215 user 214 critic

I Love You, Man (2009)

2:29 | Trailer

Watch Now

From $2.99 (SD) on Amazon Video

Friendless Peter Klaven goes on a series of man-dates to find a Best Man for his wedding. But, when his insta-bond with his new B.F.F. puts a strain on his relationship with his fiancée, can the trio learn to live happily ever after?



(screenplay), (screenplay) | 1 more credit »
902 ( 215)
1 win & 8 nominations. See more awards »



Learn more

People who liked this also liked... 

Comedy | Drama | Romance
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 7.2/10 X  

Devastated Peter takes a Hawaiian vacation in order to deal with the recent break-up with his TV star girlfriend, Sarah. Little does he know, Sarah's traveling to the same resort as her ex - and she's bringing along her new boyfriend.

Director: Nicholas Stoller
Stars: Kristen Bell, Jason Segel, Paul Rudd
Role Models (2008)
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 6.9/10 X  

Wild behavior forces a pair of energy drink reps to enroll in a Big Brother program.

Director: David Wain
Stars: Paul Rudd, Seann William Scott, Elizabeth Banks
Knocked Up (2007)
Comedy | Romance
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 7/10 X  

For fun-loving party animal Ben Stone, the last thing he ever expected was for his one-night stand to show up on his doorstep eight weeks later to tell him she's pregnant with his child.

Director: Judd Apatow
Stars: Seth Rogen, Katherine Heigl, Paul Rudd
Comedy | Romance
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 7.1/10 X  

Goaded by his buddies, a nerdy guy who's never "done the deed" only finds the pressure mounting when he meets a single mother.

Director: Judd Apatow
Stars: Steve Carell, Catherine Keener, Paul Rudd
This Is 40 (2012)
Comedy | Romance
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 6.2/10 X  

Pete and Debbie are both about to turn 40, their kids hate each other, both of their businesses are failing, they're on the verge of losing their house, and their relationship is threatening to fall apart.

Director: Judd Apatow
Stars: Paul Rudd, Leslie Mann, Maude Apatow
Comedy | Music
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 6.4/10 X  

A record company intern is hired to accompany out-of-control British rock star Aldous Snow to a concert at L.A.'s Greek Theater.

Director: Nicholas Stoller
Stars: Jonah Hill, Russell Brand, Elisabeth Moss
Comedy | Romance
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 7/10 X  

John Beckwith and Jeremy Grey, a pair of committed womanizers who sneak into weddings to take advantage of the romantic tinge in the air, find themselves at odds with one another when John meets and falls for Claire Cleary.

Director: David Dobkin
Stars: Owen Wilson, Vince Vaughn, Rachel McAdams
Step Brothers (2008)
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 6.9/10 X  

Two aimless middle-aged losers still living at home are forced against their will to become roommates when their parents marry.

Director: Adam McKay
Stars: Will Ferrell, John C. Reilly, Mary Steenburgen
Old School (2003)
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 7.2/10 X  

Three friends attempt to recapture their glory days by opening up a fraternity near their alma mater.

Director: Todd Phillips
Stars: Luke Wilson, Vince Vaughn, Will Ferrell
Comedy | Sport
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 6.7/10 X  

A group of misfits enter a Las Vegas dodgeball tournament in order to save their cherished local gym from the onslaught of a corporate health fitness chain.

Director: Rawson Marshall Thurber
Stars: Ben Stiller, Christine Taylor, Vince Vaughn
Action | Comedy | Crime
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 7/10 X  

A process server and his marijuana dealer wind up on the run from hitmen and a corrupt police officer after he witnesses his dealer's boss murder a competitor while trying to serve papers on him.

Director: David Gordon Green
Stars: Seth Rogen, James Franco, Gary Cole
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 7.2/10 X  

Ron Burgundy is San Diego's top-rated newsman in the male-dominated broadcasting of the 1970s, but that's all about to change for Ron and his cronies when an ambitious woman is hired as a new anchor.

Director: Adam McKay
Stars: Will Ferrell, Christina Applegate, Steve Carell


Cast overview, first billed only:
Greg Levine ...
Female Co-Worker
Colleen Crabtree ...
Female Co-Worker
Female Co-Worker


Peter Klaven's world revolves around his real estate work and Zooey, his soon-to-be fiancée. After he pops the question, she calls her best friends and they go into wedding planning mode. Peter has no male friends and that poses problems: will he turn out to be a clingy guy, and who will be his best man? Zooey, her friends, and Peter's brother Robbie offer help that results in awkward moments. Then, at an open house Peter's hosting, he meets Sydney, an amiable, low-key guy. They trade business cards, and Peter calls him to meet for drinks. A friendship develops that's great at first but then threatens Peter's engagement and career. Can guys be friends and couples be in love? Written by <jhailey@hotmail.com>

Plot Summary | Plot Synopsis


He needed a best man...he got the worst. See more »


Comedy | Romance

Motion Picture Rating (MPAA)

Rated R for pervasive language, including crude and sexual references | See all certifications »

Parents Guide:





Release Date:

20 March 2009 (USA)  »

Also Known As:

Let's Make Friends  »

Box Office


$40,000,000 (estimated)

Opening Weekend:

$17,810,270 (USA) (20 March 2009)


$71,347,010 (USA) (29 May 2009)

Company Credits

Show detailed on  »

Technical Specs


Sound Mix:

| | |


Aspect Ratio:

1.85 : 1
See  »

Did You Know?


When Peter is in Sydney's man cave for the first time, he sees a photo of Sydney with friends in high school. The school name in the picture is Westlake High. In real life, Jason Segel went to a middle/high school named Harvard-Westlake School. See more »


When Peter goes to answer his iPhone, throughout the film you constantly hear two sounds when he answers it - the ringtone and the iPhone's "lock" sound. Normally, the iPhone only ever plays that sound when unlocking it. When you receive and answer a call, no sound is played other then the ringtone. See more »


[first lines]
Peter Klaven: So, my plan is to create this cluster of live/work lofts all along the perimeter here. And - come here - also I'm planning this neighborhoody, kind of dining and retail area in the central square. You know I even had this thought that you, Denise, and Haley could open up a second location for your store...
Zooey: Really? Because Denise keeps talking about wanting to open up another branch.
Peter Klaven: Well it would be great. I I look, the land is a little pricey, so I couldn't develop it right away. ...
See more »

Crazy Credits

Scenes from the wedding reception play during the credits. See more »


References Thunderball (1965) See more »


Shut Up and Drive
Written by Gillian Gilbert, Peter Hook, Stephen Morris, Evan Rogers, Carl Sturken and Bernard Sumner
Performed by Rihanna
Courtesy of The Island Def Jam Music Group
Under license from Universal Music Enterprises
See more »

Frequently Asked Questions

See more (Spoiler Alert!) »

User Reviews

Very likable and sweet, a great date/group movie.
24 March 2009 | by (United States) – See all my reviews

Though you won't find the name Judd Apatow on this film at all, he certainly has a hand in it, as his influence is all over the film. However, unlike most of the movies that can certainly be grouped with this one, 'I Love You, Man' is a movie almost anyone can enjoy, even women and kids. It's the lightest, warmest, and the best for buddies of either sex to see. It's a delightful comedy that will make you laugh throughout and brighten your day.

Whether it be the great buddy chemistry between the leads, or the simply hysterical supporting cast, I found myself loving this movie. Like director John Hamburg's previous effort, 'Along Came Polly', the movie is incredibly likable because it relies on the awkward humor that Paul Rudd does pretty much perfectly, playing off the happy-go-lucky humor of Jason Segel.

Rudd is likable and reliable as usual in a role showcasing the best of his abilities (I really can't say how happy I am that he's finally getting leading roles), and unlike in 'Role Models', he's the undisputed lead here. Segel is a character in Rudd's story, his life, and his journey to find a friend, and essentially, become a complete person before his life changes for the better. Segel is at his best in a role as what appears to be the perfect friend (I would hang out with this guy for days). Rashida Jones is adorable and likable as Rudd's fiancé, and it's a role that most actresses would've over done (Jaime Pressly's performance should remind people of how it could've been over done), and Jones plays it with an ease that makes her likable.

The supporting cast is what makes the movie great. It's the foundation of characters played by Thomas Lennon, Joe Lo Truglio, Jon Favreau, Jaime Pressly, and Andy Samberg that completes the movie and makes it worth watching (because, let's face it, the movie wouldn't be that great if Rudd and Segel just sat around bro-ing out for 2 hours). Lennon and Truglio are hilarious as candidates for Peter's best man position, and Lennon will bring down the house as Doug, with his classic monologue about how he feels when his advances towards Peter are rejected. Truglio is great in yet another small cameo that stacks up with his previous appearances in 'Pineapple Express' and 'Superbad', as well as the icing on the cake that was 'Role Models' (he's an example of the whole "everyone will like this movie" thing. Jon Favreau is hysterical in his part as a cynical ass that makes you go, "this guy directed 'Iron Man'?".

I think the reason most people will like this one is because it'll put a smile on most people's faces. It's a generally happy movie that is a good movie to see in a group to start off a night, and is even a decent date movie. It's got jokes that even kids can like (though most of the film is obviously not appropriate for them...what I'm saying is if they HAVE to see one of these movies, this is the one for them). I really enjoyed this movie, it left a good taste in my mouth, and my friends loved it too.

62 of 107 people found this review helpful.  Was this review helpful to you?

Message Boards

Recent Posts
The one thing that bothered me... imdbuser1111
very racist abmonem14
Funniest moment ufx187
other great bromances steven-j-bond
Do you know any real-life Peter Klavens? Voice_of_Reason89
Gay kiss titch-2
Discuss I Love You, Man (2009) on the IMDb message boards »

Contribute to This Page

Create a character page for: