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A Husband, a Wife and a Lover

  • TV Movie
  • 1996
  • Not Rated
  • 1h 35m
IMDb RATING
5.8/10
336
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Judith Light in A Husband, a Wife and a Lover (1996)
DramaRomance

When her cheating husband has a debilitating stroke, a woman invites her lover to move in with them.When her cheating husband has a debilitating stroke, a woman invites her lover to move in with them.When her cheating husband has a debilitating stroke, a woman invites her lover to move in with them.

  • Director
    • Ted Kotcheff
  • Writer
    • Daniel Freudenberger
  • Stars
    • Judith Light
    • Jay Thomas
    • Linda Sorensen
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  • IMDb RATING
    5.8/10
    336
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Ted Kotcheff
    • Writer
      • Daniel Freudenberger
    • Stars
      • Judith Light
      • Jay Thomas
      • Linda Sorensen
    • 8User reviews
    • 2Critic reviews
  • See production info at IMDbPro
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    Judith Light
    Judith Light
    • Lisa McKeever
    Jay Thomas
    Jay Thomas
    • Eric McKeever
    Linda Sorensen
    Linda Sorensen
    • Vivian
    Robin Dunne
    Robin Dunne
    • Bruce
    Rachel Wilson
    Rachel Wilson
    • Sarah
    William Russ
    William Russ
    • Art Maskin
    Gerry Mendicino
    Gerry Mendicino
    • Gary Reynolds
    Nonnie Griffin
    Nonnie Griffin
    • Mrs. Feld
    Tyrone Benskin
    Tyrone Benskin
    • Dr. Carpenter
    Joyce Gordon
    Joyce Gordon
    • Mrs. Skinner
    Karyn Dwyer
    Karyn Dwyer
    • Samantha
    Tracey Hway
    Tracey Hway
    • Kameesha
    • (as Tracy Hway)
    Janet Lo
    Janet Lo
    • Mrs. Horvath
    Grant Nickalls
    Grant Nickalls
    • Marty
    • Director
      • Ted Kotcheff
    • Writer
      • Daniel Freudenberger
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    6tlharrison-59546

    Not bad

    Hokey, hard to believe, and downright laughable at times but I found myself enjoying it. Judith Light is an underrated treasure of our time. She does an amazing job (as usual). I'll watch anything with her. This story did not go the direction I expected, which was somewhat a pleasant surprise.

    Some scenes felt very repetitive and unnecessary, while it would have been nice to see other elements added. Disappointing to include some characters early on in the movie, then just have them drop off with only a mere suggestion of why. Still, I'd recommend.
    petershelleyau

    "The Popular Mechanics version of Jules and Jim"

    This made-for-TV movie, inspired by actual events, has a teleplay by Danial Freudenberger that avoids most of the cliches of the romantic triangle, and features an understated performance by Judith Light, who co-executive produces.

    Light is caterer Lisa McKeever, who is on the verge of leaving her gambling cheating husband documentarian Eric (Jay Thomas) when he has a stroke. Although his speech is not affected, Eric is still immobilised, and Lisa feels obliged to stay in a loveless marriage. However romantic interest from her mechanic Art (William Russ) brings a complication.

    Freudenberger makes Art so amenable, that Art's empathy with Eric subverts all Eric's anger and jealousy, though amusingly Lisa objects to Art's sensitive new age man routine when she snaps "Just love me. Don't try to understand me". We get doses of melodrama in a heart attack, the disapproval of the McKeever daughter ("There's a word for women who love two men"), and an air vent in Eric's room that allows him to overhear Lisa and Art having sex - though the latter is acknowledged by Lisa as a deliberate act of cruelty. Freudenberger's dialogue has the wit to have Eric describe the set-up as "the Popular Mechanics version of Jules and Jim", and has one of Eric's jokes repeated, though we also get "Why are you doing this?". Given that Lisa is a caterer and Art also a good cook, we also get a lunch where their food is eroticised as they eat chocolate.

    Given that both Lisa and Art have good intentions, it's a shame that more is not made of Eric's anger, since these moments give Thomas his best moments. He is styled with a grey streak in his hair, but then both Light and Russ are also photographed with lines under their eyes.

    Director Ted Kotchef creates a very clean atmosphere, with only one subjective camera angle and one expressionist shot, only one badly staged scene where Lisa eyeballs her daughter, and the sentimental music of Jonathan Goldsmith is tolerable.
    9MarieGabrielle

    Other title "A Strange Affair"...Judith Light and Jay Thomas...

    Good combination- and an odd story based on fact.

    The title- "A Strange Affair" is a bit more intriguing.This is an interesting story, well-acted by Judith Light and Jay Thomas.

    When Light's husband (Jay Thomas) has a stroke, she decides to attempt a catering business, at first it is very uncertain, but she encounters a sympathetic auto mechanic who helps her out.

    If this was fiction, it would be boring. But somehow, Light draws in the audience, makes us care. She is after all, doing the right thing, caring for a selfish husband, and trying to make things work. The children are on the periphery.

    There are some beautiful winter scenes of Horseshoe Falls and the Seattle coastline, flying at 14,000 feet. This is a good film- give it a chance. Light always rises to the occasion, and makes us care about the characters involved. Jay Thomas is also believable,and sympathetic. Hope to see him in more family drama. 9/10.
    10dloebe

    "The Popular Mechanic's version of Jules and Jim."

    A Strange Affair indeed! What a film! Judith Light shines in this made-for- Lifetime(?) drama based on "real events". Lisa (Light), a proud graduate of Betty Crocker U, her husband Eric (the ubiquitous Jay Thomas) and a greasy-nailed poor mans' Colin Firth (Russ) offer an, um, interesting(?) dynamic.
    3sandcrab277

    not my cup of tea

    Both the male leads, jay thomas and william russ are obnoxious and full of themselves, not endearing to a real woman of strength like the role judith light plays ... the film is made in toronto so there is basically no scenery worth watching ... i suppose most chick flick writers think its more romantic to have one's own catering business rather than toiling away for someone else in a high class restaurant .. judith is a very capable actress and does her roll well

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      This movie was also titled as "A Strange Affair".
    • Connections
      References Jules and Jim (1962)

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    • Release date
      • March 17, 1996 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • A Strange Affair
    • Filming locations
      • Toronto, Ontario, Canada
    • Production companies
      • Patricia Clifford Productions
      • Tetrahedron Productions
      • The Kushner-Locke Company
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    • Runtime
      1 hour 35 minutes
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Stereo
    • Aspect ratio
      • 1.33 : 1

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