaceful (documented) outcome was truly against all odds, as many here have said.

I enjoyed watching this, despite being slightly sickened and saddened by the emotional issues and blatant ignorance of the parents.

As many have said, the experts' diagnosis of Masha was ridiculous, as she was almost unimaginably calm and collected considering the transition. (ugh that alliteration reminded me of the disgusting renaming of the kids to "C" names... a pathetic attempt to play "perfect family").

Sorry, I don't mean to bash the parents who were doing their best, as is everyone. Remember that.

But to not learn any Russian? Jesus. The ethnocentrism of some American families is so sad. In itself, I don't know if the language isolation was that damaging, but it clearly revealed the ignorance and unpreparedness of the parents, and ultimately shows their lack of empathy and understanding of the THREE kids they adopted.

The two boys could have been much more demonic, and I found the scene where they were cussing out the father hilarious. I would have laughed out loud if I wasn't also a little sickened by the father's disciplinary ignorance.

Again, sorry for my bashing.

To conclude: Masha was wonderful and would (will?) grow into a very intelligent adult with better caretaker modeling, hopefully some wise and loving adult appears in her life, the sooner the better. The boys have an impressive sense of self, and that will serve them well.

Yes, the home environment is better than a Russian orphanage, but still much more superficial than most homes I've been in.

To viewers in Russia: many Americans are much more aware and real then this family. To prospective American adoptive parents: not all Russian children coming from orphanages are going to be that easy.

Best of luck to the family, and I hope they can help each other heal and grow, as all families have the opportunity to do together. Maybe this situation is what all involved need, and I am just acting ignorant by typing this snarky post.

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