19 user 43 critic

À Nos Amours (1983)

À nos amours (original title)
An erratic young woman's family desperately tries to prevent her increasingly erotic ways.


Maurice Pialat


Arlette Langmann (scenario and dialogue), Maurice Pialat (scenario and dialogue)

On Disc

at Amazon

4 wins & 3 nominations. See more awards »


Learn more

More Like This 

    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 7.5/10 X  

Monique is dying. Around her gather her unfaithful husband, her son, who is like his father, and her daughter-in-law. We observe them playing with life as she dies.

Director: Maurice Pialat
Stars: Nathalie Baye, Hubert Deschamps, Philippe Léotard
Drama | Fantasy
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 6.9/10 X  

A priest stuck in a rural congregation and burdened with his overwrought spirituality, finds purpose in a troubled woman accused of murder.

Director: Maurice Pialat
Stars: Gérard Depardieu, Sandrine Bonnaire, Maurice Pialat
Drama | Romance
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 7/10 X  

A study of a group of young working class people in a French village, who are embarking upon adult life. The film follows the choices and decisions made for their futures.

Director: Maurice Pialat
Stars: Sabine Haudepin, Philippe Marlaud, Annick Alane
L'Enfance Nue (1968)
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 7.6/10 X  

An anguished foster child takes to mischief and lies as his foster parents do their best to love and care for him. But it might be too little, too late in this emotionally devastating portrayal of the orphaned child.

Director: Maurice Pialat
Stars: Michel Terrazon, Linda Gutenberg, Raoul Billerey
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 7.4/10 X  

A husband and wife in a loveless marriage struggle to remain ignorant to their failed relationship.

Director: Maurice Pialat
Stars: Marlène Jobert, Jean Yanne, Christine Fabréga
Loulou (1980)
Drama | Romance
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 6.8/10 X  

A bored wife leaves her husband for an unemployed, petty criminal.

Director: Maurice Pialat
Stars: Isabelle Huppert, Gérard Depardieu, Guy Marchand
Police (1985)
Crime | Drama | Romance
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 6.6/10 X  

A moody, jaded police detective, while investigating a drug ring, falls for a mysterious woman and is drawn into a shady and dangerous scheme.

Director: Maurice Pialat
Stars: Gérard Depardieu, Sophie Marceau, Richard Anconina
Van Gogh (1991)
Biography | Drama
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 7.2/10 X  

The final sixty-seven days of Van Gogh's life are examined.

Director: Maurice Pialat
Stars: Jacques Dutronc, Alexandra London, Bernard Le Coq
Vagabond (1985)
Drama | Romance
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 7.8/10 X  

A young woman's body is found frozen in a ditch. Through flashbacks and interviews, we see the events that led to her inevitable death.

Director: Agnès Varda
Stars: Sandrine Bonnaire, Macha Méril, Stéphane Freiss
Crime | Drama | Mystery
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 7.6/10 X  

A newly hired maid for a rich countryside family befriends a post-office clerk who encourages her to rebel against her employers.

Director: Claude Chabrol
Stars: Isabelle Huppert, Sandrine Bonnaire, Jacqueline Bisset
Monsieur Hire (1989)
Crime | Drama | Romance
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 7.7/10 X  

A recluse is accused of murdering a young woman simply because his neighbors think he is strange.

Director: Patrice Leconte
Stars: Michel Blanc, Sandrine Bonnaire, Luc Thuillier
Comedy | Drama | Romance
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 7.6/10 X  

A womanizing art dealer and a painter find the serenity of their Riviera vacation disturbed by a third guest, a vivacious bohemian woman known for her long list of male conquests.

Director: Éric Rohmer
Stars: Patrick Bauchau, Haydée Politoff, Daniel Pommereulle


Cast overview, first billed only:
Sandrine Bonnaire ... Suzanne
Maurice Pialat ... Le père
Christophe Odent ... Michel
Dominique Besnehard Dominique Besnehard ... Robert
Cyril Collard ... Jean-Pierre
Jacques Fieschi Jacques Fieschi ... Le beau-frère
Valérie Schlumberger Valérie Schlumberger ... Marie-France
Evelyne Ker Evelyne Ker ... La mère
Pierre Novion Pierre Novion ... Adrien
Tsilka Theodorou Tsilka Theodorou ... Fanny
Cyr Boitard Cyr Boitard ... Luc
Anne-Marie Nivelle Anne-Marie Nivelle ... Mère Jean-Pierre
Anne-Sophie Maillé Anne-Sophie Maillé ... Anne
Pierre-Loup Rajot Pierre-Loup Rajot ... Bernard
Jean-Paul Camail Jean-Paul Camail ... Angelo


Suzanne is sixteen and is having sex with many boys, just for fun, but did not manage to really love one of them. Her family does not understand her. The father does not like her behaviour. When he leaves home, the mother becomes a little bit neurotic. And Suzanne's brother Robert, begins to beat her as a punishment. Written by Yepok

Plot Summary | Add Synopsis


Drama | Romance


R | See all certifications »

Parents Guide:

View content advisory »


Official Sites:

Official site [France]




French | English

Release Date:

16 November 1983 (France) See more »

Also Known As:

To Our Loves See more »

Filming Locations:

Paris, France See more »

Company Credits

Show more on IMDbPro »

Technical Specs


Sound Mix:




Aspect Ratio:

1.66 : 1
See full technical specs »

Did You Know?


This film is part of the Criterion Collection, spine #337. See more »


In the sequence with the American, Suzanne's outfit changes from a one-shoulder black dress with white stripes trimming just the top of the bodice, to a one-shoulder black&white striped top with a black skirt, and back again. See more »


Suzanne: Sometimes I feel like killing myself, you know? Sometimes I'm sick of living.
See more »


References Band of Outsiders (1964) See more »


The Cold Song
Henry Purcell (as Percell)
interprété par Klaus Nomi
disques RCA
See more »

Frequently Asked Questions

This FAQ is empty. Add the first question.

User Reviews

Its mesmerizing power touches us
19 March 2017 | by howard.schumannSee all my reviews

"And you want to travel with her, and you want to travel blind and you know that you can trust her for she's touched your perfect body with her mind" – Suzanne, Leonard Cohen

In Maurice Pialat's À Nos Amours,casual sex without emotional involvement is a defense mechanism that 16-year-old Suzanne (Sandrine Bonnaire) uses to mask her anger at the family that does not, or cannot understand her. Winner of France's César Award for Best Film in 1984, À Nos Amours is not a film that will leave you with a warm glow or an optimistic feeling about the human condition, but you will not easily forget Bonnaire's striking performance in her first starring role. The younger child in a dysfunctional Polish family living in Paris, Suzanne must confront what is most common to the process of growing up - finding who you are and where you belong in the world.

Unlike most adolescents, however, she must also deal with a father (Maurice Pialat), who sends her mixed messages about his love, a bullying brother Robert (Dominique Besnehard), and an emotionally unstable mother (Evelyne Ker), all who resent her sexual independence and, what they see as her lack of self control. Suzanne's best instincts are to love and be loved but she is constantly thwarted in realizing those instincts by her insatiable need for sex. Pialat does not stand in judgment of her or anyone else's behavior, taking her own words that "I'm only happy when I'm with a guy" as just the way it is for her.

Though she takes great pleasure in sex and remains a sympathetic character throughout the film, she recognizes that "Life's no fun when you don't love anyone" and talks about suicide. As the film begins, Suzanne is rehearsing a play in a summer camp about a woman who deserts a promising relationship, convinced that love is an illusion. She will demonstrate the play's narrative arc in her own life throughout the remainder of the film. Though the film tells us nothing about their back story, Suzanne's romance with the handsome Luc (Cyr Boitard) seems to have hit a wall, though he tells her that he is still in love with her. Keeping her distance, Suzanne rejects his sexual overtures without offering a reason.

Attending a party in the port where she dresses in a manner that will be instantly appealing to the sailors who congregate at the bar, Suzanne loses her virginity with an American (Tom Stevens) who, when it is over, says "Thanks a lot," to which she replies, "You're welcome. It's free." Feeling uneasy about her first experience, she confides to her friend Martine (Maité Maillé) that she doesn't know why she did it but doesn't regret it. Transcending her experiences with the young men who are more than willing to accommodate her desires, her relationship with her father is the most meaningful one in the film, though it is inconsistent and ambiguous.

Telling his daughter that he is leaving the family, his intimate conversation with Suzanne is honest and tender, yet, while her father finds a way out, Suzanne is offered none and the film unfortunately never suggests any. After her father leaves, relationships with her brother Robert and mother turn to histrionic outbursts and physical assaults that look all too real and feel jarringly incongruous with the good feelings the film has built to this point. Now under the weight of being left alone, Suzanne's mother, who previously had been encouraging her daughter's independence, now turns against her and suffers what is casually referred to as a "nervous breakdown."

In one of the film's most referenced scenes, a family dinner party in which Suzanne seems to be content with her husband of six months, Jean-Pierre (Cyril Collard),is interrupted by her father who walks in unannounced and proceeds to antagonize everyone in the room including Robert and his friends. The scene has the feeling of being improvised yet is one of the most convincing, if unpleasant, scenes in a film that defies cinematic conventions and acceptable social norms. Though at times A Nos Amours is not an easy film to like, its mesmerizing power touches us and remains in the hidden places where our fears live.

2 of 3 people found this review helpful.  Was this review helpful to you? | Report this
Review this title | See all 19 user reviews »

Contribute to This Page

Recently Viewed