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You Are Not My Mother

  • 2021
  • 1h 33m
IMDb RATING
5.8/10
6.6K
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You Are Not My Mother (2021)
In a North Dublin housing estate Char's mother goes missing. When she returns Char is determined to uncover the truth of her disappearance and unearth the dark secrets of her family.
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In a North Dublin housing estate Char's mother goes missing. When she returns Char is determined to uncover the truth of her disappearance and unearth the dark secrets of her family.In a North Dublin housing estate Char's mother goes missing. When she returns Char is determined to uncover the truth of her disappearance and unearth the dark secrets of her family.In a North Dublin housing estate Char's mother goes missing. When she returns Char is determined to uncover the truth of her disappearance and unearth the dark secrets of her family.

  • Director
    • Kate Dolan
  • Writer
    • Kate Dolan
  • Stars
    • Hazel Doupe
    • Carolyn Bracken
    • Ingrid Craigie
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  • IMDb RATING
    5.8/10
    6.6K
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Kate Dolan
    • Writer
      • Kate Dolan
    • Stars
      • Hazel Doupe
      • Carolyn Bracken
      • Ingrid Craigie
    • 94User reviews
    • 89Critic reviews
    • 74Metascore
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 3 wins & 10 nominations total

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    Hazel Doupe
    Hazel Doupe
    • Char
    Carolyn Bracken
    Carolyn Bracken
    • Angela
    Ingrid Craigie
    Ingrid Craigie
    • Rita
    Jordanne Jones
    • Suzanne
    Paul Reid
    Paul Reid
    • Aaron
    Katie White
    Katie White
    • Kelly
    Florence Adebambo
    • Amanda
    Aoife Spratt
    • Officer Jenny
    Jade Jordan
    Jade Jordan
    • Ms. Devlin
    Madi O'Carroll
    Madi O'Carroll
    • Tour Guide
    Karl Rice
    • Ste
    Martin O'Sullivan
    Martin O'Sullivan
    • Frank - Suzanne's Father
    Ciara Greene
    • Suzanne's Mother
    Kate Dolan
    Kate Dolan
    • Pharmacist
    Colin Peppard
    • Jamie
    Lucie Doran
    • Young Char
    Dante Barry
    • Baby Char
    Ali Fox
    Ali Fox
    • Doctor
    • Director
      • Kate Dolan
    • Writer
      • Kate Dolan
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    • Production, box office & more at IMDbPro

    User reviews94

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    7Horror_Flick_Fanatic

    Good film.

    I really enjoy these independent horror films based on Celtic / Irish folklore. They have the things I feel that make a great horror tale. They have foreshadowing, crescendoing tension, atmosphere, drama and spirituality. Is this one as good as Witch or Hereditary, no. But it is definitely better than the one millionth remake of exorcist and demon possession films. Far better than a abysmal slasher film.

    I really hope filmmakers look for more terror inducing folklore from past cultures. These really make good topics for horror enthusiasts. Okay, not all horror film fanatics are the same. But I definitely prefer this style of horror.

    As for this film, I feel all of the actors gave very good performances. It's definitely worth a watch.
    6Blue-Grotto

    The Supernatural and the Rougher Side of Dublin

    Char's mother Angela is acting strange. Angela rarely emerges from the bedroom, has trouble completing routine tasks like getting groceries and driving Char to school, and she is getting worse. The thing is Char really needs her mom right now. She is being bullied at school and needs someone to turn to for support and advice. This is when Angela unexpectedly disappears and then reappears in a hostile mood.

    You Are Not My Mother is an intriguing, quirky, and female driven dive into Irish folklore, the supernatural, mental illness, and the rougher side of Dublin. Because of a low film budget there is not a lot of depth to the dialogue or acting, but there are bright spots too like the female focused story and the acting of Hazel Doupe (Char).

    World premiere seen at the Toronto international film festival.
    7ethanarmstrongfilm

    Can I be your Mother

    What a great hidden gem of a film which needs to be heard a lot more. Hazel Doupe plays an amazing role as Char and the connection between her and her 'so called mother' was astonishing. The way you could tell Char loved Angela so much and the agony she had to say "You are not my Mother" must of really hurt.

    If anybody wants to see it go watch it on Netflix whilst you have the chance. The only reason I ranked it 7 star is because I didn't feel that scared for a horror and felt more of thriller.

    It really shows how mental illness on parent can affect their loved ones especially their children.
    7PedroPires90

    Good surprise

    A good surprise. With a good story and full of important themes, the film is elevated by the talented cast and the very secure direction of Dolan (quite impressive for a debut).

    It's not a terrifying horror film, maybe it even works better as a drama sometimes, but you always feel the tension in the air supported by a strong score and a naturally grey lighting (c'mon, more films in the UK and Ireland, this climate is perfect for horror 🤣).
    6broman-29429

    Good non gore horror film

    It's not boring at all!! This film has good quality, great acting, very good cast and nicely directed, that's a lot for a horror movie. Don't expect anything gore or special effects (it has some though) it has some subtle scares and it's very enjoyable.

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    • Trivia
      The missing item on Angela's prescription is for lithium. Lithium is frequently used to treat mania that is part of bipolar disorder (manic-depressive illness). It is also used on a daily basis to reduce the frequency and severity of manic episodes.
    • Goofs
      Suzanne and Char set up at the bonfire to trap the demon, and after Char lures the demon back to the bonfire when she runs into Kelly and the bullies. Suzanne is nowhere to be seen until after Char is trapped inside the pile of wood with the demon, where she appears with the aerosol canister and the lighter that Kelly had.
    • Quotes

      Suzanne: Family is the scariest fuckin' thing on the planet.

    • Connections
      Referenced in Film Junk Podcast: Episode 816: Malignant + The Shawshank Redemption (2021)

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    • Release date
      • March 4, 2022 (Ireland)
    • Country of origin
      • Ireland
    • Official site
      • Official site
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • Sen Annem Değilsin
    • Production companies
      • Bankside Films
      • Fantastic Films
      • Fís Éireann / Screen Ireland
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    • Gross US & Canada
      • $45,040
    • Opening weekend US & Canada
      • $24,286
      • Mar 27, 2022
    • Gross worldwide
      • $98,275
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    • Runtime
      1 hour 33 minutes
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    • Aspect ratio
      • 2.39:1

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