Sex and the City: Season 3, Episode 12

Don't Ask, Don't Tell (27 Aug. 2000)

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When Miranda tries multi-dating, she quickly finds nobody wants a lawyer, while her same physique appeals as 'stewardess'- but then her date the doctor... At Charlotte's rehearsal dinner, ... See full summary »


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Episode credited cast:
Harris Bragen
Caleb McDougal
Joe La Piana ...
Date (as Joe Lapiana)
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Speed Date
Wedding Guest (unconfirmed)


When Miranda tries multi-dating, she quickly finds nobody wants a lawyer, while her same physique appeals as 'stewardess'- but then her date the doctor... At Charlotte's rehearsal dinner, Samantha hooks up with Trey's cousin Caleb, even if she can't understand his Edinburgh accent. Carrie is touched that Aidan created a love-seat as a wedding gift for her friend Charlotte; finally she gathers the courage to confess her infidelity with adulterer Big... Sleeping with Trey for the first time, Charlotte has a sleepless night before her wedding discovering he's barely interested in sex and semi-impotent... Written by KGF Vissers

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Charlotte gets married to Trey in this episode. See more »


When the girls are with Charlotte being fitted for bridesmaid's dresses in Vera Wang, shots of Carrie alternate between her black bra straps showing from under her strapless dress, and no straps visible. See more »


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Charlotte Gets Married
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Carrie struggles to find the right time to tell Aidan about her affair. Miranda tells a guy she's a stewardess in hopes of getting a date. Charlotte has her dream wedding and marries Trey MacDougal—even after attempted late-night tryst reveals Trey's serious shortcomings. Cunning linguist Samantha sleeps with Trey's Scottish cousin, despite being unable to understand him.

As the episodes continue,we get to see Carrie's relationship problems unfold and Charlotte fulfilling her dream of finally getting married.Both events provide sadness and joy respectively.To add humor to the episode,we get to see Samantha seduce Trey's cousin and Miranda pretending to be a stewardess to get a date.LOL

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