This movie shows another side to spousal abuse that not too many people thought is possible--the husband being abused and the wife the abuser.

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Ed MacAffrey
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This movie shows another side to spousal abuse that not too many people thought is possible--the husband being abused and the wife the abuser.

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14 March 1993 (USA)  »

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Büszke férfiak  »

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Ed's bruises change from scene to scene. See more »

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[last lines]
Laura MacAffrey: Ed, what are you going to tell everyone - about why we're splitting?
Ed MacAffrey: [after a long pause] The truth.
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I have real love 4 it , truthful and real w/ life problems
8 July 2002 | by (ohio) – See all my reviews

I love to watch violence just like anyone else who is a desentized freak of my generation. I thought this movie was going to like any other domestic abuse shocker, cept it was about a GUY!, i realized after the first half hour that this was as a real concern as female abuse and that it was real, it broke some mental barriers and also showed how even after the struggle and shocking abuse this man(a 9-5er)can also heal.

It was able to show reality, sadness and pain. It was a real heart tugger


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