Relax... It's Just Sex (1998)

R  |   |  Comedy  |  10 June 1998 (France)
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A mixed group of individuals - lesbian, gays, and heterosexuals who all frequent a local bar struggle to accept each others lifestyles. However when the two gays are attacked and fight back... See full summary »


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Cast overview, first billed only:
Vincey Sauris
Buzz Wagner (as T.C. Carson)
Emile Pillsbury
Robin Moon
Megan Pillsbury
Tara Ricotto
Alicia Pillsbury
Sarina Classer
Auntie Mahalia
Jared Bartoziak
Eddie Garcia ...
Javi Rogero
Timothy Paul Perez ...
Gus Rogero
Diego Tellez
Gibbs Tolsdorf ...
Dwight Bergman
Marcia Fu


A mixed group of individuals - lesbian, gays, and heterosexuals who all frequent a local bar struggle to accept each others lifestyles. However when the two gays are attacked and fight back and ultimately rape one of their attackers, the group becomes strongly divided on their actions. Jennifer Tilly is the mother hen of the group who tries to hold everyone together. The lesbian lovers break up when one admits to having an affair with a man. Written by John Sacksteder <>

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Motion Picture Rating (MPAA)

Rated R for strong sexual content, language and a scene of violence | See all certifications »




Release Date:

10 June 1998 (France)  »

Also Known As:

Nyugi, ez csak szex!  »

Box Office

Opening Weekend:

$269,167 (USA) (30 April 1999)


$452,654 (USA) (10 December 1999)

Company Credits

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Aspect Ratio:

1.85 : 1
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The china used in the movie belonged to Steven J. Wolfe's grandparents. See more »


Tara Ricotto: Hello Vincey, it's me, Tara... guess what? Javi and Buzz just had a huge fight. According to Javi it was more dramatic than Gone with the Wind. So, let me tell you exactly how he told me, but ya have to swear not to tell anyone. Get ready for this Vincey, cause I know it's going to be a real shocker, but they are arguing about H... I... V, big surprise, right? Buzz, he pulled another Larry Kramer with Javi's doctor, so Javi's all and then Buzz is all and that's when Javi goes and they are going...
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Crazy Credits

Selected Clothing for Javi and Additional Cast Members provided by Pop Icon/Herbie Velez See more »


References Julia (1977) See more »


Written by Bonnie Warren & Anthony Newett
Performed by Anthony Newett & Rich Orr
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Shines In Theatre
7 March 2005 | by (United States) – See all my reviews

This was a very fun and heartfelt film. There is a better energy when watching this in a theatre with others. I noticed that it lost some of its energy when watching at home on video.

The characters are endearing and you will find yourself drawn to all of them. This is well written and acted. A crafty and adept mixture of humor and heartfelt drama. There are many films that get a gay following, but this film outclasses most of the. I strongly recommend this film. It has stayed with me for so long now since I saw it numerous times at an independent theatre in Houston. I keep up with the careers of the actors and director of this film and anxiously await their future work. I think this could work very well as a TV series or sequel. I think it is just hard for me to say goodbye to these characters!

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