The Cider House Rules (1999)
Kieran Culkin: Buster
Buster : [digging grave of botched abortion victim] What did she die of?
Dr. Wilbur Larch : She died of secrecy. She died of... ignorance. Homer, did you expect to be responsible for their children, you have to give them the right to decide whether or not to have children. Wouldn't you agree?
Homer : I'm not excepting people to be responsible enough to control themselves to begin with.