Detective Elliot Stabler: I go home and I'm supposed to tell Kathy about my day? 'Honey, today some guy cut a baby out of a woman's stomach, pass the gravy please'.
Detective Olivia Benson: So you just don't talk? You don't tell her anything?
Detective Elliot Stabler: Well one of us has to sleep at night. She thinks I'm shutting her out.
Detective Olivia Benson: You are. It's what you do, Elliot, and if you don't watch it, you're going to lose the best thing you have.