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Monica and Ross mourn the loss of their grandmother. Chandler is shocked to find that people think he is gay.

Chandler is shocked to learn that people he works with think that he is gay. He asks his friends why, and they tell him that they also thought that he was gay when they first met him. Monica's Grandmother dies, and Ross falls down the open grave, and gets high on pain killers.—Angie

Ross and Monica get a call that their grandmother is sick and rush to her bedside at the hospital. Even there, Judy keeps trying to fix Monica's hair. They exchange stories about Nana, including how she stole Sweet and Lows from everywhere. After she passes, the family begins to say their goodbyes, however, their grandmother momentarily returns to life before dying again. Phoebe thinks that when people die, they are never really gone and they are somehow in this world. But Joey thinks when you are dead, you are worm food.

One of Chandler's work friends tries to fix him up on a date with a colleague and Chandler discovers that a lot of people think he's gay when they first meet him, and he tries to find out why. Turns out the gang also says that they thought Chandler was gay when they first met him. Monica says Chandler has a "quality" that makes him seem gay. Chandler is worried because of the vague answer and wants to know the reason. Chandler is further offended when his colleague says that she was going to set him up with Lowell (who is not that attractive) and says that Brian (from Payroll) is a bit out of CHandler's league.

The funeral is open casket and Ross has to help Judy to pick out a dress and shoes for Nana. Jack wants to be buried at sea, when his time comes. Ross finds a burgundy dress and Judy is worried whatever she may pick, Nana would have said it was the wrong one. Ross finds the Sweet and Lows in Nana's closet, hidden away in boxes.

The gang goes to Ross and Monica's Nana's funeral, where Monica confronts her mother about her critical attitude (she made comments suggesting that Monica requires regular night skin care regime). Judy talks about Nana was critical about every single thing she did and say. Monica makes her realize that Judy is that way to her. But Judy also says that somethings are better left unsaid.

Joey got a portable TV under his overcoat to watch a football game. Soon Jack and all his friends also get in on it. Ross falls into an open grave and hurts his back, resulting in him getting a bit loopy on muscle relaxers. Chandler meets a girl named Andrea, but Ross ruins it for him, when he hugs Chandler and says "if you want to be gay, be gay".. Ross tells Rachel that he loves her, but she just thinks he is high on the relaxers.

Later, the gang looks at Nana's old photos.. One of them is "me and the gang at Java Joe's". Monica looks just like Nana and the photo was taken when Nana was 24-25 yrs old. The gang wonders how they would end up in their life. Chandler meets Lowell, who says he could tell that Chandler is not gay. gay people have a kind of radar. Lowell confirms that Brian is gay and is way out of his league.