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He's Just Not That Into You (2009)

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The Baltimore-set movie of interconnecting story arcs deals with the challenges of reading or misreading human behavior.

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Cast

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Michelle Carmichael ...
Mother
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Crying 20-Something (as Kristen Faye Hunter)
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Consoling Friend
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Sorority Girl (as Zoë Jarman)
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Sorority Girl
Julia Pennington ...
Sous Chef
Renee Scott ...
Sous Chef
Chihiro Fujii ...
Tokyo Girl
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Tokyo Girl
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Jogger
Eve Curtis ...
Jogger
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Army Recruit
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Army Recruit
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Storyline

The needy Gigi Haim is a young woman seeking her prince charming somewhere amongst her unsuccessful dates. After dating estate agent Conor Barry, Gigi anxiously expects to receive a phone call from him. However Conor never calls her. Gigi decides to go to the bar where he frequents to see him, but she meets his friend Alex who works there. They become friends and Alex helps Gigi to interpret the subtle signs given out by her dates. Written by Claudio Carvalho, Rio de Janeiro, Brazil

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Are you the exception...or the rule?

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Comedy | Drama | Romance

Motion Picture Rating (MPAA)

Rated PG-13 for sexual content and brief strong language | See all certifications »

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Release Date:

6 February 2009 (USA)  »

Also Known As:

Simplemente no te quiere  »

Box Office

Budget:

$40,000,000 (estimated)

Opening Weekend:

£1,913,542 (UK) (6 February 2009)

Gross:

$93,952,276 (USA) (12 June 2009)
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Scarlett Johansson, Bradley Cooper, Jennifer Connelly, and Ben Affleck have all appeared in a superhero movie. Johansson played Black Widow in Iron Man 2 (2010), Marvel's The Avengers (2012), Captain America: The Winter Solider (2014), Avengers: Age of Ultron (2015), Captain America: Civil War (2016), and Avengers: Infinity War - Part I (2018). Cooper played Rocket Raccoon in Guardians of The Galaxy (2014), Guardians of The Galaxy 2 (2017), and is rumored to be in Avengers: Infinity War - Part I (2018). Jennifer Connelly played Betty Ross in Hulk (2003). Ben Affleck played Daredevil in the self-titled movie (2003), and also Bruce Wayne/Batman in Batman v. Superman: Dawn of Justice (2016), The Justice League Part One (2017), The Justice League Part Two (2019), and is rumored to be in a solo Batman movie (2019). See more »

Goofs

When Gigi and Alex are standing in Gigi's doorway, he is standing in the hall as they speak. One shot she is standing in the doorway, the next shot she is out in the hall as well, next shot she is in the doorway again and so on until the scene is over. See more »

Quotes

Gigi: Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up: if a boy punches you he likes you, never try to trim your own bangs, and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending. every movie we see, every story we're told implores us to wait for it: the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule. but sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. how to tell the ones who want us from the ones who don't...
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Connections

Referenced in Storage Wars Canada: Ursula's Just Not That Into You (2014) See more »

Soundtracks

Love, Save the Empty
Written by Erin McCarley and Jamie Kenney
Performed by Erin McCarley
Courtesy of Universal Republic Records
Under license from Universal Music Enterprises
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Not a bad date movie
12 May 2009 | by (United States) – See all my reviews

It is rare for a Boy meets girl movie to please people now days. I mean lets face it Harry Met Sally and Sleepless in Seattle set the bar so high that anything else will pale in comparison.

But to me this movie kind of shows now modern relationships work or don't work. If anything is a falter in this story it is that it trys to hard to show too many stories.

Sure there is X likes Y but Y likes Z but Z is married to A. Which is always entertaining.

Then there is the Ben Affleck / Jeniffer Aniston couple that may sum up most of the "couples" I know.

The whole mentioning of "new dating rules" is kind of cool to see that cell phones, emails, myspace and speeddating have replaced and re-written the rules for dating...and in some way made it harder not easier. Some people says this movie is full of stereotypes. In my opinion it covers just about all the realities in dating...especially dating in fast paced big city life.

What I liked though is the movie balanced "The Bad Guy" with "Bad Girl" Showing that there are breakups faulted by both sides. And there are regretful feelings for both Women and Men.

I would say rent it, hopefully you are not watching it alone.


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