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We Are Dad (2005)

A gay couple who are pediatric AIDS nurses become foster parents to infants who are HIV positive, and decide to challenge the State of Florida's law banning adoption by gay people


Michel Horvat
1 win & 1 nomination. See more awards »


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Credited cast:
Roger Croteau Roger Croteau ... Self
Steven Lofton Steven Lofton ... Self
Rest of cast listed alphabetically:
Alan Ball Alan Ball ... Self - Florida State Representative
Ron Brenesky Ron Brenesky ... Self - Unity Coalition Miami
Devon Brooks Devon Brooks ... Self - USC, School of Social Work (as Professor Devon Brooks)
Paul Cameron Paul Cameron ... Self - Founder, Family Research Institute (as Dr. Paul Cameron)
Richard Cardran Richard Cardran ... Self - Family Friend
Matthew Coles Matthew Coles ... Self - Lead Counsel, ACLU
Ken Connor Ken Connor ... Self - Family Research Council
John Davidson John Davidson ... Self - Lead Counsel, Lawrence v. Texas
Ginger Delgado Ginger Delgado ... Self (archive footage)
Margaret Fischl Margaret Fischl ... Self - Director, AIDS Clinical Research Unit - Miami (as Dr. Margaret Fischl)
Martin Luther King ... Self (archive footage)
Robert Kunst Robert Kunst ... Self - Miami Civil Rights Activist (as Bob Kunst)
'Grandpa' Leonard 'Grandpa' Leonard ... Self - Family Friend


A thought provoking documentary essaying the struggles of two gay men, Steve Lofton and Roger Croteau, who've been a couple for more than 18 years, to maintain their family of five foster children, who have been labeled "undesirable" by the State of Florida's Department of Children and Families. Their patchwork family runs the gamut of age and race, from two blond tykes to three mixed race African American teens, and all five have tested HIV-positive. When when the oldest child undergoes an HIV seroconversion from positive to negative, the state relabels him "desirable," and thus "adoptable," and the family risks losing him forever. Written by trivwhiz

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Nominated for Best Documentary at the 2006 GLAAD Media Awards. See more »


Croteau, Roger: Keep the dykes on bikes away from the horses!
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Crazy Credits

A debt of gratitude to the Lofton-Croteau Family for their courage, dedication, love, and patience. See more »


References All Aboard! Rosie's Family Cruise (2006) See more »


Little Baby In The Bathtub
Music and Lyrics by Irwin Keller (as Irwin 'Winnie' Keller)
Performed by The Kinsey Sicks
from the Album: "Boyz 2 Girlz" ©1999
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23 June 2006 | by jinness4See all my reviews

These men should be seen as hero's as a mother i could only wish there were more people like them the state of Florida is so full of different people that they just got confused when they met these guys.. i tell ya I'm from Florida born and raised and well .. we just cant make up our minds .. but i have and i say let them all stay Where is the justice? these men put up with so much heartache and yet they get turned down to get it on paper they have done the job that others didn't want to do that others felt wasn't there place when a child has no one to love them its our duty to Grab that child and give them the love and teaching and raise them well with love and a clear mind

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3 March 2005 (USA) See more »

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Oregon, USA See more »

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Tavroh Films See more »
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