I don't think the show is intended as an idealized view of life. The fact of the matter is that people lie constantly, and when it comes to the Wives Of The Unit, lying is a way of life just in the name of security.
Mrs. Ryan's view of the law is, IMHO, sadly all too accurate.
And when it comes to a mission, whether it's one that's been assigned or one that's been taken on voluntarily, the Honor lies in completing the Mission. To quote a character in the movie Ice Station Zebra, "I know how to wreck them (submarines), and I know how to lie, steal, kidnap, counterfeit, suborn and kill. That's my job. I do it with great pride."
Mrs. Ryan's view of the law is, IMHO, sadly all too accurate.
And when it comes to a mission, whether it's one that's been assigned or one that's been taken on voluntarily, the Honor lies in completing the Mission. To quote a character in the movie Ice Station Zebra, "I know how to wreck them (submarines), and I know how to lie, steal, kidnap, counterfeit, suborn and kill. That's my job. I do it with great pride."