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My First Mister (2001)

A 17-year-old girl has a troubled relationship with a 49-year-old man.



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Cast overview, first billed only:
Woman at Apartment
Natasha Braisewell ...
Girl in Vintage
Randall - 'R'
Jack Taylor - Salesman
Mr. Smithman
Nic Costa ...
Blaine - Surfer Boy
Woman at R's Store
Mrs. Benson
Chadwick Palmatier ...


Jennifer does not fit in. A total misfit, she's as wacky as a teenager can be. Goth-ed out with multiple piercings, tattoos, and dyed hair, she listens to strange music, watches vintage TV, eats primarily chocolate, and self injures. But now high school is over and she needs a job. Can she possibly have anything in common with the overweight middle-aged man in the haberdashery window? He gives her a job, not to mention a real friendship. Written by Martin Lewison <milst1@yahoo.com>

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Mismatched. Misguided. Unmistakably friends. See more »


Comedy | Drama | Romance

Motion Picture Rating (MPAA)

Rated R for language and some sexual material | See all certifications »

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Release Date:

26 October 2001 (USA)  »

Also Known As:

Educando a J.  »

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Box Office

Opening Weekend:

$102,456 (USA) (12 October 2001)


$621,377 (USA) (19 April 2002)

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Aspect Ratio:

2.35 : 1
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J has 4 copies of Anne Rice's "Interview With the Vampire" books on her table as well as The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy (erotic BDSM novels) by Anne Rice published under the pseudonym of A. N. Roquelaure. 'LeLe Sobieski', who plays J in My First Mister, purportedly auditioned for the role of Claudia in the film version of Anne Rice's Interview With the Vampire but lost to Kirsten Dunst. See more »


Reflected in the glass of the VW Beetle as it's being towed by the pickup truck. See more »


Randall ("R"): [on his deathbead] I want you to go to college. It's really important, okay?
Randy Harris, Jr.: Did you?
Randall ("R"): Yes.
Randy Harris, Jr.: What did you learn?
Randall ("R"): Give me a second, I'll think of it.
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References Knots Landing (1979) See more »


All the Way
Written by Sammy Cahn & Jimmy Van Heusen
Courtesy of Maraville Music Corp.
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Sweet movie - BAD title!!
3 April 2005 | by (California) – See all my reviews

This movie is very cool if you like alternative, angst ridden teenagers trying to do good. The title is awfully deceptive because there is nothing illegitimate about the "older guy - younger girl" relationship at all - here's a short synopsis: Alternative goth chick meets conservative store manager. Neither of them have a life outside of work so they slowly learn to hang out together. The rest kind of falls into place as they see how "the other half" lives, and make each other better people. Great movie to watch with your parents (no drugs or sex) and sweet for an pick-me-up kind of movie. The soundtrack is cool too - it has the great older tunes like Sinatra and such - along with some Marilyn Manson and then some reggae as well.

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