From "The L Word: Lap Dance (#2.2)"
[Dana and Tonya have gone to see Dana's parents to get their blessing for the wedding
] Sharon... I was engaged once before, I don't know if Dana ever told you.
No, she didn't.
Well... it was with a man. His name was Bayard. He was smart and successful... he was a real estate lawyer. He was totally in love with me. Now, I tried really hard to make that one work. But every night I would wake up in the middle of the night, crying. And one night, Bayard woke up and he found me like that. Do you know what he did?