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Dear Jesse (1998)

Can you go home again? What if you're a gay man and home is a state where voters keep electing a homophobe to the US Senate? In 1996, at age 30, native son Tim Kirkman returns to North ... See full summary »


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Credited cast:
Nathan A. Barbour Nathan A. Barbour ... Himself
Karen Brown Karen Brown ... Herself
Patsy Clarke Patsy Clarke ... Herself
Hal Crowther Hal Crowther ... Himself
Jaki Shelton Greene Jaki Shelton Greene ... Herself
Allan Gurganus Allan Gurganus ... Himself
Jesse Helms Jesse Helms ... Himself
Jerry Kirkman Jerry Kirkman ... Himself
Tim Kirkman ... Himself
Jerry McGee Jerry McGee ... Himself (as Dr. Jerry McGee)
Ann Pierce Ann Pierce ... Herself
Matthew Shepard ... Himself
H. Mitchell Simpson H. Mitchell Simpson ... Himself (as Dr. H. Mitchell Simpson)
Lee Smith Lee Smith ... Herself
Eloise Vaughn Eloise Vaughn ... Herself


Can you go home again? What if you're a gay man and home is a state where voters keep electing a homophobe to the US Senate? In 1996, at age 30, native son Tim Kirkman returns to North Carolina to explore the parallels and differences between himself and Jesse Helms: they're from the same town and college, with media interests, from families blessed by adoptions, Baptists by upbringing. Tim puts his camera in front of his family, a boyhood pal, college friends, his pastor, Helms fans, community activists, novelists Lee Smith and Allan Gurganus, a mayor who's gay, and people in the street, including a brief interview with Matthew Shepard. What is it to judge, and what is it to love? Written by <jhailey@hotmail.com>

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A homophobic senator. A gay filmmaker. A different kind of love letter.









Release Date:

10 October 1998 (USA) See more »

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North Carolina, USA


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Opening Weekend USA:

$3,748, 4 October 1998, Limited Release

Gross USA:

$16,875, 18 July 1999
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A touching and eloquent documentary
2 April 2007 | by pogostiksSee all my reviews

Like many people, I know who Jesse Helms is... and I basically despise the man, but coming from Canada I did not really have an idea of what it must be like to grow up in a State that kept his man in the Senate for decades. This documentary is not just about homophobia...that exists more or less everywhere - but it is also a glimpse into the "religious" and racist South - where the film-maker comes from and where he went back in order to make this documentary.

What strikes me most in this film, mainly - but not only made up of talking heads - is the erudition of the people he interviews. Most of them are talking off the top of their heads, but they nevertheless come across as deep and extremely eloquent. I especially liked the first black girl to go to a white school in the film-maker's town; she reads a poem that she wrote as a student - supposedly for the first black to become a mayor (if I remember rightly) but in fact it is an amazing cry from the heart against Jesse Helms. Wonderful stuff! Many of the other people interviewed were as eloquent, and it was often very touching. Or occasionally more revealing than expected.. One of the best moments is when a Republican supporter of Jesse Helms is asked to explain what it is about Jesse that makes him like the Senator. The man is obviously so used to "knee-jerk" reactions that he is almost incapable of making a sentence... he is totally flummoxed by the question and struggles to find something to say. In his long silences, there is more eloquence than the man intended about what kinds of people vote for Jesse!

The film-maker himself is also very eloquent, especially in the beginning and ending of his film. He talks about himself openly and simply, but to great effect. This documentary would be an excellent tool for teachers in schools to use to start discussions about so many topics. If it were made obligatory viewing for everyone, Senators like Helms might just not continue to get elected.

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