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My First Mister (2001)

A 17-year-old girl has a troubled relationship with a 49-year-old man.



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Cast overview, first billed only:
Woman at Apartment
Natasha Braisewell ...
Girl in Vintage
Randall - 'R'
Jack Taylor - Salesman
Mr. Smithman
Nic Costa ...
Blaine - Surfer Boy
Woman at R's Store
Mrs. Benson
Chadwick Palmatier ...


Jennifer does not fit in. A total misfit, she's as wacky as a teenager can be. Goth-ed out with multiple piercings, tattoos, and dyed hair, she listens to strange music, watches vintage TV, eats primarily chocolate, and self injures. But now high school is over and she needs a job. Can she possibly have anything in common with the overweight middle-aged man in the haberdashery window? He gives her a job, not to mention a real friendship. Written by Martin Lewison <milst1@yahoo.com>

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Mismatched. Misguided. Unmistakably friends. See more »


Comedy | Drama | Romance

Motion Picture Rating (MPAA)

Rated R for language and some sexual material | See all certifications »

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Release Date:

26 October 2001 (USA)  »

Also Known As:

Educando a J.  »

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Box Office

Opening Weekend:

$102,456 (USA) (12 October 2001)


$621,377 (USA) (19 April 2002)

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2.35 : 1
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Did You Know?


Michael McKean and 'Christine Lahti' worked together before. They were in rehearsals for a partly-improvised comedy film titled "Kiss the Bride." The project never came to the silver screen. It would have been directed by Bob Balaban. See more »


When J is talking to Randy from her car after first meeting him, the door is open from his point of view but closed from hers. See more »


Jennifer ("J"): Death touched her lips to say goodbye and to always remember the man who touched her first, touched her with his heart. That is forever hers, my first mister. A man of few words. Life of more questions than answers. He awoken me my heart which beats stronger because of him and all that he has left me.
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References The Munsters (1964) See more »


Written by Steve Proctor and Lindy Layton
Performed by Hardknox (as Hard Knox)
Courtesy of Jive Electro Records
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A Little Gem, With an Awful and Vulgar Title
8 September 2006 | by (Rio de Janeiro, Brazil) – See all my reviews

Jennifer Benson (Leelee Sobieski) is a seventeen years old misfit punk teenager that uses piercing, tattoos, wears only black clothes and dyed hair, self-inflicts injures and has fixation for death. She misses a father and a normal mother, since Mrs. Benson (Carol Kane) has trouble in the communication with her, and feels absolutely rejected. While looking for a job, she meets the forty-nine years old Randall Harris (Albert Brooks), a lonely man who owns a shopping store, and he hires her. They are opposites but with loneliness and lack of friends in common. They become close friends, and their interaction changes their behavior for good while secrets and feelings are disclosed.

This is the second work of the excellent underrated actress Christine Lahti as director that I see (the other one is the short "Lieberman in Love"), and also a surprisingly great movie. The original and the Brazilian titles are simply awful and vulgar, and do not mirror this sensitive story of loneliness and friendship. Leelee Sobieski has another great performance in the role of a disturbed and rebellious teenager, needy of love and care, who changes her behavior when she meets her soul-mate friend in a middle-age man. I am not fan of Albert Brooks, but he is great performing Randall Harris, the man who touches Jennifer in the heart. In the end, a toast to all special "F" words: to friends, family, fate, forgiveness and forever. Wonderful and touching! My vote is eight.

Title (Brazil): "Meu Primeiro Homem" ("My First Man")

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