5 out of 5 people found the following comment useful :- Simply put: Brilliant!, 23 April 2003
Author:
Tord S Eriksson from Gothenburg, Sweden
This little film is about the young farmer, who lives alone on his farm and
seldom sees anyone, except the couple that on the other side of lake, if we
don't count the ghost of his mother, who has been dead a while.She gives him
advice in time of crisis, trying to make his life more
bearable.
A chance meeting when visiting his parents' grave, he exchange a quick smile
with a similarly lonely person, a young woman who is there visting her
husband's grave. This woman is totally unlike him, very urban, very modern,
having an intellectual job (librarian), with nil knowledge of the harsh life
on a small farm, but their relation, when it at last developes into
something - after many misses and misunder- standings - is very explosive,
and at times troublesome, as their two totally different ways of life clash
and interaction with their respective friends (simple farmers versus
intellectuals of various sorts) is not that easy. Neither are their totally
different goals in
life very compatible - he wants a family and she says she will not commit
herself at all!
Elisabet Carlsson, who plays the mondaine librarian, does so with such gusto
and feeling, so much humour and cold logic that she mostly reminds me of
Julia Roberts in Erin Brockovich.
The farmer is well played by Michael Nyqvist, who I personally
only
remember from minor roles before this.I doff my hat - as good
acting
as Niclas Cage in his better moments.
It also, I think,shows that the two are long time friends, as the entire
film is superb! Maybe the ending could have been different (it is different
from the book it is based on, anyway), but a car chase, where a guy is
racing to stop his great love disappear from his life, is always
OK!
I have never lauded a Swedish film before, but I do it this
time:
Go and see it, or buy it on DVD - it has English subtitles already! A must
to see, if there ever was one!
2 out of 2 people found the following comment useful :- This film gives a feel-good factor of 10 out of 10!, 7 July 2005
Author:
Ian Veal from Portsmouth, England
This Swedish film gives you a feel-good factor of the highest order. No
longer think, Swedish film, therefore culturally long-winded Ingmar
Bergman. This happy-go-lucky film takes you on a whirlwind tour of fun
and friviolity to sadness and seriousness and back again. You will love
the characters and the story lines. The pace is swift, never boring and
you hope that it will never finish. Watching and listening in either
Swedish or using the subtitles works very well. You will be telling
yourself that, yes, it is possible to watch a Swedish film twice! I
watched it seven times! It is a popular film for the members in the
Swedish language group that I attend. Did you enjoy the style of
Bridget Jones's Diary or Notting Hill? Then don't miss this film
either. I am ready for the sequel!
1 out of 1 people found the following comment useful :- Not really what I expected..., 29 June 2006
Author:
robin-korsstrom from Finland
I decided to give this movie a chance and saw it without pretty much
knowing beforehand what the plot was about. The movie is based on a
novel by Katarina Mazetti and it's about a farmer (Michael Nyqvist) and
a librarian (Elisabeth Carlsson) who meet each other at the graveyard
and soon starts a relationship. The reason they are visiting the
graveyard is because the farmer's mother is buried there and the
librarian's husband lies there. The movie isn't what you would call an
ordinary love story, it deals with cultural differences and different
lifestyles. The farmer is a quiet, reserved and very sloppy man with no
social life and she, the librarian, is a cultivated, intelligent and
energetic woman with no worries whatsoever. A very odd couple indeed.
The audience gets to see a story filled with differences between people
and how much it can affect their lives, but it also shows how it is
possible for people with different backgrounds to fall in love despite
what the odds say. Well the movie is predictable, but I must say I
really liked the final scene though. I must say I was kind of surprised
to see that Kjell Sundvall is the director of this movie. He's usually
known for making Swedish action-movies, but it's always nice to see a
director change his image from time to time. All romantics should see
this movie. I have to warn you though, it's forgettable. Michael
Nyqvist won a Guldbagge award for his performance as the farmer Benny.
2 out of 3 people found the following comment useful :- Just amazing!!, 13 March 2003
Author:
jennie1976 from Sweden
this is just lovely. This movie will warm your heart and soul! This
amazing feeling that Benny and his librarian share is really
something to search for! Watch it now, it's not just sweet..it's a
really funny movie too with such great lines!
The north of sweden as we know it, 24 March 2003
Author:
Whisky147 from Luleå, Sweden
This film is filmed in the north of swedens biggest city,
Luleå.
I'm from Luleå myself, and that makes it all so much funnier.
A farmer (played by Michael Nyqvist)meets a girl on the cementery, in the
sabbath next to his mothers. The eat a sausage and the whole film ends up
pretty good !
Quite a few laughs!, 30 September 2002
Author:
blixten_jenny from Linköping, Sweden
When Desirée, intellectual librarian with a mania for cleaning, meets and
reluctantly falls for Benny, busy farmer with 24 milk cows and a 95-hour
working week, everything is set up for a huge cultural clash. But what
can
they do when the sparks between them feels like "leaning against an
electric
fence"?
I thought that this dilemma was well illustrated, though sometimes a bit
exaggerated - I don't believe that talking with your mouth full is
typical
"farmer behavior" - and the differences in life style between the two
contracting parties gave rise to quite a few laughs in the movie theater.
This movie also clearly illustrates how our opinion about someone is
always
colored by our prejudice, even if it's just unconsciously.
I recommend this film to everyone who likes Swedish movies, and also to
those of you who, like me, are more sceptical to our nations film
industry -
this is a good one!
Sofisticated lady who likes espresso meet guy from farm land, 4 August 2002
Author:
qsatmor from Stockholm
A widow age 37 meets a guy at the church yard, she by her husbands grave
and
he by his parents (grabben i graven bredvid = the guy in the grave next
door). She is a sofisticated librerean, she likes her italian espresso
(with
a twist of lemon), he likes his tea by introducing some teabags in his
mouth, and placing the mouth under the hot water. This is a charming love
story between the town and the country.
1 out of 2 people found the following comment useful :- Lovely!, 22 December 2002
Author:
jennie1976 from Sweden
This is a truly lovely movie that warms the heart. Highly
recommended. Watch the love between the farmer and the
librarian grow and develop! This is the kind of movie that leaves
you filled with happiness and warmth. See it!
2 out of 4 people found the following comment useful :- As expected and what did you expect?, 22 February 2003
Author:
stensson from Stockholm, Sweden
Another Swedish movie from the Stockholm horizon about a small city in
the
north of Sweden. Sometimes one wonders if you are supposed to laugh at
the
province and be assured in your prejudices. Probably that's the creator's
idea.
This is about the dirty farmer who meets the librarian living an "unreal"
life, which he obviously isn't. There is absolutely no surprises here.
From
the beginning to the end you know what will happen the next three
minutes.
OK acting by Elisabeth Carlsson and especially by Michael Nyqvist, but
you
still feel disappointed like you thought you would.
4 out of 8 people found the following comment useful :- Excellent film!, 13 January 2004
Author:
Katja Marklund from Stockholm, Sweden
This film touched my heart in many ways.
This film has showed whatever the different world you may have, love
overcomes all the obstacles in the world.
There aren't so many films who can be so god like this one.
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5 out of 5 people found the following comment useful :-

Simply put: Brilliant!, 23 April 2003
Author: Tord S Eriksson from Gothenburg, Sweden
This little film is about the young farmer, who lives alone on his farm and seldom sees anyone, except the couple that on the other side of lake, if we don't count the ghost of his mother, who has been dead a while.She gives him advice in time of crisis, trying to make his life more bearable.
A chance meeting when visiting his parents' grave, he exchange a quick smile with a similarly lonely person, a young woman who is there visting her husband's grave. This woman is totally unlike him, very urban, very modern, having an intellectual job (librarian), with nil knowledge of the harsh life on a small farm, but their relation, when it at last developes into something - after many misses and misunder- standings - is very explosive, and at times troublesome, as their two totally different ways of life clash and interaction with their respective friends (simple farmers versus intellectuals of various sorts) is not that easy. Neither are their totally different goals in life very compatible - he wants a family and she says she will not commit herself at all!
Elisabet Carlsson, who plays the mondaine librarian, does so with such gusto and feeling, so much humour and cold logic that she mostly reminds me of Julia Roberts in Erin Brockovich.
The farmer is well played by Michael Nyqvist, who I personally only remember from minor roles before this.I doff my hat - as good acting as Niclas Cage in his better moments.
It also, I think,shows that the two are long time friends, as the entire film is superb! Maybe the ending could have been different (it is different from the book it is based on, anyway), but a car chase, where a guy is racing to stop his great love disappear from his life, is always OK!
I have never lauded a Swedish film before, but I do it this time: Go and see it, or buy it on DVD - it has English subtitles already! A must to see, if there ever was one!
2 out of 2 people found the following comment useful :-

This film gives a feel-good factor of 10 out of 10!, 7 July 2005
Author: Ian Veal from Portsmouth, England
This Swedish film gives you a feel-good factor of the highest order. No longer think, Swedish film, therefore culturally long-winded Ingmar Bergman. This happy-go-lucky film takes you on a whirlwind tour of fun and friviolity to sadness and seriousness and back again. You will love the characters and the story lines. The pace is swift, never boring and you hope that it will never finish. Watching and listening in either Swedish or using the subtitles works very well. You will be telling yourself that, yes, it is possible to watch a Swedish film twice! I watched it seven times! It is a popular film for the members in the Swedish language group that I attend. Did you enjoy the style of Bridget Jones's Diary or Notting Hill? Then don't miss this film either. I am ready for the sequel!
1 out of 1 people found the following comment useful :-

Not really what I expected..., 29 June 2006
Author: robin-korsstrom from Finland
I decided to give this movie a chance and saw it without pretty much knowing beforehand what the plot was about. The movie is based on a novel by Katarina Mazetti and it's about a farmer (Michael Nyqvist) and a librarian (Elisabeth Carlsson) who meet each other at the graveyard and soon starts a relationship. The reason they are visiting the graveyard is because the farmer's mother is buried there and the librarian's husband lies there. The movie isn't what you would call an ordinary love story, it deals with cultural differences and different lifestyles. The farmer is a quiet, reserved and very sloppy man with no social life and she, the librarian, is a cultivated, intelligent and energetic woman with no worries whatsoever. A very odd couple indeed. The audience gets to see a story filled with differences between people and how much it can affect their lives, but it also shows how it is possible for people with different backgrounds to fall in love despite what the odds say. Well the movie is predictable, but I must say I really liked the final scene though. I must say I was kind of surprised to see that Kjell Sundvall is the director of this movie. He's usually known for making Swedish action-movies, but it's always nice to see a director change his image from time to time. All romantics should see this movie. I have to warn you though, it's forgettable. Michael Nyqvist won a Guldbagge award for his performance as the farmer Benny.
2 out of 3 people found the following comment useful :-

Just amazing!!, 13 March 2003
Author: jennie1976 from Sweden
this is just lovely. This movie will warm your heart and soul! This amazing feeling that Benny and his librarian share is really something to search for! Watch it now, it's not just sweet..it's a really funny movie too with such great lines!
The north of sweden as we know it, 24 March 2003
Author: Whisky147 from Luleå, Sweden
This film is filmed in the north of swedens biggest city, Luleå. I'm from Luleå myself, and that makes it all so much funnier. A farmer (played by Michael Nyqvist)meets a girl on the cementery, in the sabbath next to his mothers. The eat a sausage and the whole film ends up pretty good !
Quite a few laughs!, 30 September 2002

Author: blixten_jenny from Linköping, Sweden
When Desirée, intellectual librarian with a mania for cleaning, meets and reluctantly falls for Benny, busy farmer with 24 milk cows and a 95-hour working week, everything is set up for a huge cultural clash. But what can they do when the sparks between them feels like "leaning against an electric fence"?
I thought that this dilemma was well illustrated, though sometimes a bit exaggerated - I don't believe that talking with your mouth full is typical "farmer behavior" - and the differences in life style between the two contracting parties gave rise to quite a few laughs in the movie theater. This movie also clearly illustrates how our opinion about someone is always colored by our prejudice, even if it's just unconsciously.
I recommend this film to everyone who likes Swedish movies, and also to those of you who, like me, are more sceptical to our nations film industry - this is a good one!
Sofisticated lady who likes espresso meet guy from farm land, 4 August 2002

Author: qsatmor from Stockholm
A widow age 37 meets a guy at the church yard, she by her husbands grave and he by his parents (grabben i graven bredvid = the guy in the grave next door). She is a sofisticated librerean, she likes her italian espresso (with a twist of lemon), he likes his tea by introducing some teabags in his mouth, and placing the mouth under the hot water. This is a charming love story between the town and the country.
1 out of 2 people found the following comment useful :-

Lovely!, 22 December 2002
Author: jennie1976 from Sweden
This is a truly lovely movie that warms the heart. Highly recommended. Watch the love between the farmer and the librarian grow and develop! This is the kind of movie that leaves you filled with happiness and warmth. See it!
2 out of 4 people found the following comment useful :-

As expected and what did you expect?, 22 February 2003
Author: stensson from Stockholm, Sweden
Another Swedish movie from the Stockholm horizon about a small city in the north of Sweden. Sometimes one wonders if you are supposed to laugh at the province and be assured in your prejudices. Probably that's the creator's idea.
This is about the dirty farmer who meets the librarian living an "unreal" life, which he obviously isn't. There is absolutely no surprises here. From the beginning to the end you know what will happen the next three minutes. OK acting by Elisabeth Carlsson and especially by Michael Nyqvist, but you still feel disappointed like you thought you would.
4 out of 8 people found the following comment useful :-

Excellent film!, 13 January 2004
Author: Katja Marklund from Stockholm, Sweden
This film touched my heart in many ways.
This film has showed whatever the different world you may have, love overcomes all the obstacles in the world.
There aren't so many films who can be so god like this one.
The actors are very good in their rolls.
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