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The One with Phoebe's Wedding 

Monica is driving Phoebe insane as she plans Phoebe's wedding. At the rehearsal dinner, Phoebe gets really upset with Monica and fires her. The next day, Phoebe is going through hell doing ... See full summary »


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Monica Geller-Bing (as Courteney Cox Arquette)
Joey Tribbiani (as Matt Le Blanc)


Monica is driving Phoebe insane as she plans Phoebe's wedding. At the rehearsal dinner, Phoebe gets really upset with Monica and fires her. The next day, Phoebe is going through hell doing Monica's job. Chandler and Ross find out that they are not included in the wedding and when one of Mike's groomsmen can't make it, Mike lets Phoebe decide who should take the role. Phoebe passes the decision to bridesmaid Rachel however Mike makes his dog, Chappy, the missing groomsman. Joey is playing Phoebe's dad during the ceremony, and he takes it too seriously. There is a giant blizzard which threatens the event, but Phoebe and Mike decide to get married still when the blizzard stops. Phoebe gives Monica her job back. Chappy can't walk on the snow, so Ross carries him. The minister can't make it, so Joey volunteers to marry Phoebe and Mike & Chandler then plays Phoebe's father. Written by Anonymous

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12 February 2004 (USA)  »

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Interestingly, Phoebe's wedding is not attended by any of her relatives, such as her twin sister Ursula, her father Frank (Bob Balaban), biological mother Phoebe Sr. (Teri Garr), brother Frank Jr. (Giovanni Ribisi), sister-in-law Alice (Debra Jo Rupp), or the nieces and nephew she gave birth to. However, there was a huge blizzard and it's possible those people weren't able to make it. See more »


When Chandler and Pheobe get to the front of the set for the ceremony, we see snow on the back of Chandler's jacket from previous takes where the actor sat in a snow-covered chair. See more »


Phoebe Buffay: [Speaking her vows to Mike] When I was growing up I didn't have a normal mom and dad or a regular family like eveybody else. And I always knew that something was missing. But now I'm standing here today knowing that I have eveything that I'm ever gonna need. You are my family.
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References The Godfather (1972) See more »


(I Can't Help) Falling in Love With You
[Performed on steel drums as Bridesmaids and Groomsmen walk down the aisle at Phoebe's wedding]
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Decent but not great
19 January 2012 | by (United States) – See all my reviews

To be honest, I loved a couple episodes in 10th season. Like Ross's tan and of course the season finale. But this episode made me kind of dislike the way they portrayed each Friend. I know it's Phoebe's wedding, so she has a right to be angry at Monica for being so bossy (which is also way too drawn out, I wish they had shown Monica as slightly bossy but overall loving like she usually is), but I didn't like how Phoebe's character changed. I miss the old, hippie, adorable Phoebe of the first few seasons, and I hated that, at the beginning, she told Ross and Chandler that they're not a part of the wedding. She should've made them her "bridesmaids" it would've been adorable. I mean they've known each other for more than 10 years (since they were shown as all already being close friends in the Pilot episode) and Chandler told Phoebe FIRST when he planned on proposing to Monica. It was a little rude of her. Of course, Ross, Joey, and Chandler have their humorous moments which I love and Rachel is Rachel, but I did not like the way Monica is portrayed and the way Phoebe seemed so offhand about not having her two best friends in the wedding.

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