Donna Kozlowski: Some people believe that before we're born, when we're still in spirit form, we make a deal with the universe... choose the families we're born into. We have different reasons, based on the lessons we need to learn. I'm not sure what I was thinking when I chose mine. But, it's obvious why Judge Gray chose hers. I'm just really glad I could be a part of it. God bless us... every one.