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Totally Sexy Loser (2003)

The course of a gay relationship on the cusp of its ending, as seen in retrospect by Jeremy a love addict who has become disenchanted with this his 45th relationship.


Jason Schafer


Jason Schafer


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Cast overview, first billed only:
Chad Lindsey Chad Lindsey ... Jeremy
Mark DeWhitt Mark DeWhitt ... Chip
Craig Robert Young ... Evan
Amy Gollnick Amy Gollnick ... Gretchen
Jesslyn Hoeft Jesslyn Hoeft ... Claudia
Terrance Elton ... Stu
Amber Poklar Amber Poklar ... Allison
Ann Marie Lindbloom ... Spa Hostess
Lisa Balabanian Lisa Balabanian ... Non-Fat Latte Drinker
Matthew Herman Matthew Herman ... Backup Barrista, Party Musician
Chad Marting Chad Marting ... Belly Dancer
Eric Sagaspe Eric Sagaspe ... Belly Dancer 2
Tatiana Simonian Tatiana Simonian ... Party Musician 2
Todd Heard Todd Heard ... Jeremy's Co-Worker
Ling Ling Lee Ling Ling Lee ... Jeremy's Co-Worker 2


Jeremy, the Totally Sexy Loser is on his forty-fifth boyfriend and is ready to call it quits, but emotionally fragile Chip, a flight attendant, just can't deal. While trying to figure out how he got to this point, Jeremy reflects on how he met Chip and gradually comes to realize why he has such bad luck with men. Written by Bobolink

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Comedy | Drama | Romance


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[Talking of Jeremy's boyfriend]
Gretchen: He's nice.
Jeremy: Of course he's nice. He's taking serotonin re-uptake inhibitors.
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Not so Sexy Loser?
7 June 2003 | by Havan_IronOakSee all my reviews

This not-so-steady-cam look at a 30 something gay man with 40 some past lovers is not as entertaining as it is true. Jeremy is a writer for a magazine and freely admits that he's gone through scores of boyfriends and lovers. The bloom is once again off the rose with his current beau, the ever so needy Chip, but getting rid of him isn't proving so easy.

While this movie will never be among my favorites, I am glad that I saw it. I was fully prepared to dislike both main characters after just a few minutes with them, but by the end of the movie I found that I did care a bit about both of them. Trying to understand why Jeremy has been through so many men and trying to understand what Chip sees in him was just interesting enough to make this film worthwhile.

Not a rave review but no tomatoes thrown either.

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