A semi-autobiographical story about Hubert as a young homosexual at odds with his mother.A semi-autobiographical story about Hubert as a young homosexual at odds with his mother.A semi-autobiographical story about Hubert as a young homosexual at odds with his mother.
- Pensionnaire agressif #1as Pensionnaire agressif #1
- (as Hugolin Chevrette)
The downside: She uses these things as excuses to constantly make him feel guilty, make him feel like he owes her for loving him. She keeps accusing him of being ungrateful (though she never says it directly, but implies it in almost every conversation).
What's (arguably) worse: she refuses to listen to him. When she does listen, she doesn't take him seriously. She avoids confrontation, barring occasional hysterical outbursts.
He: makes it perfectly clear that he doesn't expect her to do all the material things for him that she does, and that he'd much rather fend for himself if that means not having to be made to feel guilty all the time.
She: is a struggling single mother, working each day to try to give him a better future. She has to face self-important people who judge her, but who have no idea about the kind of life she leads.
He: does not understand this. He does not see past her awful taste (in clothes and interior design). He thinks she's superficial. He refuses to let her be a part of his life, he criticizes her every word, her every move. He screams at her, insults her.
She: loves him.
He: loves her too. So much.
J'ai tue ma mere is an unflinchingly honest, masterfully shot portrayal of a strained mother/son relationship. Great actors, beautiful images and, I cannot emphasize this enough, absolutely spectacular technique.
Bravo Xavier Dolan! You have created a true work of art.
- Apr 25, 2012