Friends: Season 4, Episode 21

The One with the Invitation (23 Apr. 1998)

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As Ross and Emily send out wedding invitations, he and Rachel each look back on their relationship together.



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Episode cast overview:
Joey Tribbiani (as Matt Le Blanc)


Emily's surprised remark she wouldn't want her ex-lovers on the wedding unlike Ross who invites Rachel starts him reminiscing about him getting and losing Rachel. Everybody gets an invitation, but Phoebe may not fly during her pregnancy and Rachel feels it's just too hard for her, after reminiscing as well about her with and without Ross. Written by KGF Vissers

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Ross' memories about Rachel happen out of order. The incident with Paolo's cat happened after the night Ross and Rachel did laundry together, but is shown beforehand in the sequence. See more »

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The One with the Invitation
11 August 2011 | by (Canada) – See all my reviews

The first of the crappy episodes made to save the budget.

We basically get to see the main parts of the Ross/Rachel relationship from each side.

Why would we want it? I rather rewatch the episodes from the past if I want to see those scenes again. And in this episode I would rather see something new and original Instead we don't even get to see anything that is new and funny.

Actually it is so bad that I don't even remember what else was in there except of the clips the next day.

One of the episodes not worth watching again

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