Dear Jesse (1998)

Can you go home again? What if you're a gay man and home is a state where voters keep electing a homophobe to the US Senate? In 1996, at age 30, native son Tim Kirkman returns to North ... See full summary »

Director:

Tim Kirkman

Writer:

Tim Kirkman

Stars:

Nathan A. Barbour, Karen Brown, Patsy Clarke

2 wins & 4 nominations.

Cast

Credited cast:
Nathan A. Barbour	...	Himself
Karen Brown
Patsy Clarke
Hal Crowther
Jaki Shelton Greene
Allan Gurganus	...	Himself
Jesse Helms	...	Himself
Jerry Kirkman
Tim Kirkman
Jerry McGee	...	Himself (as Dr. Jerry McGee)
Ann Pierce
Matthew Shepard	...	Himself
H. Mitchell Simpson	...	Himself (as Dr. H. Mitchell Simpson)
Lee Smith	...	Herself
Eloise Vaughn

Storyline

Can you go home again? What if you're a gay man and home is a state where voters keep electing a homophobe to the US Senate? In 1996, at age 30, native son Tim Kirkman returns to North Carolina to explore the parallels and differences between himself and Jesse Helms: they're from the same town and college, with media interests, from families blessed by adoptions, Baptists by upbringing. Tim puts his camera in front of his family, a boyhood pal, college friends, his pastor, Helms fans, community activists, novelists Lee Smith and Allan Gurganus, a mayor who's gay, and people in the street, including a brief interview with Matthew Shepard. What is it to judge, and what is it to love?

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Plot Keywords:

gay | north carolina | adoption | religious intolerance | homophobia | 

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Taglines:

A homophobic senator. A gay filmmaker. A different kind of love letter.

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Genres:

Documentary

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Details

Country:

USA

Language:

English

Release Date:

10 October 1998 (USA)

Filming Locations:

North Carolina, USA

Box Office

Opening Weekend:

$3,748 (USA) (2 October 1998)

Gross:

$16,875 (USA) (16 July 1999)

Company Credits

Production Co:

Bang Productions, North Carolina Film Foundation

Technical Specs

Runtime:

82 min

Did You Know?

Connections

References The Andy Griffith Show (1960)

User Reviews

A touching and eloquent documentary

Like many people, I know who Jesse Helms is... and I basically despise the man, but coming from Canada I did not really have an idea of what it must be like to grow up in a State that kept his man in the Senate for decades. This documentary is not just about homophobia...that exists more or less everywhere - but it is also a glimpse into the "religious" and racist South - where the film-maker comes from and where he went back in order to make this documentary.

What strikes me most in this film, mainly - but not only made up of talking heads - is the erudition of the people he interviews. Most of them are talking off the top of their heads, but they nevertheless come across as deep and extremely eloquent. I especially liked the first black girl to go to a white school in the film-maker's town; she reads a poem that she wrote as a student - supposedly for the first black to become a mayor (if I remember rightly) but in fact it is an amazing cry from the heart against Jesse Helms. Wonderful stuff! Many of the other people interviewed were as eloquent, and it was often very touching. Or occasionally more revealing than expected.. One of the best moments is when a Republican supporter of Jesse Helms is asked to explain what it is about Jesse that makes him like the Senator. The man is obviously so used to "knee-jerk" reactions that he is almost incapable of making a sentence... he is totally flummoxed by the question and struggles to find something to say. In his long silences, there is more eloquence than the man intended about what kinds of people vote for Jesse!

The film-maker himself is also very eloquent, especially in the beginning and ending of his film. He talks about himself openly and simply, but to great effect. This documentary would be an excellent tool for teachers in schools to use to start discussions about so many topics. If it were made obligatory viewing for everyone, Senators like Helms might just not continue to get elected.