Bobby and Travis try to find common ground. Jules is upset that Grayson doesn't think she's attractive, and Ellie is upset that being a mother has changed what guys think of her.


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As if Travis wasn't miserable enough helping his father move all his stuff as his mother asked, Bobby insists on further father-son bonding, but the clever kid finds an angle to make it work. Jules is desperate to 'prove' Grayson is attracted to her and punishes his infidelity, but this only demonstrates that even she finds him irresistible and discovers the truth about his wrecked marriage. Written by KGF Vissers

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Comedy | Romance


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14 October 2009 (USA)  »

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The One Where Jules Wants Grayson To Find Her Attractive...
6 December 2014 | by (Australia) – See all my reviews

I love this episode. As the season grows, so do the episodes. In entertainment, quality and of course, laughs. It's a great episode and a great watch.

In this episode, Jules really, really wants Grayson to find her attractive. To make her feel good about herself. After all, all she sees leave his house are twenty-two year olds. That's got to hurt. She constantly dresses up. At one point she was wearing heels, a fancy dress and had her full hair and make up done, at 7AM. Then she went to take the garbage out and when she tossed it over her head, the bag broke and covered her in garbage. Poor, Jules. Meanwhile, Ellie is worried that because now she's a mother, that her friends don't see her the way they used to. And only as a mother.

Overall, I give this episode a 10 out of 10.

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