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We Are Dad (2005)

A gay couple who are pediatric AIDS nurses become foster parents to infants who are HIV positive, and decide to challenge the State of Florida's law banning adoption by gay people


Michel Horvat

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Credited cast:
Roger Croteau Roger Croteau ... Himself
Steven Lofton Steven Lofton ... Himself
Rest of cast listed alphabetically:
Alan Ball Alan Ball ... Himself - Florida State Representative
Ron Brenesky Ron Brenesky ... Himself - Unity Coalition Miami
Devon Brooks Devon Brooks ... Himself - USC, School of Social Work (as Professor Devon Brooks)
Paul Cameron Paul Cameron ... Himself - Founder, Family Research Institute (as Dr. Paul Cameron)
Richard Cardran Richard Cardran ... Himself - Family Friend
Matthew Coles Matthew Coles ... Himself - Lead Counsel, ACLU
Ken Connor Ken Connor ... Himself - Family Research Council
John Davidson John Davidson ... Himself - Lead Counsel, Lawrence v. Texas
Ginger Delgado Ginger Delgado ... Herself (archive footage)
Margaret Fischl Margaret Fischl ... Herself - Director, AIDS Clinical Research Unit - Miami (as Dr. Margaret Fischl)
Martin Luther King ... Himself (archive footage)
Robert Kunst Robert Kunst ... Himself - Miami Civil Rights Activist (as Bob Kunst)
'Grandpa' Leonard 'Grandpa' Leonard ... Himself - Family Friend


A thought provoking documentary essaying the struggles of two gay men, Steve Lofton and Roger Croteau, who've been a couple for more than 18 years, to maintain their family of five foster children, who have been labeled "undesirable" by the State of Florida's Department of Children and Families. Their patchwork family runs the gamut of age and race, from two blond tykes to three mixed race African American teens, and all five have tested HIV-positive. When when the oldest child undergoes an HIV seroconversion from positive to negative, the state relabels him "desirable," and thus "adoptable," and the family risks losing him forever. Written by trivwhiz

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Release Date:

3 March 2005 (USA) See more »

Filming Locations:

Oregon, USA See more »

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Tavroh Films See more »
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Nominated for Best Documentary at the 2006 GLAAD Media Awards. See more »


Croteau, Roger: Keep the dykes on bikes away from the horses!
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The State of Florida is now free to remove Bert from his home whenever they see fit. See more »


References All Aboard! Rosie's Family Cruise (2006) See more »


Tavroh Films© Logo Music
Composed and Performed by Michael Gordon Shapiro (as Michael G Shapiro)
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Foster gay parents fighting hypocrisy to adopt their foster HIV kids who nobody else wanted
25 June 2005 | by marthadesouzaSee all my reviews

By chance I had the honor to see We Are Dad. It totally changed my mind regarding adoptive gay parents. I grew up with the (wrong) notion (given to me by the adults around me) that gay parents couldn't provide a healthy medium for a developing child to be raised in. Come on! How many nuclear families screwed up their kids. And these two gay guys are the best. After seeing it and pondering about it I am a lot more inclined to be all for gay marriage and adoption by gay parents. I am really glad I saw this factual film. It opened my eyes, mind, and heart. I recommend to anyone to see it. You will have more facts with this documentary on which to base your opinions so you can also give it established on some ground and not only on discrimination and narrowness of mind like I did.

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