ER: Season 13, Episode 21

I Don't (3 May 2007)

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What is suppose to be a departmental dinner organized by Kovac turns out to be the surprise of a lifetime for Abby when she soon learns it's a surprise wedding, secretly planned by the ... See full summary »



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What is suppose to be a departmental dinner organized by Kovac turns out to be the surprise of a lifetime for Abby when she soon learns it's a surprise wedding, secretly planned by the eager groom. Meanwhile, at the wedding, ER staffers enjoy themselves with music and booze while Neela finds herself the center of unexpected attention between Gates and Ray, which leads to a drunken fight and a shocking conclusion. Written by Marcos

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The song playing as Abby walks down the aisle is "Can't Help Falling in Love" by Elvis Presley. See more »


[about Neela's Punjabi "blessing" during the ceremony]
Hope Bobeck: What did it mean?
Dr. Neela Rasgotra: Uh... I wasn't really prepared...
Hope Bobeck: Don't be so modest! You were great!
Dr. Neela Rasgotra: Well, it meant, uh... "I went to the market to buy some meat, but the butcher wasn't there, so I bought fish instead." It was the only Punjabi I could come up with in a pinch.
Hope Bobeck: ...Okay. Let's just... keep that between ourselves.
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Can't Help Falling in Love
Written by George David Weiss, Hugo Peretti & Luigi Creatore
Performed by Elvis Presley
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I Don't (#13.21)
21 June 2015 | by (Canada) – See all my reviews

The episode had a great idea. It was awesome to have such a surprise of a wedding. It was not just a surprise for Abby but for me as a viewer as well. And it went great. I loved their ceremony as well as everything their guests were saying about them.

I could live without the fight between Tony and Ray. I can't get what is great about Neela character. She is annoying so have guys fight over her is absolutely silly. Especially when I think what she indirectly did to the woman Tony lived with before.

The ending tough was great. So I guess Ray is now killed off as well? Too bad I liked the character. But in a way it is correct that Neela killed him. Not directly again, but this is what happens to people involved with her.

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