This movie shows another side to spousal abuse that not too many people thought is possible--the husband being abused and the wife the abuser.

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This movie shows another side to spousal abuse that not too many people thought is possible--the husband being abused and the wife the abuser.

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14 March 1993 (USA)  »

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Büszke férfiak  »

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Laura MacAffrey: Ed, what are you going to tell everyone - about why we're splitting?
Ed MacAffrey: [after a long pause] The truth.
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Men Don't Tell
13 October 2006 | by (United States) – See all my reviews

while male spousal abuse is a very real thing, it's like racism against whites - not reported or considered even an issue, much less a problem. Writing that, I found this movie EXTREMELY funny- the over-top-performances and the way she beat the hell out of him at the Christmas tree- BWAHAHAHAHA! Judith Light ROCKS - she needed to beat the hell out of Tony and show him WHO'S The Boss!! Seriously, anyone who takes this movie seriously really really needs to RUN and NOT walk to a therapist. Stop watching Oprah and get over the sad thing that happened to you. Life isn't fair, especially if you keep letting the past drag down an otherwise happy present or future


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