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7/10
Good human drama
grantss13 December 2021
Good human drama. Solid directorial debut from Todd Field. Pacing is a bit uneven though: the movie moves along fairly slowly for about 75% of its length, and then suddenly speeds up, and changes direction to a degree, towards the end.

Excellent performances all round. Sissy Spacek, Tom Wilkinson and Marisa Tomei deserved their Oscar nominations.
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7/10
a good movie, but whoa...
ImmortalCorruptor21 June 2002
I'd heard of this from the Oscars, as well as other critical sources. I've heard it was an awesome movie that will go down in history. It was a great film, but whoa...we got a little carried away here.

This is a great movie. Not because of the story, nor the directing...the greatness is the result of the abilities of the actors. If this were cast with a lower caliber of actors, it would've been a blah film that wouldn't have had much mention.

But there were the actors. They tore it up for this. There was no over acting, no playing it down for "less is more". Everyone in this film is someone you can believe in, they're all people you've met and live with. At times it was painful to watch how real the characters were, because of their reactions to the story, but that's life, and this was a quiet film with honesty in mind. It never insults your intelligence. Not once.

My only beef with this was the timing. The directing was good. That's all I can say. The actors were directed perfectly, but the timing seemed a bit slow in some places. It felt as though sometimes a point was made and a mood was established...again...and again...and again...etc...

Besides the fact that the movie needed a shave, I'd recommend it to anyone who enjoys a thriller with it's feet planted well in reality. But only for the abilities of the actors, nothing more.
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6/10
Fantastic Pain
kbumbulis22 January 2002
I sat through this film with my girlfriend who'd been talking about it for weeks. I'd heard wonderful things about the acting and little else. Now I know why.

Let me say the actors were all wonderful. As opposed to most movies, I actually felt I was watching real people. The performances were very believable. And for me, that alone was the salvation of the film.

I don't know the actual length of the film but I can tell you it was long and it felt it.

Part of this is due to the subject matter. If your idea of a good film is watching people suffer for 2 hours, THIS IS YOUR FILM. The movie is a well done character study of misery and grief. Even my girlfriend who loves a good cry found the movie to laborious and depressing. I'll say again; the film is a FANTASTIC, WELL ACTED exercise in the details of misery. For some, this may make it a great film. And in many respects this probably qualifies it as a fantastic film. But, perhaps as I'm getting older, I find less need or desire to focus on the hardships of life. And when I actually venture into a theater to watch a film; I want to escape. This movie makes you ponder grief. And frankly, who needs a movie to do that?

If you want to judge a film entirely on the merits of cinematography, acting, maturity and meeting its goals; this film deserves a much higher rating then I gave it. (I gave it a 6) Matter of fact, part of me feels guilty for the low score I gave it.

On the other hand, while technically it was a well made film, I was glad when it was over and don't feel better having seen it. (Other then appreciating that a film actually portrayed real characters) The subject matter was too depressing. The pacing was too slow. I released a sigh of relief when it ended.
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One of the Most Magnificent Films of the Decade
marcelbrooks21 January 2009
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David Mamet, Eric Bogosian, Alexander Payne, and a million other misanthropic storytellers in film and out are all obsessed with familiar literary conceits regarding the middle-class and their American equivalent in Suburbia. The would-be cultural critics who point their pens and cameras on the American bourgeois insist this glossy sheen covers a subdura of rot and horror. Think of the opening scene in Blue Velvet — the camera leers at a pristine lawnscape before sinking into a layer of munching insects. But satirists, especially weirdoes like Lynch and Todd Solondz, often lack subtlety when brutalizing their subjects. Todd Field has beaten them all by doing the opposite, by pulling us so close to the drama we're blinded with ambivalence. Few films have been more disturbing, more quietly devastating.

Field's debut, In the Bedroom, based on an Andre Dubus short story, applies a scalpel to the internal and external horrors of a Maine seaside hamlet. Dr. Matt Fowler (Tom Wilkinson) and his wife, Ruth (Sissy Spacek), live quiet, relatively happy lives, respected in the community as people a bit better than their present stations. Matt is a family practitioner, a man of gentile affability who yearns for everyone to like him, something a family doctor yields easily; he's generous and naïve to a fault. Ruth is a bit more complicated — a former academic and professor, she's been reduced to pawning her knowledge of Eastern European folk music onto a high school choir, something she probably resents. Theirs is a well-meaning but facile relationship — they've long since stopped telling the truth in favor of being nice to one another. And both are somewhat guilty of projecting casual disappointments onto their son, Frank (Nick Stahl).

Frank is a general success story — a bright young kid possessing the self-effacing affability and good looks impossible not to like. His parents, and indeed the rest of the community, adore him. What Frank lacks in brute masculinity he makes up for in sexual prowess; he's run through a string of girlfriends, but the latest his parents find troubling. Natalie (Marisa Tomei) is a much older, freshly separated (but not divorced) mother of two young sons. Frank is allured by Natalie's beauty and unassuming nature; Natalie is allured by, well, everything Frank is. It's easy to see how the relationship would be mutually flattering, but Natalie is probably Frank's way of rejecting his parents. Ruth thinks the relationship is socially detrimental and will ultimately distract Frank from the architecture school he's poised to leave for at summer's end. Matt is concerned as well, but too proud of his son for romancing a woman he and his friends see fit to ogle. Matt beams with pride, even when his son damns him for marching eagerly in his own father's footsteps.

To complicate matters, Natalie's not-quite-ex-husband, Richard (William Mapother), lurks in the fringes. If Frank is impossible not to love, Richard is impossible not to hate. He's the worst kind of man, whose brute anger and stupidity are matched by a slight physical ugliness, drunk with an entitlement so internalized he can't fathom when others don't give him what he wants. Natalie has left him, but he barges into her home regularly and harangues her for not wanting him, let alone canoodling with a younger man. Richard represents the brute atavism found in lower-class caricatures; he even says at one point: "No, I don't change; everything around me changes." Field hints that class miscegenation is at the heart of this conflict, but only just. Richard's family wields some power and money, but from a decidedly lower social echelon. In any case, it will only end in Frank's blood. And when that end comes, it's more harrowing than any horror film. Field blankets the entire film with dread, with suggestions of violence both emotional and physical. The middle section of the film, wherein Matt and Ruth confront a grief they're incapable of dealing with (who would be?), is as troubling as the actual death. The two can't talk to one another, to console or to blame, as each holds the other responsible for Frank's death; did Ruth push too hard or Matt not enough? Their marriage suppurates under guilt and resentment, and Field doesn't sully the atmosphere with actual words, but lets the emotions play in an understatement that mirrors Bergman or Ozu. Ruth wants to reach out to someone, to express the inexpressible. Matt, like so many men, can't describe what he feels even when he wants to; mostly he tries to pretend nothing has happened. I've never seen a portrait of grief to match In the Bedroom's quiet desperation.

When the words finally arrive, they're screamed and hissed, the tension erupting from its horrible concealment. And maybe the two can forgive one another, but the sheer injustice of their loss gnaws at them, all the worse when it seems Richard will get off on a lenient manslaughter charge. Matt is galvanized with the masculine drive to fix things somehow, to mend his marriage and avenge their wrong at the same time. And with regards to the middle-class expressing the inexpressible, his options narrow to a grim inevitability.

Richard's death, so implicitly yearned-for by character and audience, is nothing to celebrate; it's as horrible and damning as Frank's. Revenge might restore the balance Matt and Ruth yearn for, but the damage it will surely wreak on their humanity is truly disturbing. Field has crafted a vision of bourgeois America of devastating darkness — that lower-class crimes of passion will be met with a savagery borne of cruel calculation: which one is really worse? In the Bedroom is a film of horrifying human truths, executed with patience and skill, and all of it should break your f*cking heart. It is one of the most magnificent films of the decade.
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9/10
A Lesson in Acting
Hitchcoc14 October 2009
This movie was so well done, I felt as if I were an outsider, looking through someone's window. Then the tragedy occurs, we were treated to what probably would have happened after a crime of passion, the imprecision of the evidence, the lack of a witness, and the ability of the perpetrator to avoid prosecution. Mostly the movie is about acting. Sissy Spacek is amazing, so tightly wound and in control. Her somewhat passive husband becomes her foil until the fuse is lit. Then it all comes to a head. I can't imagine living through something like this where your allies become so worthless. There is a scene where the prosecuting attorney jingles his change and looks at his watch while spouting a bunch of meaningless jargon about justice. The father goes catatonic while this is happening. Things play out like they do in life; there are no winners and no losers.
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9/10
Not a False Moment to Be Found. Stunning.
rddj052 November 2008
Every once in awhile, a filmmaker comes along and adds a pitch-perfect sensibility to a compelling story, well-written script, and perfect cast. This has happened with In the Bedroom. Though I saw, and enjoyed, director Todd Field's 2nd feature, Little Children, when it came out a few years back, I was truly astounded by In the Bedroom.

At a time when Americans' tastes in films are getting more and more juvenile, In the Bedroom is that rare film; one aimed adults. The characters and story line is compelling, the shots kept simple, yet beautiful, and the feel of the film is as real as most you will see. In the Bedroom would fit in perfectly with the some of the films from golden age of the 70s film-making. Unfortunately, we are seeing this less and less of those types of films these days.

It is hard to find a false moment, whether in dialogue or behavior, in this film. It deals with circumstances that we hear about every day, yet is no less captivating because of it. We are not clobbered over the head with the moments we are meant to feel deeply, yet they are apparent and often devastating to watch. There is an old saying, "you know the truth when you see it", and that certainly applies to this film. There was a knot in my stomach the entire first 30 minutes of the film, as director Field slowly builds to something you know is inevitable, and almost can't bare to watch.

Excellent performances turned in by Spacek, Wilkinson, Tomei, as well as all the supporting players. Proof, once again, that actors often make some of the finest directors.
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7/10
A literate film, but a disappointment nevertheless
richards105219 February 2002
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First, let it be said that this field is superior to 90% of what emanates fr. Hollywood these days. It is literate, with intelligent, thoughtful characters. Cinematography of the Maine coast is gorgeous.

However, the plot of this film which takes a terribly tragic direction could have been warmly emotional & far more engaging. If you haven't yet seen the movie, pls. stop reading here.

After the son's death, the parent's could have developed a supportive relationship w. Marisa Tomei's character & her two sons. After all, I feel that Marisa Tomei & the son's (her lover's) character are far more engaging & hopeful than Spacek & Wilkinson's as the parents. Instead, the parents take an astringent & unforgiving direction, making the film excruciatingly spare. Neither provides us anything, by the film's conclusion, which allows us to sympathize w. them. And their decisions at the film's ending (to kill their son's murderer) are so extreme & bizarre as to be off putting. I found them both to be uninvolving characters ultimately making the film uninvolving as well.

After reading the NY Times rave review I really wanted (& expected) to like this film. But I really did not like it at all.
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10/10
perhaps not my favorite film but a perfect one.
vabalos21 February 2004
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A dark story told with amazing weight and balance, it is cinematically perfect. Aside from the excellent performances by Wilkinson, Spacek and Tomei, it is

Field's film. He uses a deft touch to examine the lives of a couple devastated by loss. The perfection of this film lies in the small touches, the subtle gestures, the powerful symbolism that Field displays throughout. Even the most powerful

moment, the shooting, is done off camera. It isn't so much what you see, its what you don't, what Field implies throughout the film. He creates moments in this movie that convey complex emotion through subtle actions. The film creates

unsettling scenes without being disturbing. Reflections of actors moving as if underwater through their lives, we see them caught in the windows of their

home, ghosts in their house and in their lives, struggling to cope until the film's resolution. Attempting to heal each other and themselves through a single act of redemption that seems at the same time surprising and inevitable. It isn't my favorite movie, but i still think it's as close to a perfect film i've seen.
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6/10
Disappointing
TheDiva80221 February 2002
I went to see this film with much anticipation, given the excellent reviews and Oscar nominations. While it is much better than most of the juvenile fluff out there, I don't understand the hype. The acting is solid, with Tom Wilkinson being exceptional among the cast. It was great to see Sissy Space again, but I found her character to have one emotional note throughout and her character's cigarette smoking was completely unnecessary and distracting. I find the positive comments about the cinematography odd, since I found myself paying attention to the camera angles too many times; if I notice, it's not subtle enough for my taste. My main complaint is that it was just too long.
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10/10
Delivers what Movies are meant to deliver.
pdvincit26 August 2008
I have friends who do not want to see dark movies. Too depressing, given the news these days. I can understand that.

But farce grows quite tiresome. Clever repartee is fine sometimes. Action films are frequently exhausting and you can only watch so many cars, trains, planes and buildings explode. Plus, you are hungry an hour later.

This movie is a rare opportunity to miss excessive violence, pratfalls and smart-mouthed kids, teenage titillation, explosions, chases, stock characters, overacting and thin plot contrivances.

Enjoy a movie where the characters are complex, the actors spot-on in their craft, and the story is compelling.

Or don't. "Independence Day" is probably on cable somewhere.
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6/10
So Near And Yet So Far...
LaurieMann19 January 2002
The first 3/4ths of this movie has some of the most quietly glorious film-making I have ever seen. The capture of the look and feel of small-town Maine was perfect, and the flinty nature of many of the characters was also very well captured. I could go on and on just about the way the lighting, even the selection of the kinds of violets in the home was just right.

The movie was sweet, then very sad, but the first 3/4ths of the movie was also very, very true.

And that's why the last quarter of the movie is such a huge disappointment. I kept waiting to hear a seductive female voice say "Open Your Eyes..." but it just didn't happen.

Sissy Spacek, Tom Wilkinson, Mariesa Tomei and Nick Stahl are all wonderful. Go and watch them. And as soon as you see a character do something completely unreal, walk out then. Or wait until you can rent it and fast forward once the scriptwriter and director decide it's time to start showing a rather different kind of a movie.
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9/10
something's going on in the bedroom
Evil_Will_Hunting10 December 2002
9 out of 10

Watching Todd Field's feature film debut `In the Bedroom,' I could not help but be impressed by the sheer audacity of the film, by the spot-on performances, and by the many twists and turns that no critic should reveal. Yet amidst all the film's obvious strengths, there was still something missing-something to tie it all together, something to endow the film with more than just a fleeting impression.

Ironically perhaps, I was provided this missing bit of information not by the film, but by a male audience member sitting at the end of my aisle, trying to explain the point of the film in less than derogatory terms to his female companion.

`You're missing the whole point of the film,' he said. `It was all about men being controlled by women.'

No doubt he read this interpretation from someone else's review of the film (and what a sweet piece of justice it would be if that critic were a woman). It is quite possible that he was not even aware of the ramifications of what he had said. But this man's legitimacy aside, his statement has not left me since, and the film in turn has had the same luck in escaping me.

We are first introduced to Frank Fowler (Nick Stahl, `Bully') and Natalie Strout (Marisa Tomei, `My Cousin Vinny'), he a young college student with no immediate plans to settle down, she an older divorcee raising two children. They are in love, though for Frank she is little more than a `summer fling.' Meanwhile Natalie's ex-husband, Richard (William Mapother, `Mission: Impossible 2'), is unwilling to let her out of his life, and begins to be physically abusive to Frank. Frank's parents, Matt (Tom Wilkinson, `The Full Monty') and Ruth (Sissy Spacek, `The Straight Story')-both in top form here-show appropriate concern for their only son, and they intervene in this dangerous love triangle with unexpected twists and tragic results.

The film jumps about in tone from a light romantic romp to a seeming political treatise to a creepy, nocturnal thriller. Some have criticized the film for this alleged inconsistency in tone, slow pacing, and a deliberate ending. But these naysayers have overlooked the point.

Frank may not even really love Natalie, so much as he loves being controlled by her and sating his mother by being with her. Richard becomes a threat to everyone because he is unwilling to let Natalie consider him out of her life; he is a slave to her whim. The resulting tension reveals a rift between Frank's parents, and in particular, his father's actions in the end demonstrate a helpless allegiance to his wife and her command.

Field, who up until now has been primarily an actor (he was the piano player in `Eyes Wide Shut'), understands these important points but does not beat the viewer over the head with them. He presents a reality more raw and true than any other piece of film in recent memory. Yet he does so with a restraint that Hollywood seems to have forgotten. Most of the film's violence is overheard or implied, and only explicitly shown when necessary for the audience to completely understand what has happened. This allows for more subtle details, like a bridgekeeper who must run around in circles to alternate traffic between the road and the sea, to emerge as truly haunting, lasting images.

But `In the Bedroom' is not about any of these things. It is, first and foremost, about its characters. It does not fall prey to plot mechanics, nor does it flinch at exploring even the most sympathetic characters' darkest sides. For this and so many other reasons which are best left discussed behind closed doors between loved ones, `In the Bedroom' succeeds at turning the camera on flawed relationships of all forms, and it is one of the best films of the year.
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6/10
Interesting idea unfulfilled
KALKevin5 February 2002
In the Bedroom features a dramatically interesting premise. How do a father and mother, who have not been open to their son's relationship with an older woman (who is not yet divorced and who is raising her young son alone), deal with the grief when that relationship results in their son's death?

As such, In the Bedroom could have been an incredible look at grief and the grieving process that a family goes through when losing someone who was on the verge of becoming a successful young man. But In the Bedroom takes a tangential turn in its third act that, in my opinion, undermines the film's premise. It also leaves some of its characters (including two of its main characters) grossly underwritten and underdeveloped.

Tom Wilkinson is truly great (and the main reason to see the film) as the young man's father who seeks relief for his grief through ways that actually lower him to the level of the man who killed his son. Sissy Spacek is good, although her role is one of the two that lacks any depth whatsoever. We are told by Wilkinson's character (after the fact) that she has been a cold-hearted, selfish woman. Yet we haven't really witnessed anything that would prepare us for that revelation. This is, of course, not Spacek's fault. She tries hard in her role and comes off very well, but the intricacies of her character are absent in the writing.

The same goes for Marisa Tomei, as the young mother whose ex-husband has killed her new boyfriend. She gives it her all in a dramatic and very well-played role. But the role, like Spacek's, is underdeveloped and literally disappears with one quarter of the movie still left to go. And her disappearance leaves a large, gaping hole in the development of not only her character, but also of the Spacek character.

A great deal of praise has been heaped on In The Bedroom, and normally such universal praise would indeed signal a praise-worthy movie. But while In The Bedroom has some fine scenes and excellent performances, it is lacking a great deal when it comes to character development. It also forces its hand with overt dashes of "symbolism," such as the title reference and a final shot that does nothing short of hit you over the head with its meaning, almost as if the filmmakers are screaming, "Do you get it?"
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1/10
Absolutely Terrible
WriterDave25 February 2003
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I wanted to like this film so much, but I can't help feeling that I was cheated out of two hours of my life that I can never get back. The main problem lies in the fact that this is supposed to be a realistic look at tragic events in a small town and the emotional devastation two parents feel over the murder of their son. Yes, most of the acting was naturalistic and nuanced, but I didn't buy for a single moment any of the main turn of events. I blame this on a hackneyed script and over confident director (Todd Field seemed to be screaming "Oh, look at me, I can do long meditative shots of pretty drapes blowing in a breeze, oh, aren't I artistic?").

*SPOILER ALERT* I did not believe that Marisa Tomei's character would seriously date a college age boy. I also did not believe that her ex-husband would actually kill him (beat him up and harass him, yes, but shoot him...I just did not see that in the character). Finally, I did not believe that Tom Wilkinson's character would seek out revenge in the fashion that he did. The scenes that were supposed to be chilling and revelatory were for me just plain predictable and unrealistic.

As for the acclaimed acting, it was good given the "made-for-TV-movie" plot they were stuck in. I think Marisa Tomei was better, however, playing a similar character in "Unhook the Stars." Tom Wilkinson was solid, but he still didn't make me believe that he was capable of doing what he did in the end. As for Sissy Spacek, for me she was simply method acting, and was far better doing it in a supporting role like the one she had in David Lynch's "The Straight Story."

It's amazing that two god-awful films were nominated for best picture for 2001. While this film is horrible, at least it isn't in the running for worst picture of all time on my list like the stupifying "Moulin Rouge."
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When Tragedy Strikes.....Chaos Strikes.
tfrizzell22 May 2002
First-time director Todd Field's "In the Bedroom" is a dark and disturbing film which is both a joy and a trial to sit through. Recent high school graduate Nick Stahl is having a little bit of fun during his last summer of freedom. He is seeing Marisa Tomei (Oscar-nominated), a woman twice his age who has young children and is separated from her shady husband (William Mapother in an appropriately chilly performance). Mother and music teacher Sissy Spacek (Oscar-nominated) worries about the relationship while father and town doctor Tom Wilkinson (also Oscar-nominated) shrugs off the partnership as a simple summer fling. When tragedy strikes, the simple life in Camden, Maine turns into chaos for all involved. "In the Bedroom" is one of the roughest films I have ever watched. It is a movie that is thought-provoking in the fact that everything seems so normal and yet darkness looms overhead for the primary characters in the film. The fact that the film takes place in rural Maine just makes it that much more scary. When one thinks of situations from the movie occurring, few think of a place like Maine. Much like "Fargo", "In the Bedroom" shows that bad elements are everywhere, even in the most unlikely of places. However, be warned that "In the Bedroom" does not go for the black humor that "Fargo" went for. This is a film that will chill you to the bone. It is a must-see and easily one of the top five or ten films of 2001. 5 stars out of 5.
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10/10
Revenge shown to be illusion in this realistic work.
Erick-1218 November 2003
The film is, as all the critics say, emotionally involving, wrenching and all that. Acting is natural and realistic, down to the nitty-gritty. The valuable and rare thing here is that the story works against the most common plot at the movies today: the revenge plot. Here instead, revenge gets a more ambiguous and thoughtful treatment. We are accustomed to being flattered as an audience, sent home feeling good that "our" side wins in the end against the evil. In this film that stereotypical and simplistic Good vs Evil is taken apart. The revenge leaves us feeling unusually unsettled, which is a very good thing in a deeper sense.
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9/10
a real modern classic
JudgeMalone2 January 2004
A rarity in modern cinema, In the Bedroom is a movie for thinking adults that is one of the most thorough yet subtle examinations of violence and its consequences I've ever seen. Tom Wilkerson gives a masterful and restrained performance, and Sissy Spacek and nearly everyone else is uniformly excellent. Although it is a searing and unflinching look at nearly unspeakable grief, it is poignant and thoughtful and even has scenes of humor if you are ready for it. Todd Field's screenplay is one of the most brilliant in recent memory. I really wish we had more mature stuff like this coming out of Hollywood. Powerful films that deal with violence and its aftermath and meaning like this make films like Kill Bill look even more repellent than they already are.
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6/10
The small town seaport of Camden, Maine rivals Peyton Place as a setting for romance and jealousy.
claytonlowe15 November 2001
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****Contains Spoilers**** How director Todd Field (TV series: "Once and Again") gets so much right in his first feature film, "In the Bedroom," but lets it slip away is only one of the mysteries to be solved in this slow-moving story about wife abuse and retaliatory murder.

Marisa Tomei ("What Women Want"), an estranged wife and mother of two young boys, and Nick Stahl (TV series: "Seasons of Love"), her grad school bound younger lover, get the movie off to a fast start with an energetic romp in a meadow on the outskirts of the seaside village of Camden, Maine.

Okay, it's a bit clichéd, but their sensuous roll in the grass is so joyful it's hard not to celebrate their passions with them. Seize the moment, there'll be no such joy to be found elsewhere in the film.

The cinematic portrait the director paints of New England small-town life --its piney woods, its rocky harbor, its everyday people-- is Andrew-Wyeth authentic. Plain, simple, straightforward, there's no doubt he's captured the sense of this place and has a strong feeling for its inhabitants. But like the outsiders who invade David Mamet's picture post-card town in "State and Main," the leading cast members of "In the Bedroom" never quite blend in with the scenery.

Tomei is a cashier in a convenience story, seemingly happy with her blue collar lot - except when bothered by her husband (William Mapother), who's angry about her relationship with Stahl. Stahl is a talented artist whose parents want him to go to grad school, but he's thinking of keeping on with his summer job as a lobster fisherman.

Sissy Spacek is an efficient mom, controlling wife, and leader of the girl's high school chorus. The dad (Tom Wilkinson) is the town doctor with a comfortable practice but happiest when he's out on the lobster boat with his son or playing cards with his cronies - who deliver up the movie's most genuine moments.

Only the son seems to know his mom has turned his dad into an errand boy. But when he is killed (murdered?), we miss the pensive energy he brought to the film. Just as we miss the energy of Tomei when she disappears from the script and the angry mother and grieving father become the film's central focus.

From here on out the plot becomes melodramatic, the characters overly confused, and the movie slowly collapses under its own weight.

Though Sissy Spacek has received the kind of praise originally heaped upon Mary Tyler Moore for her performance in "Ordinary People," Spacek's role in "In the Bedroom" has a Norman-Rockwell simplicity that conceals the depth of character she's truly capable of portraying.

The same could be said about the movie itself - "In the Bedroom" promises more than it delivers.
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10/10
A Subtly Brilliant And Restrained Film About Human Nature, Instinct, And Emotion...
leyward12 February 2006
Everything about this film is wonderfully done, from the restrained direction and acting, to the inexorable progression to tragic conclusion following preceding events. All the actors and acting are excellent, with a particularly subtle and brilliant portrayal by Tom Wilkinson as Dr. Fowler. Always great, he is, in my estimation, one of the unsung and underrated actors in film today. Sissy Spacek is also wonderful, and the inevitable emotional fall-out in their relationship after their shared experience is beautifully done. Very human - and very real.

Though difficult to watch, it is a great film, great story, with great performances all around by gifted actors. Not to be unsung are the excellent performances by Marisa Tomei, and all the other supporting actors. A film that would benefit one to watch more than once, there is that much substance there. Worth paying particular notice to is the opening metaphor in the scene on the lobster boat where Tom Wilkinson (Dr. Fowler) explains the nature of how a lobster-trap works - and the name the lobster-men (and tradition) have given to the inner part of the trap. This is the metaphor for the human story that will, tragically, unfold.

A great film, with great work all around. Todd Field is a director to remember.
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7/10
This is beat out Memento??
Kineshanko25 February 2002
How could this pretty good movie beat out the outstanding Memento for a Best Picture Nomination? This is not an Oscar movie!! The acting was good, especially the lead male actor. Sissy didn't do anything that great, just moped around angry. This movie is overrated.
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9/10
Slow....very, very slow.....and unpleasant....but exceptional.
planktonrules3 November 2013
"In the Bedroom" is a rather unpleasant and very slow film. I guarantee that many folks will not want to watch this film or will give up partway through it. This is because although the movie is exceptionally well made, it's also incredibly sad and its pace is like lead. Now this isn't really a complaint--just some reasonable observations about the film. So, keep this in mind before you decide to watch.

The film begins with a relationship that seems rather irrational and doomed. A married woman with children is getting a divorce. In the meantime, she's having a relationship with a young man who appears to be about 18 or perhaps 19. The woman (Marissa Tomei) is significantly older and the young man is supposed to be going off to college--and his mother (Sissy Spacek) naturally wants the young man to focus on school and not this still-married woman. Soon, the estranged husband returns and begins pressuring the wife to take him back--and he becomes very violent. The wife and the boyfriend are morons--they don't go to the police and the husband's behavior escalates until he murders the young man. All this occurs in the first third of the movie and the rest of the film consists of showing the parents (Spacek and Tom Wilkenson) dealing with their grief. Neither really talks about it and they internalize their pain and become distant from one another. However, rather unexpectedly, the movie takes a very drastic and violent turn at the end--one that is quite satisfying to see but which also is difficult to watch.

It's important to point this out, the portrayals of the parents coping with their grief is incredibly well done and realistic. But who wants to see this? Not most folks. In many ways it reminded me of "Rabbit Hole"--another amazingly well acted film about parental grief that is brilliant but difficult to watch. And, since most folks don't want to be THIS depressed, they're movies you should think twice about before you watch. Exceptional....and unpleasant.
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7/10
other than that, it's very good
oaksong8 January 2002
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SPOILER !!!!!!!!

The plot fails. It took me three days to figure out why. There was a substantial amount of misdirection involved. The issue: Richard RETURNS to the house to kill FRANK. That makes it premeditated, for which bail might have been allowed, but it would be substantially higher, and the possibility of getting off virtually nil. The prosecutor clearly failed to sufficiently interview the witnesses to have missed this.

To hang the plot on the factual assertion of Frank's wife becomes irrelevant, once this is realized.

END SPOILER !!!

Sissy was wonderful. Tom Wilkinson was very good, given some of the issues. Nick Stahl is quite believable as a malleable youth.
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9/10
An acting masterclass
adsdmnel20 March 2006
An exceptional film which emulates the astounding talents of Tom Wilkinson. I thought he was OK in The Full Monty, but he is exceedingly well cast in the role of father who is grieving inside the loss of his only child. Tom acts with intelligence and resounding compassion as a man driven to revenge. The film is delivered and directed with a slow build up of tension towards a shocking and absorbing climax. This film offers great performances from the ensemble of actors and is directed intelligently. It maybe a tragic and slow film but it will leave the audience empathising with the characters rather than sympathising with them. A truly remarkable and contemporary film.
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7/10
Somewhat Slow But Still Worth While
Theo Robertson20 August 2003
The premise for IN THE BEDROOM is absolutely no different from umpteen bland TVMs I`ve seen . The producers are almost certainly aware of this so they`ve decided to make a slow , moody haunting film . There`s a great deal to admire in this descion but unfortunately this doesn`t lend itself to an engrossing entertaining film , but seeing as this movie wasn`t produced for mass entertainment in mind it shouldn`t be taken as a criticism

One very valid criticism that can be fired at IN THE BEDROOM is the editing which has a very jarring quality: Cut to fishing boat , cut to barbacue , cut to interior of house , cut to etc which I found very irritating while there`s a scene with Matt Fowler talking to his wife Ruth in the kitchen which cuts from Matt walking out of kitchen to bedroom where Ruth now lies in bed reading a book ! There`s basically nothing to indicate this is an entirely different scene . I also have a minor problem about the way Matt Fowler is written , he`s Doctor Matt Fowler but never comes across as being a white collar professional as he`s seen fishing out at sea , chopping wood and playing cards with blue collar types . I know America prides itself on being a classless society but Doctor Fowler comes across as too egaliterian

Despite this minor flaw in characterisation Tom Wilkinson gives an outstanding performance as Matt Fowler . If you don`t know this already let me point out Wilkinson is a Brit best known for his supporting role in the totally overrated THE FULL MONTY but he`s totally convincing as an American in this film and it`s great to see an actor play their role in such an understated way . The rest of the cast are equally good and everyone manages to communicate the grief their characters are going through.

I did criticise a point in the script earlier but - Despite being somewhat slow - the script is a good one devoid of melodramatic nonsense that could have so easily have infected it and contains nice little touches like when Matt sees the name " Strout " and gives a haunted look after being reminded of his grief . It`s something I can relate to when a simple word reminds me of loss . I guess everyone can relate to this too .

So IN THE BEDROOM is a good film , but it should be pointed out you`ll be disappointed if you watch it expecting a feel good movie
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4/10
Someone Scooped Lifetime TV
mswatsoninc1 February 2007
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You want to hear dedication? I was watching this film when the power went out at the theatre. Most didn't even bother to reschedule, but, I wanted to desperately. Why, you ask--I'll tell you...Sissy Spacek, Marisa Tomei, and Tom Wilkinson were crafting "In The Bedroom" to be, what all the critics had told me, a fantastic film.

The premise was there. An older, recently divorced mother (Marisa Tomei) had fallen for a much younger man...who happened to be the son of two people (Wilkinson and Spacek), that were apposed to the relationship on paper, but, loving their son as they did, they were willing to overlook the disadvantages and support their son's decision as much as they could. They are destroyed when their son is killed by Tomei's disgruntled and abusive ex. When Spacek and Wilkinson find themselves in the lawyers office, finding out that the culprit will not be punished severely enough for them, the power went out...needless to say, I was hooked and wanted to see how this film wound up to a critically lauded finish.

So, two hours later, I return to the theatre.

How do they wrap this film up? By having Spacek and Wilkinson conspire to kill Tomei's ex. The father takes him into the woods and kills him. I suffered through totally short scenes with no dialogue, silent portraits of Spacek moping, and a fade in, fade out still scenes of Wilkinson and Spacek not communicating to have it wind up with an untidy ending that showed not only a lack of creativity, but, a total insult to moviegoers who were expecting more than the writers were able to deliver. It was random. It was inane. It was sloppy.

Lifetime Television does this type of plot on a week in, week out basis. I'd hardly call their results noteworthy, and the same could be said for this film.

To call it disappointing would be an understatement.
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