You don't want to be the person that had a fight, a little insignificant fight with your spouse. So you did it, and you were pissed, but you stayed pissed at your wife. Not cause it was real, but hell, we'll make up later. In the morning you woke up, and things were still bad, but you kept that... cause hey, I'll come back. And then what happened? You went to your building, and you were, sadly, on that 90th floor and 9/11 happened, and you're never going back home again. The best you could do ...