Trading Spouses: Meet Your New Mommy

In regards to the Parrin family episode I just watched, "Abossy" treated Marguerete horribly. He is racist, mean, disrespectful, and inconsiderate. Learn from the past; don't live in it or use it as an excuse to treat white people (or anyone) in such a vulgar manner. Abossy was a bully and it seems he is a friend to nobody unless they have black skin, which is OK because with friends like him who needs enemies! The saddest part is that his little girl was a witness to the inexcusable, awful treatment he bestowed upon his guest and now thinks that is acceptable. Hopefully as she grows and learns about life for herself she will realize the error of her father's way of thinking.

I also don't ever make comments about shows either, but this woman was just so incredibly disgusting that I still can't believe she can actually show her face to the world! Did you see how rude & evil she was when she told ZZ that he will die at 40yrs old because of his diet! I loved zz's response back to her! This Vegan lady has such severe MENTAL ISSUES, I can't believe she was even allowed to be on the show. She is such a hypocrite, being a vegan is only good when it fits her. She let her family down. She is psychotic in ever way! Did you see how disguising she acted when some of the money went to her husband for his garden, she was jealous & actually started to CRY! Oh!! But when she gets HER money she laughs, this is after also crying about getting a spa!!! Most people would love to have a spa!! So, So ungrateful! She is just the biggest hypocrite, rude, UGLY, CRAZY, person I've ever seen on T.V. She is a BAD mom and a TERRIBLE wife. She makes me sad I live in California! I better not EVER run into that Crazy woman, she'll get an earful from me! Oh, P.S. Smelly Vegan Mom, Good job on teaching ZZ English, wow your real smart. I hope you choke on a piece of Alligator meat!!!!!!!!!! You Creep. Oh and all your friends are rude too!

To the sweet, wonderful, respectful and compassionate Alligator mom, first off you are way more beautiful on the outside & inside then her! You are a GREAT MOM & WIFE. I told my husband while watching the show that I would love to come visit you & your family, & I would love those alligator gifts and I will eat all the meat in the world with you all. Oh & zz, I will drink soda & burp with you all day. ZZ when you told crazy vegan mom she was fired, I just fell in love with you! You are an adorable boy & have the cutest personality. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that psycho lady! Not ALL Californian's are like that. I hope she drowns in that spa you guys gave her. Wicked people like that don't deserve to be here on this earth. You guys have a wonderful, beautiful family and God bless you all.

I had never seen this show, and tune-in to CMT very seldom, except to watch "Trick My Truck," or the occasional movie they have listed in which I'm interested.

A couple of weeks ago, I happened to be tuning to another channel, when I hit CMT just as one of these episodes was getting underway. After intending to pause for only a moment, I became interested, and watched the entire episode, with complete interest.

I checked and found it had originally aired in September of 2004, and was the first to vary from the usual format, with the husbands changing locales instead of the wives. (The Cooke//Levine episode.)

Both men were completely likable - Justin Levine, a successful New York City lawyer, and of Jewish heritage, traveling to rural Georgia, with chicken coops and all. His counterpart, "Jay" Clark, a blue-collar factory worker went to the Levine's high-rise, terraced apartment, with superb view - the type you find listed in "New York" Magazine WELL into seven figures.

This was a pleasant program, with Justin actually shopping in the hardware store and doing a very credible job of constructing a gate for one of the animal enclosures, and taking the wife (who preferred the local diner) to a posh Atlanta restaurant for haute cuisine.

"Jay" Cooke, as thoroughly-pleasant a man as you're likely to encounter, was understandably fascinated by the New York City digs and overall scene, and it was honestly heartwarming to observe his bonding with son Pierce, preparing for his upcoming Bar Mitzvah; there could not be a better scenario for displaying the pleasant interacting of two cultures, both religious and social/lifestyle. He was also fascinated by the frenetic, hyper wife, Beverly, a quintessential big city career woman, social butterfly, nervous about her son's upcoming ceremony (and everything else) - but somehow, being also very pleasant at the same time - no mean feat!

This was the only program in this series I'd seen, until today, when I watched another, also produced sometime ago, originally airing January, 2005. (The Lambe-Levy//Farrell episode.)

Here, Marybeth Lambe travels from the family farm in rural Washington state, and her and Mark Levy's seven children, multi-racial, with four adopted. Her counterpart, Janet Farrell, travels from Carmel, New York and her four kids, ranging from earlier teens to tattooed/pierced son, Brian, 20.

Marybeth is quiet, nurturing, early-rising, enjoying an active schedule, and even a bit of "chaos." Janet, while amazingly being such while not being highly-"unpleasant," sleeps late, her husband, Dennis, doing most of the housework (despite multiple back surgeries), an has a somewhat deluded view in assessing the positive effects her presence, requests, ideas and instructions have on those around her. If they were grading same, in her host family surroundings, she'd give herself a solid "10", while Dennis and children would likely be around, say, "4" --MAX.

The most vivid aspect of this program was Marybeth's genuine, sincere interest in Brian's art and talent, and encouraging him to pursue whatever path would come, whether body or fine art.

It was clear from his comments - both during the program and after his mother's return home - that this woman had given him more in this vein in one week than his mother had in 20 years.

When his Mom was reading Marybeth's disbursement of the their $50,000 stipend for the show (in accord with each spouse directing how his/her host family's 50-grand is to be spent) he uttered something about probably "getting a break," since Marybeth had made the disbursement decision (instead of his Mom).

From some other comments and summaries of other offerings in this series, I'd say that, by chance, the two I've seen are probably among the most pleasant and interesting in a positive manner.

I'd give it 8* based upon what I've seen - 9* for my first, and 7* the other, averaged. I think this is simply one of those shows where, instead of being a fan of virtually everything presented, one needs to watch for a bit, and then continue or switch channels, accordingly, based upon that day's particular presentation.

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Just saw a third episode, several days after the above two. Some difference. From original season, the totally obnoxious, yowling, morbidly-obese "Christian" nut from Louisiana, exchanging households with the attractive, quiet spoken lady from Massachusetts - a "New Age" astrologer and radio show love Guru, whose husband held a Solstice celebration for her almost psycho counterpart. However, for me, this program was wholly fascinating, and the "New Age/astrological" fanaticism almost as nonsensical as the shrieking "Christian" histrionics --albeit at opposite ends of the spectrum. Thank God most folks are sensible enough to be somewhere between.

Trading spouses is a mediocre attempt at recreating the exciting "Wife Swap" show. Though I don't like the title of either, I do enjoy watching the dilemmas unfold. The title is misleading - it sounds like a swinger show, which is the reason it took me so long to watch it. I only watched it after a friend explained that it was not about sex. Another problem with Trading Spouses, the one I watched had 10 minutes "getting to know" the prima donna real estate agent that was being traded with. She was obnoxious, had loose morals and she was very rude. Two or three minutes TOP would have been enough to learn about each person that was switching. The show seemed to draw out single individual incidents rather than show a variety of daily living action shots. Friday night is not a good time slot for this show. A better time slot would be 9pm Tuesday, Wednesday or Thursday. I probably will not watch this show again.

I thought the show was pretty good. But those spoiled Pileks need to get manners, making Lisa clean for them ! The thing that made me like the show was Lisa's family, they were at least nice, the funniest part was when Samantha ordered salad when the Bower kids already ordered pizza. The thing that makes me really mad is the Pilek kids, the spoiled boy who wants to play baseball, and the Britney Spears wannabe girl. I can't wait until next weeks episode to see if the situation gets better. IF I was Lisa and they didn't offer me a chair at the beach and I was their guest. I would have a serious talk with them about their attitude and their laziness. And thats all I have to say about this show.