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Love and Pain and the Whole Damn Thing (1973)

PG | | Comedy, Drama | April 1973 (UK)
American Walter Elbertson, in his late teens, is feeling lost within his family of overachievers. Thirty-something Englishwoman Lila Fisher is emotionally repressed. The two meet on their ... See full summary »

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Alan J. Pakula

Writer:

Alvin Sargent
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Cast

Complete credited cast:
Maggie Smith ... Lila Fisher
Timothy Bottoms ... Walter Elbertson
Don Jaime de Mora y Aragón ... The Duke
Emiliano Redondo ... The Spanish Gentleman
Charles Baxter Charles Baxter ... Dr. Elbertson
Margaret Modlin Margaret Modlin ... Mrs. Elbertson
May Heatherly ... Melanie Elbertson (as May Heatherley)
Lloyd Brimhall Lloyd Brimhall ... Carl
Elmer Modlin Elmer Modlin ... Dr. Edelheidt
Andrés Monreal Andrés Monreal ... Tourist Guide
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Storyline

American Walter Elbertson, in his late teens, is feeling lost within his family of overachievers. Thirty-something Englishwoman Lila Fisher is emotionally repressed. The two meet on their respective vacations in Spain, when, on the spur of the moment, Walter decides to ditch his overly regimented cycling tour group and join the bus tour group of which Lila is a part. They hardly speak to each other during the first few days, and when they do, they make each other nervous since each is scared of life. In spite of their fear of life or largely because of it, they enter into a friendship that blossoms into a romance, however rocky the road to that romance is. Out of circumstance, they abandon the bus tour and travel together through Spain on their own. Their relationship is put to the test of outside scrutiny when they meet and have an extended stay with a Spanish Duke. Written by Huggo

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Comedy | Drama

Certificate:

PG | See all certifications »

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Country:

USA

Language:

English | Spanish

Release Date:

April 1973 (UK) See more »

Also Known As:

The Widower See more »

Filming Locations:

Estudios Verona, Madrid, Spain See more »

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Production Co:

Gus Productions See more »
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Sound Mix:

Mono

Color:

Color (Eastmancolor)

Aspect Ratio:

1.85 : 1
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Trivia

The verses Lila twice repeats aloud to herself, beginning "How beautifully blue the sky", are from the lyrics of the comic opera The Pirates of Penzance, by Gilbert and Sullivan. See more »

Goofs

When Walter and Lila park the caravan trailer for the night, it is pouring down rain, and the ground outside the trailer is saturated with mud and puddles. Yet early the next morning, as Walter emerges from the caravan, it is sunny out and the ground is completely dry, no sign whatsoever of mud or puddles from the previous night's deluge. See more »

Quotes

Lila Fisher: I'm perfectly all right, thank you.
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Connections

References King of Kings (1961) See more »

Soundtracks

How beautifully blue the sky
Written by W.S. Gilbert and Arthur Sullivan
From "The Pirates of Penzance"
Lila (Maggie Smith) quotes the lyrics twice
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A wonderful film for young adults and their elders ...
6 January 2006 | by nancyjomoSee all my reviews

This is a delightful film of coming of age, and coming to life. The one, a young man, suffocated by his blue-blood family, finds himself in the eyes of an older woman. And she, a not-quite-middle-aged spinster suffocated by her roles in life, is yearning for something to live for as she faces a final illness. He falls in love with her unaffected realism; and she with his boyish enthusiasm and unashamed wonder at the world. Together they struggle with what they see as a lack of tolerable options for such an odd couple; while learning more and more to depend on each other for much more than friendship. Together they discover Europe, and life, and each other, and themselves ... and bring us all a little more to life when they do.


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