Friends: Season 4, Episode 21

The One with the Invitation (23 Apr. 1998)

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As Ross and Emily send out wedding invitations, he and Rachel each look back on their relationship together.



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Episode cast overview:
Joey Tribbiani (as Matt Le Blanc)


Emily's surprised remark she wouldn't want her ex-lovers on the wedding unlike Ross who invites Rachel starts him reminiscing about him getting and losing Rachel. Everybody gets an invitation, but Phoebe may not fly during her pregnancy and Rachel feels it's just too hard for her, after reminiscing as well about her with and without Ross. Written by KGF Vissers

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When Ross is in his flashback, it shows him and Rachel in bed together when he screams, "We were on a break." However in this episode it actually shows them in bed, when in the original you could only hear his voice while the scene was in next room. See more »

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The One with the Invitation
11 August 2011 | by (Canada) – See all my reviews

The first of the crappy episodes made to save the budget.

We basically get to see the main parts of the Ross/Rachel relationship from each side.

Why would we want it? I rather rewatch the episodes from the past if I want to see those scenes again. And in this episode I would rather see something new and original Instead we don't even get to see anything that is new and funny.

Actually it is so bad that I don't even remember what else was in there except of the clips the next day.

One of the episodes not worth watching again

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