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Love Me or Leave Me

  • 19551955
  • PGPG
  • 2h 2m
IMDb RATING
7.1/10
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James Cagney and Doris Day in Love Me or Leave Me (1955)
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A fictionalized account of the career of jazz singer Ruth Etting and her tempestuous marriage to gangster Marty Snyder, who helped propel her to stardom.A fictionalized account of the career of jazz singer Ruth Etting and her tempestuous marriage to gangster Marty Snyder, who helped propel her to stardom.A fictionalized account of the career of jazz singer Ruth Etting and her tempestuous marriage to gangster Marty Snyder, who helped propel her to stardom.

IMDb RATING
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4.1K
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  • Director
    • Charles Vidor
  • Writers
    • Daniel Fuchs(screenplay)
    • Isobel Lennart(screenplay)
  • Stars
    • Doris Day
    • James Cagney
    • Cameron Mitchell
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  • Director
    • Charles Vidor
  • Writers
    • Daniel Fuchs(screenplay)
    • Isobel Lennart(screenplay)
  • Stars
    • Doris Day
    • James Cagney
    • Cameron Mitchell
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    • 76User reviews
    • 35Critic reviews
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    • Won 1 Oscar
      • 4 wins & 6 nominations total

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    James Cagney and Doris Day in Love Me or Leave Me (1955)
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    James Cagney and Doris Day in Love Me or Leave Me (1955)
    James Cagney and Doris Day in Love Me or Leave Me (1955)
    James Cagney and Doris Day in Love Me or Leave Me (1955)
    James Cagney in Love Me or Leave Me (1955)
    James Cagney, Doris Day, and Charles Vidor in Love Me or Leave Me (1955)
    Doris Day in Love Me or Leave Me (1955)
    James Cagney and Doris Day in Love Me or Leave Me (1955)
    James Cagney and Doris Day in Love Me or Leave Me (1955)
    James Cagney and Doris Day in Love Me or Leave Me (1955)
    Doris Day in Love Me or Leave Me (1955)

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    Doris Day
    Doris Day
    • Ruth Ettingas Ruth Etting
    James Cagney
    James Cagney
    • Martin Snyderas Martin Snyder
    Cameron Mitchell
    Cameron Mitchell
    • Johnny Aldermanas Johnny Alderman
    Robert Keith
    Robert Keith
    • Bernard V. Loomisas Bernard V. Loomis
    Tom Tully
    Tom Tully
    • Frobisheras Frobisher
    Harry Bellaver
    Harry Bellaver
    • Georgieas Georgie
    Richard Gaines
    Richard Gaines
    • Paul Hunteras Paul Hunter
    Peter Leeds
    • Fred Tayloras Fred Taylor
    Claude Stroud
    Claude Stroud
    • Eddie Fultonas Eddie Fulton
    Audrey Young
    Audrey Young
    • Jingle Girlas Jingle Girl
    John Harding
    • Greg Trentas Greg Trent
    Dorothy Abbott
    Dorothy Abbott
    • Danceras Dancer
    • (uncredited)
    Jay Adler
    Jay Adler
    • Orryas Orry
    • (uncredited)
    John Alban
    • Reporteras Reporter
    • (uncredited)
    Mal Alberts
    • Reporteras Reporter
    • (uncredited)
    Don Anderson
    Don Anderson
    • Club Patronas Club Patron
    • (uncredited)
    Veda Ann Borg
    Veda Ann Borg
    • Dance Hall Hostessas Dance Hall Hostess
    • (uncredited)
    Paul Bradley
    • Nightclub Patronas Nightclub Patron
    • (uncredited)
    • Director
      • Charles Vidor
    • Writers
      • Daniel Fuchs(screenplay) (story)
      • Isobel Lennart(screenplay)
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    In 1920s Chicago, Ruth Etting wants to be a renowned singer, which is a far step away from her current work as a taxi dancer. Upon walking into the dance hall and seeing her, Chicago gangster Marty Snyder immediately falls for Ruth, and works toward being her lover, which he believes he can achieve by opening up singing opportunities for her. Ruth is initially wary of Marty, but makes it clear that she is not interested in him in a romantic sense. Regardless, he does help her professionally, and through his opportunities, which are achieved through intimidation and fear, Ruth does quickly start to gain a name as a singer, which she is able to do because of her talent and despite Marty's intimidation tactics. However, the greater her success, the more reliant she becomes on him. This becomes an issue in their relationship as she believes he can take her only so far before he becomes a liability, however he will never let her go that easily. The one person who tried and tries to get Ruth away from her unhappy life with Marty is Johnny Alderman, the musical advisor Marty hired for Ruth at the first gig he got for her, and who also loves Ruth himself. —Huggo
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      • You'll Love it!...The Big Lavish Musical of the Roaring Twenties!
    • Genres
      • Biography
      • Drama
      • Music
      • Romance
    • Certificate
      • PG
    • Parents guide

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    • Trivia
      This was the only time, after becoming a star in the 1930s, that James Cagney accepted second billing for a major role. He thought that Doris Day's character was more central to the film's plot and so ceded top billing to her.
    • Goofs
      Ruth Etting's name is billed over 'Ziegfeld Follies' on a theater marquee. The Ziegfeld Follies never allowed any performer's name to be placed over the title of the show.
    • Quotes

      Martin Snyder: [to Ruth Etting when she visits him in jail] Tell 'em you seen me in the pokey and I looked great! Tell 'em I like it! Makes me feel like a kid again!

    • Connections
      Featured in 1955 Motion Picture Theatre Celebration (1955)
    • Soundtracks
      I'm Sitting on Top of the World
      (uncredited)

      Music by Ray Henderson

      Lyrics by Sam Lewis and Joe Young

      Sung by Claude Stroud

    User reviews76

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    If you're not a fan of Doris Day, give this movie a viewing. No syrup or sugar in this film. It's amazing just how good she is, and I wonder why she let herself be typecast as the eternal virgin? Here's an actress that seems to be able to do almost anything and do it well, ie: sing, dance and act too.

    Another great performance comes from Cameron Mitchell who I really didn't know too much about. He does a great job playing Doris' torch carrying pianist. In fact everyone does a great job in this film. The film hints about a possible drinking problem, but fails to deliver on that point. One scene in particular must have been quite shocking for 1950's audience with a possible rape in a hotel room.

    "Love Me Or Leave Me" has hints of "A Star Is Born" in its fabric but it seems to fail in telling the entire Ruth Etting story. Good on all counts, but it could have been much more powerful with this cast.
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    • Oct 4, 2004

    Details

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    • Release date
      • June 10, 1955 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • Les pièges de la passion
    • Filming locations
      • Hollywood, Los Angeles, California, USA
    • Production company
      • Metro-Goldwyn-Mayer (MGM)
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    Box office

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    • Budget
      • $2,760,000 (estimated)
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    Technical specs

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    • Runtime
      2 hours 2 minutes
    • Aspect ratio
      • 2.55 : 1

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